Why can t you use your own ruler to measure the lives of others?

Because everyone's life is different, and their tastes are different, for example, your family is very poor, and every time you buy clothes, you buy about 100 yuan, and you know a rich girl with millions of wealth in the family, and others casually pay tens of thousands of yuan for a piece of clothing, what right do you have to tell others that they shouldn't buy such expensive clothes?

Because one's own ruler is suitable for one's own life, and other people's lives naturally have other people's way of living, there is no need to use one's own ruler to measure others.

Because the scale of one's own ruler may not be the most accurate, it is very likely that it will be biased to measure the lives of others, and it will not be able to give others an objective and fair evaluation.

Each of us and each of us has different attitudes and definitions towards life. Sometimes, you don't necessarily understand the happiness of others. We can't define others by what we think.

Because one's ruler is not necessarily completely correct, and the scale is not necessarily very modest, it seems unreasonable to measure other people's lives.

Because everyone's attitude towards life is different, you must not use your own ruler to measure the lives of others, and do not criticize the lives of others.

Because everyone is unique, what you like may not be liked by others, and what you have may not be owned by others.

People are not the same, and if you measure other people's lives by your standards, it is disrespectful to other people's lives.

Measuring oneself with a ruler means knowing oneself correctly, having self-knowledge, and knowing how big a bowl of rice you can eat.

Demonstrate a deeper knowledge and understanding of oneself by reflecting on one of your own states. Recognize the various problems that exist in your body, and discover these problems, find out how to solve these problems, and change your shortcomings to make your life more perfect. At the same time, by knowing yourself, understanding yourself, and then making up for your own shortcomings and shortcomings, you will have the opportunity to be more successful.

Confucius said: "If you don't suffer from others, you don't know yourself."

I don't know who I am. "And my thoughts: people are valuable and self-aware.

Self-knowledge is an essential requirement for a person's success. Lin Xiangru is witty and brave, and he is not disgraced by his tongue.

Lian is quite far-sighted and cares about the danger of the country, and the crime of pleading and pleading is similar to Lin and has become a friend of the neck; Zhuge Liang.

Familiar with astronomy and geography, accurate analysis of the enemy's and our military situation, in order to borrow arrows from grass boats to complete the demanding mission. They not only know people, but also know themselves, so that they can succeed.

Everything in nature has its own seasons and its own beauty. People are the same, they also have their own unique texture and direction. At the end of the day, everyone is different. You are in your world, I am on my planet, and no one is in the way of anyone.

You must have seen the fable of a father and son riding a donkey: the father rode a donkey, and people said that this was the cruelty of being a father; The son rode on a donkey, and people said that this son was not filial; The father and son rode the donkey together, and people said that the hearts of the two men were really ruthless, and the donkey was pitiful; In the end, the father and son simply walked, and people said that the two were stupid.

Everyone's mouth was a ruler, and the father and son walked down the road, not knowing what to do with themselves and the donkey.

There is a kind of ruler that is hidden in the bottom of people's hearts, invisible and intangible, but it is spying on others all the time, defining whether others are living well or not, and measuring whether others are living correctly, but in this world, there has never been a ruler to do all the energy of life.

Your hobbies are not his, and your values are not his. Don't use your ruler as a weapon to judge others arbitrarily; Don't use your ruler as a reason to interfere with others; Don't use your ruler as an excuse to hurt others.

The world is very big, and there are many ways to live, and we only have the right to live our own lives. Your ruler can only be used to define yourself; Other people's rulers can only define themselves.

Don't use your own ruler to measure the life of don't accompany Bi and others, and don't let other people's rulers affect your own life.

Let you be who you are and let others be someone else.

Mr. Yang Jiang once said:

God will not let all happiness be concentrated on a certain person, love may not have money, money may not be happy, happiness may not be health, health may not be as desired. ”

In this life, it is impossible for people to take all the benefits of the world and get what they want forever. Sister, although her husband is very good to her and loves her very much, the family's income is also good, everything seems to be so perfect, but the son is an authentic scumbag, my sister often says that my father is so good, and my grandfather is also the principal of a village primary school, and half of the family's income is used to enroll my son in tutoring classes, but his grades still have not improved, and my sister often has a nervous breakdown.

My sister is married to a rich man, and her brother-in-law's family used to have assets of tens of millions. However, an extramarital affair of the father-in-law triggered a battle for the assets of a wealthy family, and the younger sister and brother-in-law's family left the house with nothing but a house, and the brother-in-law was seriously injured and hospitalized. But because of this, the brother-in-law faded away from the inertia of the son-in-law, and started from scratch, after this change, the brother-in-law loved his sister more, and now the sister's family of four is happy.

niece, who just graduated from Nortel this year, is in the same class as Wang Junkai, and Guan Xiaotong is one year higher than her. Because her niece is beautiful and tall, she won many modeling awards before she went to college, the most powerful is that she won the model contest at the age of eighteen and won a BMW car for her father. But behind this honor hides a lot of unknown suffering.

My niece has loved dancing since she was a child, and was admitted to the North Dance High School, but after years of high-intensity dance training, she injured her knee, and after the operation, the doctor said that she could not dance in the future. Since then, my niece has said goodbye to dancing and switched to modeling. Sometimes God closes a door for you and will surely open a window for you.

I used to envy the above relatives and envy them for gaining love, money, status and fame. Envy them for having a happy life, always feel that they are unsatisfactory everywhere, and everything is not as they should, just as the famous writer Dostoevsky once said: "The reason why man is unhappy is because he does not know that he is happy, nothing more."

Slowly, I often think about this question, and it takes a long time. After all, I understood that in the world of the Great Famine, everyone's life has its own difficulties and benefits. There is no need to compare yourself with others, let alone stand in your own troubles and look up to the happiness of others.

Behind the success you envy, there are unimaginable hardships and hardships.

I often have friends who say to me enviously: "You are so happy, you can really give birth, and you have given birth to two good daughters who are well-behaved and sensible." "It turns out that I have been standing in my own troubles and looking up to the happiness of others. I only saw my own misfortune, not my own luck.

The painter Jimmy once said: "A person is always looking up and envy the happiness of others, and when he turns around, he finds that he is being looked up to and envied by others." "Yes, everyone's life hides countless grievances, and many times, in your troubles, it is the happiness of others that is hidden.

It's time for you to start a family, too!

Your elementary school classmates have already driven home last year!

When I was your age, children would call Daddy!

Contemporary young people are under a lot of pressure, their own future, their parents' pension, their children's education, and their looming dreams.

In Douyin, on the news, and in society, there are young and promising successful people everywhere, and it seems that you are embarrassed to go out if you don't weigh hundreds of millions in your hands. Talking about the future and ideals, with a salary of thousands of dollars, ironic!

is full of promotions and fortunes, comparing who and whom, so as to bring out their own excellence, this is really an era of magic, and the test is people's determination.

What the circle of friends looks at is other people's lives, others have been promoted and raised, others have returned with beauties, others have married wives and children, and life has been prosperous since then.

Then look at yourself, chicken feathers.

The biggest problem in this society is the diversity of values, but this is also lucky. Everyone has a place to express their own ideas, and everyone has the right to live according to their own ideas, but they have too many desires, always thinking about this and that, and in the end they are so tired.

Don't measure your life by other people's rulers, and don't think of yourself as a superman, you seem to know everything about a little achievement, and express your own opinions on the latest social events.

I'm just a mortal, I don't know that much, I just know how to do my own thing, and often sometimes, I don't do my own thing well.

At the moment, how many people are born and how many are dead.

How many people are happy and how many are crying.

How many people are bright and drunk.

How many people face the breeze and feel the most ordinary life.

The biggest poison of this era is to tell you that everyone must succeed, and everything in life must be a top match, otherwise, there will be no love.

Time, or time, this is the fairest, the world is diverse, and everyone has the right to choose their own life.

Summary. Hello dear! It can be said that

Just be yourself. Don't take other people's lives and rulers to demand your standard of living Living like yourself is the best proof of us. We are always like this, standing in the landscape and looking up at the scenery elsewhere.

But each of us has our own way to go, each of us has our own future and our own way to go. We live in comparison, where there is darkness to have light, where there is hatred to have love, where there is bad to have good, and only when there are others and what others do do we know who we are and what we are doing. Everything can only exist in comparison, there is no beauty without ugliness, and there is no gain without loss.

In the same way, we are always afraid of death, and if people can really live forever, I think people will be just as afraid of eternity as they are of dying, or tired of eternity. Please describe your problem more specifically and explain it to the teacher in detail, so that the teacher can better help you.

To refute this sentence in this way, don't take someone else's ruler and measure your own life.

Hello dear! You can say: just be yourself.

Don't take other people's lives and rulers to demand your standard of living Living like yourself is the best proof of us. We are always like this, standing in the landscape and looking up at the scenery elsewhere. But each of us has our own path to walk, and each of us has our own future and our own way to go.

We live in comparison, where there is darkness to have light, where there is hatred to have love, where there is bad to have good, and only when there are others and what others do do we know who we are and what we are doing. Everything can only exist in comparison, there is no beauty without ugliness, and there is no gain without loss. In the same way, we are always afraid of death, and if people can really live forever, I think people will be just as afraid of eternity as they are afraid of death, or tired of eternity.

Please describe your problem more specifically and explain it to the teacher in detail, so that the teacher can better help you.

How should I refute this sentence: Don't use other people's rulers to measure your own life.

So what you call envy others is just that you don't understand what others think.

It's someone else who says this about me, how should I refute it?

There is progress only by comparison.

Isn't that too easy.

No, dear. Is there anything else.

The ancients said, "I save my body three times a day." ”