There is a truth that things are man made, why can t you reconcile by attachment when you break up?

Because the man said that he broke up is really broken up, unlike the girl who says that the breakup is often angry, if he is really reluctant to break up with you, he will not break up with you, if you are still a person who fantasizes about it will let yourself die in pain, you see that he does not look for you to say reconciliation, what if you insist on it alone, his side will still be replaced by a new person, you, just one person silently guards his good, it is recommended that you find a group of friends to say bad things about him, even if you can't bear it, but it is definitely good for you, But this kind of more immoral thing is just a bunch of dead friends to participate, don't be discovered by others, this will help you recognize his true face, since he can dump you in a daze, it means that you don't know him well enough, it must be that you are blinded by love when you are in love, try it, hehe, I wish you to come out of the shadows as soon as possible.

First of all, I suggest you ask him about it. If he has a valid reason and is serious about falling in love with you in the first place, then I think it's probably a matter of feeling. Sometimes external attraction can only play the role of pulling the strings and pulling him to pursue you, but it may not be very emotional to get along.

The feeling of love has nothing to do with the external personality, only the feeling.

But being dumped for no reason is unacceptable to us, and it is recommended that you have to pull him to understand.

Men will regret it after a long time, take your time...

You said two contradictory words, indicating that your heart is also contradictory at the moment, you said that the fate is determined by God, and the fate is arranged by God, this kind of words are inevitably a bit "destined", indicating that you think that the fate you yearn for seems to be doomed to the result, and you feel very powerless.

You said that things are man-made, no matter how God arranges them, as long as people are willing to do it, maybe the fate can be changed. It shows that although you feel the powerlessness of the cause, you don't believe in fate, and want to break free from your current state and pursue it persistently.

While clinging to your yearning, you doubt whether you can succeed, perhaps because your heart is also tormented by contradictions and persistence.

The above is an analysis of your words, and my advice to you is that I personally do not believe in fate, let alone in the fate of God, but I feel that although things are man-made, you can do your best, sometimes it may not be because of fate, and what is not fruitful is not necessarily because of sin, but the time is not right, the place is not right, and the person is not very suitable, that's all.

Personally, I think that as long as you try your best to "do", no matter what the result is, you should have no regrets.

Resigned. Terrible.

If the man proposes to break up, it is recommended that you don't think about it. Maybe he is really attracted to you, but he is not really in love with you, and he is not the one who is willing to give for you. If you chase him back, you will be in a very passive situation in the future, and girls should still be cherished, at least they should be treated with equal respect, and never harm.

We are together because we love, and we break up because we don't love. Of course, if both parties find out that they still love each other so deeply after the breakup, then go on a date together and find out how it feels like to be together!

Why is it not possible?

As long as both parties continue to love each other.

Why can't we be together again?

Can you only be friends if you break up, if you still love him, you have to say it, love is in your own hands.

Well, it's possible and the odds are not small

What behaviors the other party does after the breakup indicate that there is still a chance to get back together.

In the face of a heartless man, what do you choose to do, talk to me.

"Active abandonment" and "passive abandonment" are more painful than others.

Men are rational in their feelings, and their thinking is very different from that of women.

Why are men so ruthless when they say they break up? Things that women want to know!

People are very ruthless when they break up. Once you want to break up, everything is a reason and an excuse.

Boys in general.

The next is not to mention the breakup.

often hope that the woman will mention it first. So the situation that often happens is that the female version always likes to talk about breaking up, but every time it is impulsive, almost when she is angry, she says it in a hurry, and forgets it when she is angry. But boys are different, if a boy proposes to break up, under normal circumstances, he really can't stand the relationship.

Because most men are more sensual, what things look at the surface of the appearance of more signs, and think about simplicity, anxious and straight, when encountering a problem, they want to solve it quickly, and then they don't want to think about it. It's the same with emotional things.,Chase when you like it.,All methods can be used immediately.,Fast and enthusiastic.,Once you decide you don't want to chase.,You can stop it immediately.。 And women's reaction is the opposite of men's, first cool and then hot, and it will take a long time to get hot and then want to be cold.

So it seems that the man broke up very ruthlessly.

Everyone in the world knows what your boyfriend looks like! No need to ask others, people are different! There are good and bad!

Because there is no love! It's not just a man who is ruthless!

It can only say about the men you met.

Bai Sheng is not good enough.

Usually under the circumstances, the boy will never say that he will break up.

DAOs have two reasons.

One is because he doesn't love you at all, or he has met a girl he thinks is better than you.

The second is because he has encountered something on his own and doesn't want to drag you down, but this situation is because he loves you too much.

I've been with my girlfriend for over half a year now, and to be honest, I'm still the same with her as I was when we first got together. I would think about her from time to time, and I would get up at one o'clock in the evening when she said she was hungry and make her food, and so on, and so on, and so on.

Don't be sad, the landlord suggests that before you open your heart to like someone, you must see what kind of person the other party is, otherwise you will end up deep and hurt yourself.

In fact, it may not be sad, but it is just not shown in front of outsiders. If you really love, it is impossible not to be sad when you just broke up, the calmer some people are on the surface, maybe the lower their hearts are, and they can know when they are alone. However, since you have broken up and have no fate, let's let it go, don't worry about it so much.

If only it is analyzed according to the constellation:

The typical Capricorn is indeed like a stubborn goat, either he doesn't love, and once he has decided on a love partner, Capricorn will put everything into himself and will not give up easily.

It is precisely because of this attachment that borders on paranoia that Capricorn will basically not look back if he takes the initiative to choose to break up, or if Capricorn has accepted the fact of breaking up.

Of course, this is just a commonality of astrological signs;

If you do love each other; If there is indeed a misunderstanding; Then you should try to try it.

Have you ever met a love that you didn't want to break up?

Those who take love as child's play, and those who do not feel heartache after breaking up, have 100% no possibility of getting back together, because the two have no true love. Both of them have heartache and jealousy and hatred (love is deep to hate), and the chance of reuniting is greater.

A breakup with love may be compliant, and a breakup without love cannot be reconciled.

Because of various unavoidable factors, there is a chance to compound in the future. Someone who has broken the other party's heart, there is no chance of getting back together.

Boyfriends and girlfriends may get back together, provided that neither of them has their current partner.

I must not get back together after a long time, and since we have broken up, I want to open it.

A breakup in love can get back together. A breakup that doesn't love each other can't get back together.

Not a relationship problem, a family problem, may have chances.

There is no right or wrong in love, only whether it is suitable or not, willing or not, happy or not. When you can't be together anymore, it's not that she didn't choose you, it's not that you abandoned her, it's that happiness didn't choose you, happiness didn't choose you, and love didn't choose you. So don't be troubled, don't be sad, you should bless each other and hope that each of you will find your true love.

If you feel pain when you lose the other person, then it proves that you don't love her at all, you just want to possess her, and you will only suffer when your possessiveness cannot be satisfied. When you love someone, what you should think about is not what the other person can give you, but what you can give her, can you give her the affection she needs? Can you give her joy and happiness?

Can you be happy with her happiness, happy with her happiness? Only this kind of love is true love, and only this kind of love is happy.!!

As long as you enjoy the process, there is nothing to be sad about, and two people are together by fate.

When fate comes, we will naturally be together, and if there is fate, even if you work hard, you can't get it.

Fate, sometimes fate has the final say, let's see the point.

Fate is destined. But it's man-made

There are some things that you don't necessarily have, no matter how much you like them.

There are some things that you are destined to let go no matter how nostalgic you are.

There is a lot of love in life.

But don't let love be a hurt.

Some fates are destined to be lost.

Some fates are destined not to end well.

Loving someone doesn't have to be having.

If you have it, you must love him well.

Ask: What is the "Zhi" in the world? Orthodox people can do everything.

Where there is a will, there is a way" This sentence expounds the relationship between "ambition" and "achievement": "ambition" can "achieve something", and if there is no "will", "thing" cannot be achieved.

It is said that when Pu Songling repeatedly failed in the imperial examination in his later period and was extremely downcast, he personally wrote an inspirational self-encouragement couplet: "Where there is a will, there is a way, and the one hundred and two Qin Passes belong to Chu after all; The hard-working people live up to the sky, and the three thousand Yue Jia can swallow Wu with a salary. "At the beginning, it was engraved on a copper ruler, and then it was suspended in the study room of the study.

Finally, with his ambition and unremitting efforts, he went down in history with a "Strange Tales from Liaozhai" and achieved great things.

There are many examples of this: during the Spring and Autumn Period, Wu Yue competed, Wu Sheng was defeated, and Goujian, the king of Yue, was reduced to a prisoner. But he was unwilling to give in, determined to take revenge, and finally defeated the state of Wu, leaving behind the eternal beauty of "lying on the salary and tasting the guts"; The famous mathematician Hua Luogeng was reprimanded for "no mathematical mind" when he was a child, and although he did not even have a junior high school diploma, he eventually became a giant ...... in the field of mathematicsMany politicians and scientists in ancient and modern times, both at home and abroad, have proved the correctness of the saying "where there is a will, there is a way" with their own actions.

However, Zhong Yong, who was able to "point to things and make poems immediately" at the age of five, was only greedy for profit because of his father, "the day Zhong Yong was surrounded by the people of the city, and he did not make learning" so that he lost his "will" and finally "disappeared from everyone". If "Zhongyong" is determined because of his talent, then the ending will be 108,000 miles apart.

But can "those who have a will" be able to "do it"? Not really. Many people have ambitions but do not succeed because their ambitions do not conform to objective reality and are just fantasies or fantasies, so how can they succeed?

It is necessary to have a constant ambition and put into it perseverance and hard work to achieve something. That is to say: if you cannot aspire to be a scientist today, a writer tomorrow, and a politician after a while, then you will not succeed.

No matter how difficult a person is, as long as he has ambition and unremitting efforts, he can succeed. On the other hand, if a person has no ambitions, no matter how simple things he does, he will not be satisfied.