How can we have a good three views ?

The first is to develop your own reading habits. There is Yan Ruyu in the book, and there is a ** house in the book. Experience your own life from a book, see your own shadow from other people's stories, so as to reflect more deeply on yourself, reflect on your own life, it is a terrible thing for a person not to reflect on himself for a day.

Confucius said in the "Analects" that we may not be able to do the three provinces ourselves in this fast-paced modern society, but we can still do it in one province, but reading is the best way. The reading here can be a book, or a sentence that you unintentionally see on social **, or an article in ***, or a news you see, etc., etc., we can all see our own shadow from it, so as to reflect on our own problems. Of course, we can also read some books on psychology and philosophy, which is a great improvement in thinking. ‍‍

Be sure to have an optimistic mindset. There are too many things in this world that are unsatisfactory, but because there are too many of them, if we have to worry about everything, we will be very tired, so we must have a comprehensive thinking, to see the two opposites of this matter, and not to dwell too much on the good side or the bad side. Looking at things with an optimistic and positive mindset will make you feel more relaxed.

Make more positive and optimistic people in life, and associate with such people will be full of positive energy. ‍‍

Know how to empathize and not be selfish. I know that no one in this world can empathize, but what we can do is empathize, not just think about ourselves. One thing, maybe you think so, but from the perspective of the person concerned, it may not be what you think.

Different people have different ways of dealing with the same thing and considering it, and we can't limit ourselves to our own ideas without considering the reasonableness of others' ideas, so it is important to have a comprehensive mind to put ourselves in the shoes of others.

Visionary, thoughtful. A far-sighted and thoughtful woman will start from herself, even if everything is good now, she will not be at ease, she has foresight, she knows that life is a long process, and there will be many unpredictable factors, so she will never give up increasing her weight in order to cope with the various tests that life gives. A woman with a mind, a pattern, and a pattern will not be obsessed with trivial things.

She will quickly put the unpleasant things behind her.

I can only practice it myself, don't listen to what others say, but see how others do it. For example, comments on the same point of view, or events, and different historical periods, are all collected. You'll know it when you compare.

Take family planning, for example. For example, pension. Read good books, make good friends, do good deeds, and start from the bits and pieces of daily life. ‍‍

I think that the three views are very positive, and they should be cultivated from an early age, not that when they grow up, they suddenly have a very positive three views. This should have a lot to do with the parent's education and guidance. Again, I think reading more books can also play a role. Read more, read more, read good books.

By nature, people have a selfish side, but through learning and practice, some people will overcome and restrain their behavior. They understand that an extremely selfish person is difficult to associate with others, and no one is more stupid than anyone else.

When judging a matter, the person who is overflowing with the heart of the Virgin will not look at the right and wrong of the matter itself, but will speak from the side of the weak, and even she will challenge morality, rules, and laws for the weak, and find suitable reasons for the weak.

Pay attention to the details of life. The so-called details determine success or failure, and many things can be seen from the details. We should not only pay attention to the details of others, but also pay attention to the details of our own behavior, because this is not only a kind of respect for others, but also an affirmation of ourselves.

First of all, you should have a correct view of the world, a correct view of your own outlook on life and values.

Identify with all the correct values, read more good books and enjoy good movies......

What we often say about the three views refers to the outlook on life, values and world view, in fact, in these three views.

The most prone to deviation is values, once there is a problem with values, we will also be very problematic, so we should restrain ourselves at all times and demand ourselves with correct values.

It's very simple, be a simple and honest person, do more public welfare, selfless dedication, and do more positive things. These are the correct three views.

The three views are quite complicated to say, and it is relatively simple to be a person with three views, and it is not difficult.

First of all, when we do not harm others and benefit ourselves, we must do what we can when we harm others. Be yourself and don't ask for goodbye.

Do different things at different ages. Teenagers should study hard and make progress every day. When you become an adult, you have to support your family, support your parents, and educate your children. If you have the ability, you can't just take care of yourself, but also make more contributions to society.

The former can be called values, and the latter can be called outlook on life.

As for the worldview? What Lao Tzu summarized is called the Tao, and the Tao is natural. The natural world and human society have their own internal laws of motion, which are not subject to human will and have a strong self-organizing role.

Religious people believe that it is God's will. Science says it's a law of nature. So far, philosophical ontology is an unsolvable topic, and no one can really explain it clearly.

1. Establish correct values.

A person's values affect not only their own life and career, but also others and society. When you don't take the rules seriously and don't follow the norms, you will only make a mess of your life and put your career on a "dark road" that you can't see the light.

In the direct selling business, direct sellers should establish correct values, behave correctly and do things correctly. In the face of major rights and wrongs, we must have accurate judgment and know what to do and what not to do. Those who don't follow the rules will not only end up with nothing for themselves, but also leave a bad impression on the direct selling industry.

2. Jump out of the circle to see the world.

The frog at the bottom of the well only sees the sky at the mouth of the well, and the world it thinks is only that corner of the world. But when it can jump out of the well, it will find that the outside world is so colorful. If you can also jump out of your own small circle and see more of the outside world, then you will have a more thorough understanding of life and a more diverse view of your career.

As a direct salesman, you not only need to have a comprehensive understanding of direct selling, but also need to jump out of the circle of direct selling to understand some things outside of direct selling. Because direct selling is a business that needs to deal with customers and sell products, if you only stay in your own small circle, do not know how to communicate with the outside world, and do not understand the outside world, it is almost impossible to achieve something in the direct selling business.

3. There is a screening to receive information.

I've always heard people say that the kind of person you want to be depends on the kind of people you want to deal with. When the people around you are all people who succumb to reality and don't know how to improve themselves, then you will gradually be influenced and disrupt the original rhythm of life.

If you want to achieve great things, you have to make friends with like-minded people, you can learn and progress together, work hard in the direct selling industry together, and succeed together.

Values, outlook on life and world view are a person's three views, how to cultivate a person's correct three views.

1. Cultivation of values.

Adults can only have one set of values in their belief system, and cannot have two sets of values that are opposed to each other at the same time.

Just like watches, if a person has two watches at the same time, and one of them is slow, it will cause people to panic, and they don't know which one to believe is right or wrong?

There is a good saying, those who are close to Zhu are red and those who are close to ink are black, that is, whoever you are with will be affected by whom.

Therefore, the formation of a person's values is directly related to his surroundings and the education he receives.

Therefore, it is very important for a person's values to be synchronized with the mainstream values of society.

Second, the cultivation of outlook on life.

The outlook on life is people's perception of the world, and the outlook on life changes due to the influence of values.

When a person with the right values encounters something, it may cause his values to waver.

For example, a person who is upright and never deceives others is taught in his values that he must be a good person and an upright person, but he treats others with sincerity in exchange for being deceived by others, and at this time, he may begin to doubt the people and things he believes.

If what happens later, the person who has repeatedly taught him and who has been educated at first is an idea, he will begin to doubt and even waver in his values.

So how do you get a person to have the right outlook on life?

At this time, education is particularly important, especially one's own education is the real way to solve the mystery of contradictions.

When encountering things, everyone must have their own method of determination and interpretation, here is an introduction to my method, learn the three understandings:

1) Self-awareness: self-realization;

2) Self-awakening: self-awakening;

3) Self-realization: self-realization;

This is what is commonly referred to as life (three realizations).

1) Begin to feel (know what to do and what not to do).

2) Be aware (know why you want to do it and for what purpose).

3) Wake up (know what to do).

Experience in trouble, awaken in pain, and introspect in growth.

3. The cultivation of a world outlook is influenced by values and outlook on life.

1. Doing what you should do is called growth (study hard and work hard).

2. Doing what you don't want to do is called change (developing good professional habits and professional self-discipline).

3. Doing what you dare not do is a breakthrough (opening your mouth to speak in front of the public, chatting with strangers for work).

If a person is not enlightened, he will become an adult.

The so-called enlightenment is to open up wisdom and understand the truth.

What is wisdom? Let's talk about wisdom first, wisdom is the choice between right and wrong, the decision of choice and trade-off.

If there is only knowledge and no wisdom, then he is a nerd at best.

1. Study carefully. Everyone has different advantages, learn from the people and things around them, and learn to use appropriate methods to analyze and solve problems.

2. We must seriously change our thinking. In addition to serious study, the most important thing is to make frequent self-change, which is a long and arduous process, and the main thing about this change is the heart.

3. Be good at distinguishing between the correctness of concepts and grasp your words and deeds. It is necessary to have a grasp of what to do and what not to do. Otherwise, your original correct world outlook, outlook on life, and values will gradually be replaced by these so-called vices.

4. Confucius Ziyun must always reflect on himself in order to enter the moral study; I often hear words that are contrary to my ears, and there are often things in my heart, and establishing a correct outlook on life and values is also the way to enter morality.

5. Learn to analyze problems with correct standpoints, viewpoints and methods, be good at grasping the development direction of history and the times, be good at grasping the mainstream and tributaries, phenomena and essence of social life, and closely combine correct concept cognition, conscious moral cultivation and positive behavior practice.

6. How to establish a correct outlook on life, for college students, establishing a correct outlook on life is the need to become talents. Liu Qing, a famous writer in China, said: "Although the road of life is long, there are often only a few steps at the critical stage, and the personality is when you are young." ”

8. Dare to practice boldly. Time is the only criterion for testing the truth, and daring to innovate and practice is the basis for establishing a correct outlook on life.

Worldview: Worldview is the ideology of philosophy. A worldview is people's general and fundamental view of the world as a whole.

Due to people's different social backgrounds, they have different perspectives on issues and form different world views. The basic problem of worldview is the question of the relationship between spirit and matter, thinking and being. According to the relationship between the two, it is divided into two opposing worldviews, namely, the idealistic worldview and the materialist worldview.

Outlook on life: Outlook on life refers to the view of life, that is, the view of the purpose, value and meaning of human existence. The outlook on life is determined by the worldview.

The outlook on life is the ideology of a certain society or class, and it is the product of certain social conditions and social relations. The formation of people's outlook on life is gradually produced and developed in the course of people's actual life, and is constrained by people's world outlook. People from different societies or classes have different outlooks on life.

Values: Values refer to the general and fundamental views on the value of things formed by people on the basis of understanding the value of various specific things. On the one hand, it is manifested as value orientation and value pursuit, which is condensed into a certain value goal; On the other hand, it is manifested as a value scale and criterion, which has become an evaluation standard for people to judge whether something of value has value and how much value it is.

Once an individual's values are established, they are relatively stable.