Why always feel that others are the best

Because people will always have a psychology that is not easy to be satisfied, people often think that what they can't get is the best, eating what is in the bowl and thinking about what is in the pot, this kind of psychology will cause half-heartedness, lack of concentration, and maybe half the effort.

Sometimes you have to look more at what you have, then you will also find that you also have the good, you just put all your attention on others, and what you have will naturally be ignored.

I don't know if you've ever heard a story about a painter who hung a painting in his home and framed it beautifully, but the painting was just a black ink print.

So someone asked the painter what he meant, and the painter said that people usually only see the black part, and often ignore the white part, but the black represents the things you pay attention to, and the white represents the things that you have, and often we will ignore the white part.

Well, I've changed this story a little bit to make it clearer

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What we can't get is the best, and that's what we yearn for. It's human nature.

Balance your mindset. Now that you've got it, why not cherish it. Don't lose it to know how valuable it is.

It's not good to get something.

Everyone is like this, and they don't know how to cherish it.

Everyone has a heart that just sees things differently.

What you don't have is good, and what you feel is not important.

That's why people don't know how to cherish it.

Because you can't see the good in yourself.

Hello! Why is this so? Because some people are too self-righteous, they can't see their own shortcomings, they can't see the strengths of others, they don't learn new things, they don't accept new ideas, and their thoughts are more stubborn and stubborn, that's why you have the situation you said.

It is suggested that you adjust your mentality first, do your own things first, interfere less in other people's affairs, and try to stay away from people like you say, so as not to increase your troubles and affect your normal emotional stability and life.

Count less, be more forgiving.

You'll be happier too. Have a great day! Fu'an Changle!

Sometimes it's not that he thinks others are bad, but he doesn't want to admit that he is not good enough and deceives himself, of course, there is also the kind of situation you said, because the environment he is in, the position he is in, makes him feel that he is good enough, just the so-called frog at the bottom of the well.

I don't know what kind of psychology is causing trouble, but I always feel that other people's lives are just for my own good. It's just that I happened to see that other people's good or was it originally so good?

Maybe it's because I'm too small-minded, but I see that many people are better off than me. In every aspect, I am much better than I am now.

A friend casually posts a circle of friends, I will go to learn a lot more about it, see the content comparison and comparison**, and then conclude: Wow, she is doing well. Then I began to reflect on myself, why didn't I work hard earlier, didn't I become a top person earlier, went to live a life of drunken gold fans, took a delicate afternoon tea casually, and became a celebrity.

But I don't have any money, so I can't do anything. When I was still worried about next month's loan, people had already planned to go on a summer vacation when it was hot......

Always feel that others are better off? But that's just one side of the circle of friends, the real appearance outside the circle of friends, who knows what it looks like? This terrible online virtual world is very incomprehensible.

Or maybe what others are telling is true, and it happens to be a small part of what they are missing, so they will have the illusion that others are doing well. It seems that there is not so much need to compare what you are missing, to be born as a human being, every life is equal, to see what you have so far.

No matter what life is, it's all your own, you can't envy others, you can't get it, and you can't live it, so it seems quite comfortable to live your own life in real life. Maybe I am a small citizen who has never seen the world in my life, and I will be worried about the rise in the price of vegetables and fruits, but I will not be distressed by the virtual circle of friends, and I will live my real life, relaxed and comfortable. What if you haven't seen the world, it doesn't prevent you from choosing to be happy.

Summary. Someone who doesn't feel good about people can be caused by poor communication, lack of trust, lack of understanding, etc. There are many ways to solve this kind of problem, first of all, the two sides should establish a good communication channel and communicate more effectively to enhance mutual understanding and establish a relationship of trust; Secondly, both parties should learn to respect each other, respect each other's views, respect each other's ideas, and respect each other's feelings; Finally, both parties should learn to accept each other, accept each other's differences, accept each other's shortcomings, and accept each other's shortcomings in order to enhance mutual understanding.

In addition, both parties can also enhance each other's relationship in a variety of ways, such as participating in more common activities, chatting more about interesting topics, and doing more meaningful things to enhance each other's feelings.

It's other people's feelings about people, it's not good. Why?

Someone who doesn't feel good about people can be caused by poor communication, lack of trust, lack of understanding, etc. There are many ways to solve this problem, firstly, the two sides should establish a good channel of communication and communicate effectively to enhance mutual understanding and establish a relationship of trust; Secondly, both parties should learn to respect each other, respect each other's views, respect each other's ideas, and respect each other's feelings; Finally, both parties should learn to accept each other, accept each other's differences, accept each other's shortcomings, and accept each other's shortcomings in order to enhance mutual understanding. In addition, the two parties can also enhance each other's relationship in a variety of ways, such as participating in more common activities, chatting more about interesting topics, and doing more meaningful things to enhance each other's feelings.

Can you elaborate on that a little bit more?

Others feel bad about people because relationships between people can be affected. When a person has bad feelings about another person, their relationship suffers, which can lead to conflicts and *. In addition, when a person has a bad feeling about another person, the trust between them is also affected, which affects the communication and communication between them.

In addition, when one person has bad feelings about the other, the interaction between them will also be affected, thus affecting the cooperation and collaboration between them. When a person has bad feelings about another person, their relationship can also be affected, which can affect the friendship and intimacy between them. As a result, other people feel bad about people and can adversely affect interpersonal relationships, which can affect communication, interaction, and cooperation between people.

Therefore, we should strive to build harmonious interpersonal relationships, respect each other, build trust, and enhance mutual understanding to promote the harmonious development of interpersonal relationships.

Summary. Hello, it is a pleasure to serve you and give you the following answer: Others feel bad about people because they don't respect each other, don't have good communication channels, and don't have a good relationship of trust.

When people don't respect each other, don't have good lines of communication, and don't build a good relationship of trust, their relationship can become strained and even conflicting. In addition, when people do not respect each other and do not establish good communication channels, it is the feelings of others towards people that are not good. Why?

Hello, it is a pleasure to serve you and give you the following answer: People feel bad about people because they don't respect each other, don't establish good communication channels, and don't build a good relationship of trust. When people don't respect each other, don't have good lines of communication, and don't build a good relationship of trust, their relationship can become strained and even conflicting.

In addition, when people do not respect each other and do not establish good communication channels, can you elaborate on this?

Hello, it is a pleasure to serve you and give you the following answer: People feel bad about people because they don't respect each other, don't establish good communication channels, and don't build a good relationship of trust. When people don't respect each other, don't have good lines of communication, and don't build a good relationship of trust, their relationship can become strained and even conflicting.

In addition, when people do not respect each other, there is no good communication channel

Summary. Dear, your consideration is that the self is weak or the self is not strong.

I just feel that everything is good for others, and nothing is good for myself.

Dear, your consideration is that the self is weak or the self is not strong.

Because, everyone has a self, and the self is simply a person's ability and method to see the world and deal with things.

When you think that everyone else is better than you, then your ego is weaker and not strong enough.

So you have to find out what's good in you and empower yourself.

Only when you know how to appreciate yourself can you become strong <>

I felt weird about myself, and I felt good for a while, and then I said no.

This goes on and on, I know it's not good, but I still can't help but think about it, I'm tired.

Dear, can you give an example of "you feel good for a while and then you deny"? What really happened then?

This will help us to analyze your inner emotions through things.