Let go or continue to suffer, how to let go of all pain

Updated on psychology 2024-06-28
23 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    From your words, you already know the answer. She has a boyfriend, you can still confess, and you can continue to care if you don't get a response. Love is not possession, she just has a good life, this is a mature love.

    You can continue to care for her without expecting anything in return, maybe one day she will turn back, maybe in the days of waiting your true angel will appear and take you away.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Let go of her, knowing that she doesn't love you and still have unrequited love, friends can still get along well.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Don't go any further, keep this delicate relationship, or you won't even be able to be friends.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Brother, long pain is better than short pain, and short pain is better than labor pain. Letting go is also a beauty!

    It's hard to let go though! But where is there no grass at the end of the world?

    Actually, it's good for you to be ordinary friends with her.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    1。She and her boyfriend are stable. I guess you can't do it year.

    2。She is uncomfortable with you again: she already knows that you like her.

    3。She didn't want to be separated from his boyfriend, there was no way.

    4。If you have fate, your chance is more than 54%.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Let go of the courage to at least be friends forever. Continuing to suffer doesn't necessarily mean fruitless.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    There's a kind of love called letting go

    It's really not good, and there's another trick...

    As the saying goes, no poison is not a husband, and sometimes you have to play some tricks in life, which may achieve the desired effect Hehe, this is to take care of it yourself. . . Hey, don't say I teach bad kids, hehe.

    In fact, it is understandable to occasionally play a little trick for the girl you love.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Let go early, the ending is destined to be sad, why do you want to continue, is your heart too hard and needs to be grinded? Mi someone can accept the tragedy, if you continue, the sadness of the ending is not what you can imagine, you will pay a lot, stop now! Let go early, it's good for you and him, I just came out of the tragedy, I just chose to go on, it will make me so sad, so tired, I'm from here, listen to my advice, let go early, you have to know that he doesn't cherish you, it's him who misses you.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Doing those things that can separate your attention is that Zheng Qi is stupid and doesn't care if it's best to find new happiness and forget the old painful cavities and shout about the old ones.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Giving up is also a kind of love, don't hurt each other for a loveless stay, why not give each other the freedom to fly, and give yourself freedom.

    Giving up is also a form of love.

    In fact, without loving feelings, it is better to give freedom to yourself and the other party, and to make new space to accept new feelings.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    If it's hard to choose.

    That means the pain isn't enough.

    Just stay that way.

    Until you can't take it anymore.

    The decision will be made naturally.

    Your heart will give itself the answer.

    And one more point, what the girl chooses.

    with whether you choose her or not.

    It doesn't really matter.

    Sometimes love needs to be gambled.

    It's not that you will get something if you pay.

    But no matter what, it's okay to think it's acceptable.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Big brother, I admire you very much, I thought there was no such infatuated man in reality, although I appreciate your infatuation, but I still recommend that you give up, in fact, people will meet more than one right person in their life, give up this in order to meet the future one.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Give it up, long pain is better than short pain.

    Days of unrequited love ruined themselves.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Time will slowly ** your pain!

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Listen to her and let go.

    But before that, go and completely confess what you think about her.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    What can I do? Now it's someone else who chooses whether or not you want you, not what you do.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Live your own life, be happy in your heart, don't pay too much attention to this, and you will naturally forget to let go.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Just don't pay too much attention to it, let it go and it will pass.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    There is a Buddhist saying that everything is illusory.

    There is an idiom called: mediocrity disturbs itself.

    There are too many confusions and troubles in everyone's life, and the key is to adjust your mentality. About troubles,Don't bother.,If your heart will think involuntarily.,Just think.,There's no need to avoid anything.,Can't avoid it.。。

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Shave off 3,000 troubles and you'll be happy

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Enrich your life, love yourself, and enjoy your work.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Only by letting go of everything in your heart can you forget the pain in your heart! Let go of yourself! If you think you can put it down! It's going to be okay @@

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    To put it simply, afflictions arise from desire. If there are too many desires that cannot be fulfilled or cannot be achieved at all, it is easy to get upset. You may say that you have no desires, but you are inexplicably distressed, but in fact, there is a reason for this trouble, that is, your thirst for knowledge is not satisfied!

    Life is already a lot of stress right now! Children have the pressure from their parents, and when they grow up and go to school, they put pressure on themselves (because I know the cruelty of competition now), and a considerable number of friends who are studying in school and are about to leave school are also distressed, because they feel that they have no real talent to learn! Going out of school and not being able to find a job is distressing, finding a job is not much and the salary is not much, even if the salary is satisfied, but it is not what you want to do, you are also distressed!

    And that's just a few of the causes of distress and it's very simple, all about prospects and employment. As for the relationship, I haven't been in a relationship either, so it's still inconvenient for me to express my opinion. Thinking too much and thinking too little blindly, I feel that the things sung in this song make sense We can't not think about it, and we can't put all our energy on these aspects (people's energy is limited, thinking about something useless, and if it's useful, you don't have time and energy to think about it, hehe) Everyone's experience is different, and the causes of troubles and distress are also very different!

    I remember when I was in high school, my grades were still good, but due to family financial reasons, I ......I'm distressed. But on the other hand, it seems that I am more distressed than me, that is, the family conditions are very good, but the grades are very bad. Although I got the same result, I feel that I am more fulfilled because I have proven that I can do it myself!

    There are two ways to alleviate the use of your brain by your worries. 1. Don't want to be useless, don't let troubles come to you (sometimes it's not something you can control) 2. 600ml beer is full in a standard bottle, but do you feel a lot of it when you pour it into the plastic bucket of the water dispenser? In the same way, if you open your mind and mind, your troubles will not fill your brain Apply it to practice, don't put your free time on cranky thoughts, walk around and see, do more things that help others, and do physical exercises in your spare time.

    Don't focus on studying or working, because people who are burdened with worries and worries are not likely to be very productive, and the error rate is also very high. Exercise well, be healthy, feel comfortable, have a good mental outlook, and talk about business, and the turnover rate will also increase! Oh, if troubles, sorrows, and difficulties are the thresholds that are placed in front of you, then when you cross them.

    They can't be called thresholds. Saying a little nonsense may feel like a waste of time, but I feel that if my ideas help you, then my efforts are worth it. I wish you to be free from your troubles and join the ranks of happiness! Seek adoption.

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