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What is the most important thing <> interact with people?
I think it should be character and kindness, people with good character can get the help of noble people, realize their value earlier, and kind people will live as a beam of light, shine on others, and get good rewards.
My friend Sister Wang once told a story of her own. The story is simple, but it changed her life.
Sister Wang is a sales officer of a car company, but her performance is very poor, and she is often criticized by the leadership.
Once, Sister Wang met an old man who fell down on the way from work, the old man tried to stand up, but he didn't try for a long time, there were many people present, but no one was willing to go up to help.
In fact, everyone knows what they are thinking, and they are afraid of being relied upon, not only delaying their efforts but also being blackmailed for money. Seeing the old man's painful appearance, Sister Wang helped the other party up without thinking about it, not only that, but also sent the other party to the hospital, and left when she was settled.
Everyone said that Sister Wang was too stupid, and she wouldn't be able to eat and walk around.
This matter passed quickly, and Sister Wang didn't take it to heart. I thought that this matter would disappear like this, but the old man still found it.
Of course, the old man didn't come to slander Sister Wang, but to thank him, not only sent a pennant, but also ordered 3 cars here for Sister Wang. At that time, Sister Wang was stunned, she didn't know what to do, and she couldn't say the words of thanks.
The old man said, "Girl, you don't have to say anything, just because of your kindness, you can't be wrong with the products you sell." ”
Later, Sister Wang told me that she had always thought that although people had not done good deeds, they had already gone far away, and they could not imagine that people who were good would naturally embrace happiness.
Every good person has never sought a reward, the reason why they did it at that time was just to follow their own hearts, and only by doing so would they feel comfortable, and the reward was completely unexpected.
Chen Guo, a famous teacher at Fudan University, once gave a lecture on the theme of human kindness. She said that those who really know how to be kind and put it into practice will live as a ray of light, which I particularly agree.
However, in such an era, it is really not easy to be a person with light in his heart.
Two years ago, a thrilling scene occurred at the Jiang'an Yangtze River Bridge in Yibin, Sichuan. A woman dressed in red couldn't think of jumping into the river to commit suicide, hanging on the outside of the bridge, and almost fell.
Faced with this situation, the well-meaning citizens passing by, hand in hand, formed a "human flesh rope" and grabbed the woman.
In about a quarter of an hour, the woman was finally safely pulled to the bridge, and this 15 minutes of scrambling became the most heartwarming picture in the cold winter.
In the face of a woman who had never been known in her life, the stranger used a pair of thick and powerful hands to pull back a life, and also warmed a heart that was on the verge of despair.
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In the end, he will live like a depressed person, because the world does not seem so kind, he may be bullied because of his kindness, and he may be depressed if he can't think about it.
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Really kind people must live very well in the end, because they treat others very kindly, others will treat them well, and they will live very happily.
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A truly kind person will eventually live as he wants, and I believe that such a life will be very beautiful, no matter what kind of life it is, as long as you choose it, don't regret it, because regret is useless.
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A truly kind person will eventually live as he ideals, and a person who always thinks about others will also be grateful to others, and good things will also fall on him.
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In the end, he will live a particularly successful life, because this person is very kind and will be treated well by others.
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A truly kind person will eventually live an optimistic and cheerful life full of kindness to the world.
This is the path of life determined by the heart, and this kind of person treats the world with kindness, and will also gain a lot of goodwill in life.
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A truly kind person will be very liked by everyone, and no matter where you go, there will be people who are willing to contact you, talk to you, and respect you.
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In the end, they will live a very successful life, and their lives are also very fulfilling, and every day is very happy.
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In the end, the appearance of life is that everyone loves and flowers bloom, because the vast majority of people are willing to associate with kind people.
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Summary. 1。Too many facts are proving that people who are too kind often end badly.
People have bad roots, and the more you treat them, the more dissatisfied they will be, and they will feel that you have not given enough. Therefore, people can't be kind, but kindness must be limited, don't be too kind.
What happened to those who were too kind in the end?
1。Too many facts are proving that people who are too kind often end badly. People have bad roots, and the more you treat them, the more dissatisfied they will be, and they will feel that you have not given enough. Therefore, people can't be kind, but kindness must be limited, don't be too kind.
2。Some people have some things that they don't mix if they can, and don't mix them if they can. Being a good person may get a momentary gratitude, but after a long time, you will find that it is very unworthy.
When you are full of joy and want to find a friend who has helped you, you find that people have long avoided you and forgotten you. Originally, you wanted to pass on your love to everyone, but all you got was neglect and neglect, which was really not worth it. To be a man, you should have a little temper, and it's actually good to be selfish, at least you won't suffer.
Hope mine is helpful to you.
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Summary. Hmmm, hello, kind people, like soft water, insist on going low, but when you encounter the embankment that blocks it, you can also overflow;When you encounter a canyon, you will also roar;On the cliffs, it becomes spectacular.
What is it like to be a truly good person.
Hmmm, hello, kind people, like soft water, insist on going low, but when you encounter the embankment that blocks it, you can also overflow;When you encounter a canyon, you will also roar;On the cliffs, it becomes spectacular.
Uh-huh, hello, what's the problem, please leave a message, because the official setting everyone has 2 hours of answering time will be automatically closed at the point, this is our teacher, can't control it, I'm sorry, please pay attention to the time.
A woman's circle of friends, both do good and work hard, you will find that the world will treat you well, do you think this person is high level, high rank, high level.
Uh-huh, hello, she may have sent something that triggered her inner feelings.
You feel that this person is very level, and then the rank is very level, and the rank is very level.
Uh-huh, hello, I can see from this or something, I can only see that she has to work hard.
She has made sixteen pounds in three or four months, do you think she is amazing, she has made money for three or four years, has a house, and a car, and then sends this.
Mmmm, she's pretty good.
Do you think this person is a potential stock?
Well, people have potential, and as long as you work hard, you will get what you think.
She posted a woman in her circle of friends, she can't even control her weight, you can control the others, and defeating yourself is more valuable than winning anything, what do you think of this person.
Uh-huh, hello, she should be full of hope for the future and have this hard-working mentality.
The level is not high, and you feel a little bit of it.
Uh-huh, hello have 5 points.
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Honor your parents and pay for your parents.
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People who are too kind are actually irresponsible.
Kindness represents your unconditional trust in others, but not everyone deserves your trust
If you are kind to people who shouldn't be kind, wouldn't that hurt you?
Being defenseless against people, speaking nicely is kindness and innocence, and speaking badly is naïve and ignorant.
Conversely, a person who is not kind is a responsible person.
If you hire a security guard, you have to hire someone who is not easy to talk to, so that you can rest assured.
If you hire a security guard, who is very talkative, and who does not dare to offend people without principles, will you rest assured?
What is kindness?
Possibly a kindness? Good-hearted?
Those who sacrifice themselves to save others are very great, and self-sacrifice for others can be described as great love.
But how sad their parents, wives and children must be.
From their point of view, is it irresponsible to leave them to save someone they don't know?
It's hard to be kind, and the hard thing is that it's hard to balance the kindness in your heart with the hurt in the outside world.
We must not extinguish the goodwill in our hearts, nor can we be hurt by the malice of the outside world.
I remember that in a certain issue of "Wonderful Sayings", Bai Bonnie said: "There are many bitter people in their hearts, and how much sweetness they need to fill it." ”
After listening, Ma Dong retorted: "You are wrong Bonnie, there are many bitter people in your heart, and a trace of sweetness can fill it." ”
Just like sometimes kindness doesn't take much, a little bit is enough to show your kindness.
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This question involves a question of human nature and value judgment. My view of Zheng Jinhail is:
1.Kindness is a beautiful human quality that is to live a higher quality of life for oneself and others. Therefore, a kind person should be true to his nature and not change easily because of changes in the outside world.
Kindness enables people to have a sober and calm mind, which is conducive to the benefit of both things and ourselves.
2.However, kindness is not the same as foolishly letting others take advantage of you. Kind people also need to protect themselves reasonably and establish the necessary precautions after detecting the malice of the outside world.
If you encounter malice everywhere and you don't guard against it, you will only become a tool for others, which is not true kindness.
3.Kind people will inevitably be bullied by unkind people, and then you need to discern the situation. If he is injured by the fault of the other party, he should avoid these people to avoid further harm.
But if it is a misunderstanding caused by the ignorance of the other party, a kind person can choose an attitude of tolerance and education.
4.Human nature is inherently good, and most people can still be grateful and reciprocate kindness. Therefore, although there will be times when kind people are taken advantage of, but more often, kindness and shouting sails will be reciprocated by kindness, and a kind life will often reap happiness and beauty because of good deeds.
So, I think good people should be true to their nature, but it doesn't mean blindly being slaughtered. You need to be smart about the situation, protect yourself reasonably, and believe in the goodness of human nature, and kindness will eventually be reciprocated. With a kind heart, life will be better and more fulfilling.
Kindness should not be easily given up because it is not treated well, and its value is far greater than the individual small losses.
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