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Anonymous users2024-02-12The final result of love is either broken or turned into family affection, and family affection is a little heavier than love, and most people will choose family affection and satisfaction when choosing between love and family affection.
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Anonymous users2024-02-11My first feeling tells me that all three are important, but when I think about it, I think love is the most important. Friendship is very important to us, but we are rarely able to give everything, a friend, say that it is scattered, and there is no longer the intimacy of the past. Family affection is connected with our blood, people without family affection are cold and snowy, and their hearts are lonely, although we attach great importance to family affection, but once the person we love dies, family affection will be indifferent.
Love is unforgettable, and it cannot be replaced by any emotion, because of love, we have our own subjectivity, because of love, let us change, when everything does not exist, only love, accompany us until we are old. I think it's okay, remember, thank you!
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Anonymous users2024-02-10Love and family affection are two of the beautiful emotions of human beings, and these two feelings are actually very different, so I would like to share my views with you.
1. Love is chosen by oneself, and family affection cannot be chosen
It is no longer the feudal era of ancient times, and many people can choose to fall in love freely, without adhering to the so-called "parents' orders, matchmakers' words". Choose a partner who is in love, most people's love is the result of their own choices. And family affection is something we can't choose, we can't choose what kind of family we were born in, we can't choose our parents, so family affection is predestined by God, it depends on luck, whether we like it or not, there is no way to change it, because this is an established fact.
Second, both sides of love have to give, and family affection is often selfless
It is not easy to maintain a relationship, and both parties in love have to make continuous efforts to achieve thisBoth parties should take into account each other's feelings and think about each other, so that love can always last for a long time, but where the love relationship is unequal and one party cares more, then the balance will be unbalanced and the relationship will be easy to break. But family affection is different, and the love of the elders for the younger generations is often unreciprocatedThey would rather suffer by themselves, but also hope that the children can live a happy life, no matter what difficulties you encounter, they will never leave your side, because blood is thicker than water. <>
3. Love will become family affection, but family affection cannot become love
Love is beautiful, but sometimes love is also dynamic, two people walk together because of love, become a couple, and finally enter the palace of marriage and set up their own family. After starting a family, the focus is on work, elderly parents, and children, there is no time to take care of love, at this time the emotion between the two people has quietly turned into family affection. There is no way to transform the innate affection between you and your original relatives into love, which is also not moral.
What do you think about this? Feel free to share your views!
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Anonymous users2024-02-09Love is not related by blood after all, relatives are different, no matter how much there will be concerns in the heart, if love meets a sincere person, it will even surpass family affection, so depending on how to understand, it cannot be generalized.
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Family affection is precious, but love is more valuable. Of course, before doing this, you have to consider whether the person who loves you is worthy of your entrustment to him, my girlfriend is the same, she chose family affection, I am also sad, my advice is that if you love him, give him your love, don't say anything important, everything is important, if he loves you, he will definitely give you his love and not make you embarrassed.
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Of course, it's family affection, family affection and love are very important, but I always feel that family affection may be a little heavier, but people in love may be carried away by love I have solved a lot of situations like yours before, you must not give up family affection because of love, the best way is to persuade your parents to accept, once not twice, sincerity can move the world Many people have achieved their goal according to my statement, but since your parents are so opposed, you still have to seriously consider your parents' suggestions, Maybe he really doesn't fit you in some aspects I've seen many girls, although their parents finally agreed, but after marriage, the girl found out the problem, she was very unhappy, and it was herself who was hurt in the end, especially girls, who were often impulsive in reciprocal love, so think about it quietly, at least your parents won't hurt you, no matter what they do, there is only one starting point, that is, for your happiness I believe it will help you.
To a certain extent, love is sublimated into family affection.