I learned that my crush has a boyfriend! My heart hurts, how to comfort myself

Updated on psychology 2024-06-19
46 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    I sympathize with you for this kind of experience, but you should also review yourself, I like people for 6 years, and I don't know that others have boyfriends, I think this is too unreliable, buddy. According to what you said, you have no hope, and you can only bless her. Let's go out and play, try to participate in some extreme sports, break through your own sports limits, relax your body and mind, and ah, you should be in Beijing for a long time, you don't have any friends, you are a little bit of that, from now on you should take the initiative to make more friends, and you can talk to friends about anything, right?

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    It's not that you can't live without anyone Sadness and pain I can't see it It means that she has been treating you as her buddy And you have been immersed in your own imagination until reality pulls you back I have to say that I feel like you have paid a lot for her Be indifferent You also know that you can't be together anymore It's just that you're in pain You need to vent and find someone to talk to This feeling I believe many people have I don't know how to help you But I think you might as well get yourself drunk until you become numb and then start over and look for the next partner in your life.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Brother! Sympathy for the same disease, that is fate must be forgotten, and then find another one who has a fate, it is yours who is you, and you can't force it. ,

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Forget her, bless her, and hide your secret love for her in the bottom of your heart, as a good memory, as long as you love her deeply, happy. Everything is not heavy anymore.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    I can only find a new relationship.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Just put your own love to find the next heroine to be happy.,But there's no hope if you don't express your crush.。

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    In our lives, there are countless examples of this, there is nothing wrong with liking a person, the key is that you don't like the right person, since people have boyfriends, then, I think you should let go, love sometimes still needs a little reason, for an unrequited love without an ending, the sooner it ends, the better, the pain and powerlessness are only temporary, I believe you can find the right person soon, maybe at that time, you will look back, you will feel that this is just an experience in your life, and this experience will make you grow.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    You're not the only one who feels the same way as you.

    There are a lot of examples. Including TV series and movies, many scenes are like this. There is indeed a lot of helplessness in living in this world!

    For example, in a relationship, you like someone very much, but the other person doesn't like you, and the person you don't like is someone who likes you very much, so people are sometimes really conflicted! However, since there is no possibility of being together, choose to give up! You have to be self-aware, there are so many Chinese people are afraid that they can't touch a person who likes each other, right?

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Hello! This person may be very good, if you think about it like this, you like her, maybe she just didn't have a boyfriend at the beginning, and she may not like you if you confess to her. Therefore, the past is gone, which means that you have no fate. Go for your own happiness.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    It is a very beautiful relationship to like someone, and if you can like someone, it means that you are also a very beautiful person, but you have not met your lover yet.

    It's really not easy to let go of a relationship, but we can't hang ourselves on a tree, you have nothing to do with this girl you meet, but in the future, there will always be a girl who will like you as much as you like her, there will always be.

    In the end, fortunately, you know that she has a boyfriend, and she didn't fall deeper, and with the current situation, she actively adjusts herself every day to make herself better and meet better girls.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Since she already has a boyfriend, and you really love her, you should sincerely bless her. That's your true love for her. However, with such pure love, more girls will respond to your true feelings. I believe you will meet your soulmate in a very short time.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    In fact, this happens to many people, the person they like is already famous, they will feel very helpless, and pain, in fact, it's not a big deal, take a big nap, tomorrow will be different, life has to start and go on again, this is a small episode of our life.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    You say comfort pull, others say useless and unreal, the key is that your heart can't get over it, pay attention to see if you still have a chance, there is a kind of love called to fulfill her happiness is also a kind of love.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    There is indeed a lot of helplessness in this world! It's just too small. Love should be defined like this:

    If you love me, I will be sincere to you for a lifetime, if we don't have a chance, I will sincerely bless you for a lifetime, if you betray me, I will ignore you for the rest of my life! Since there is no possibility of being together, choose to give up! You must be self-aware, are you afraid that you won't be able to touch someone who likes each other when there are so many Chinese?

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Don't be sad, it's heartbreaking to know that she has a boyfriend for you, you should comfort yourself, the sooner you know, the better, the less hurt, at least you should know to turn back.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Seeing that the person you like has a boyfriend, I feel pain and powerlessness, such a pattern is too small. Love should be defined like this: if you love me, I will sincerely treat you for a lifetime, if we have no chance, I will sincerely bless you for a lifetime, if you betray me, I will ignore you for a lifetime!

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Then let's bless them silently, 'Put your love for her only in life, care and help support her; Pay silently behind the scenes.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Rest easy, don't be sad. Dabu walks forward, and there will always be a better one waiting for you.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Now that you know it, it means that you are not deceiving yourself, so get out of this unrequited love in time, try to contact more than others, and relax. Maybe there's even more beautiful scenery along the way.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    You're not the only one who has felt the same way, but I still appreciate your true feelings very much, so you just observe quietly, maybe there's still a chance.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    If you want to open up, this may be what people often say that there is no fate, and the person who really has a fate with you is not her, waiting for the girl who will stay with you for the rest of your life.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    You call it a single thought, you can only say that you have a crush. There are many people a person likes, love can only be one, love is mutual, it is a matter of two people. Love is fate, there is a fate to meet thousands of miles away, you have no chance to meet in person. Spring flowers bloom all over the ground, and there will always be one for you.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    If you have a chance in a different place, if it is a local place, then be generous and bless.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    I don't have a chance to make your heart ache, I want to find a better boyfriend after opening a little, maybe there is a better person waiting for you, think about his shortcomings You can love less.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Is there any money, I have a thousand ways to get him back. Precondition. Material basis.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    If you can, just wait and keep the right girl!

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Don't be too discouraged, boys are more likely to show love.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    It's not a problem if you're not married, let alone divorced if you're married.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    There is a very good way to love someone, sometimes friends come longer than lovers, looking at her object, you must be sad and sad, but at the same time, you also have to thank her for letting you have this process that you can struggle, it is better to think from another angle, maybe fate is destined for her to appear in your life, let you change, let you improve, let you have this goal to go to graduate school, the depth of fate depends on the future. If she knows what you think, she will definitely not agree with you to give up the graduate school entrance examination for her, this is an opportunity for you to improve, if you can't let go of her, continue to care about her, the process is also growth, many things may not have results.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    I think you should continue your life, she is just one of the things in your life, she finds that him now, you as a friend, the person who likes her should bless her, you yourself will meet good girls in the future, all this is your motivation, she is not your only one, she is only friends with you, right, do you think about others? Your family? Your friend?

    Maybe there are people who like you, who regard you as the driving force for their own progress, what is it if you want to give up like this, please think about the people who love you yourself You should think about it yourself, other people's opinions are not completely right, and the feeling in your heart is the most important.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Then you have to have a heart.

    Hehe, monitor the man for any misconduct, and when the time is ripe, he will be beaten violently.

    In the end, you will be beaten up and eventually hospitalized. Then let the classmates unintentionally reveal the reason why you were beaten by your senior sister, and that's it!

    36 "Bitter Meat Scheme" The consequences are at your own risk!! Bonus points...

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Hello, I've been through this situation before, and you're better than me. The girl I had a crush on hadn't said a word for more than 4 years, do you know what that was like? You can still talk to her and talk to her. You deserve to be happy.

    Suggestion: Short pain: Confess it now, it's not too late.

    Compete as a competitor. Tell her how you feel inside. There is 50% hope for confession, and 0% hope for not confessing.

    There is only one opportunity, don't miss it, I missed it... As for having results, it's either a girlfriend or a friend. But you have a wish.

    Long pain: This is more painful, there is a song that sings: Keep all the sorrow to yourself... Bless them silently until you come out of the shadows and find your other half. As a result, it is still a friend who has nothing to talk about. It's just that you have one more secret.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    If the feelings are heavier, then confess to her.

    If the graduate school entrance examination is more important, then take the exam first.

    Personally, I think it's better to focus on the graduate school entrance examination first, because you are at a disadvantage before you are admitted, and maybe you will have a more suitable candidate in the future.

    Feelings are something that sometimes can't go too with one's temperament.

    I really can't talk to a friend, have a drink, and the next day everything will be gone.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    In fact, loving someone is not necessarily possessed, if it happens that she has it, then be brave and blessed, and this is the case in many cases.

    Free yourself from unrequited love and you will find that there are many better girls.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Supporting her choice and wishing her happiness is called love.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Then give up decisively, if you really love her, you should let go, he is just a constant upward motivation for you, if he really becomes your wife, you will be very uncomfortable.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    If she likes you, she'll hide it from you if she has a boyfriend.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    This is really only you will feel, you will only regret if you miss it, and only blessings after regrets.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    The person you have a crush on is not necessarily the person you like, so if it's the latter, it's not that she won't be distracted when she has a boyfriend. If you find that you like her, go after her.

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Seeing this scene, you were just a little uncomfortable at the time, and then you really didn't feel anything, because you really didn't have fate, you have to believe that you will meet better, you just wait for another opportunity, what do you think.

  41. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    It feels like a sweet persimmon tree, but I picked a sour persimmon, which was sour and unpalatable, and I had to let go and throw it away.

  42. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    Bless her. Knowing that she has a crush on you and you don't respond, it means that you don't particularly like him, he likes someone else, you should be happy, so you are also relieved Bless her. Knowing that she has a crush on you and you don't respond, it means that you don't particularly like him, he likes someone else, you should be happy, so you are also relieved Bless her.

    Knowing that she has a crush on you and you don't respond, it means that you don't particularly like him, he likes someone else, you should be happy, so you are also relieved Bless her. Knowing that she has a crush on you and you don't respond, it means that you don't particularly like him, he likes someone else, you should be happy, so you are also relieved, isn't it.

  43. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    There is a feeling that something I don't like has been robbed, and I will always feel uncomfortable.

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    I'm an Emotional Expert

    Brother! Dude said it was not good. Don't be surprised, advice is good for deeds.

    What are the criteria for choosing a mate for a beautiful woman now? She is no longer a pure and ignorant girl in junior high school. She tells you that there are two explanations for having a boyfriend:

    1.She's forcing you to confess to her.

    2.She treats you like a good friend.

    The actual situation can be felt if you are in contact with her normally. I don't know the situation here, so I can only analyze it here.

    Please study hard, and I wish you a speedy leap! Marry a beauty!

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    I haven't graduated from college yet, and it's normal for you to have the above situation, no matter how successful or unsuccessful, no matter what, you also need to accumulate experience in love. However, it is normal to really love each other and not go together; When you walk out of school, step into the society to find a job, in the new work environment, you will meet new friends of the opposite sex, the most important thing is that you have to work hard and accumulate wealth, is there really no woman, there is no favorite in the world, only the most suitable. Maybe the two of you happen to work in the same city after graduation, and your living conditions and economy can make your life more comfortable, then she has really become your wife.

    Don't you believe it?

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    Vindicate! The achievement is done, and if it is not successful, you have to have a showdown, don't let yourself regret it!

    We are no longer in junior high school, and you may not really like her yourself, and maybe you may not care about her as much as you think after you get it.

    It is done, and I bless you.

    No, even if you can't be friends, it's nothing, anyway, you won't see each other a few times in your life.

    Dude, when I see your 100-point bounty, I know that your heart is in a mess right now......Take it easy. I had a crush on a girl at the beginning of high school, and I had a crush on her for three years, and I was a senior this year, and although I haven't been in a relationship for seven years, my feelings for her have faded a lot. Many things feel precious because they can't get them, and once they get them, they may not be as good as we think.

    Let's work hard, go to graduate school, mix up as a person, why do we good men have no wife!!

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