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It's good that you can have such a yearning, but you should strive to create your ideal life in a down-to-earth manner, because all success is not achieved overnight, and there is no shortcut. We can't feel sorry for ourselves because of the frustration of consciousness. Life itself is dedicated in this world, and only by being able to dedicate oneself wholeheartedly to one's ideals can one's life be more meaningful.
What's the point of suffering a little?
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Drop it all! Make yourself happy, don't spend time on things that bother you, don't think about it!
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Yes, sister, you are too self-centered to understand what is truly good in life. The selfishness and vanity of nature are reflected in your dealings with others, and naturally your relationships are a mess. Forgive me for being blunt.
Truth be told, this vanity is hard to satisfy.
Why do many people live very tired, as if they are carrying a heavy burden? But a large part of it is the burden of sin, which includes vanity, for example, being too attached to other people's opinions and always trying to get ahead. For fear of being looked down upon by others.
Caring too much about other people's opinions is essentially wanting others to praise themselves and satisfy the pride in human nature.
In fact, what about contempt?
The selfish desire of human beings is to get ahead and be looked up to. Likes to look down on others. Used to elevate yourself.
The burden of vanity is so heavy, as a result, reading is no longer a quest for knowledge, and there is no longer the joy of seeking knowledge, and the endless ranking and pressure of going to school are also related to the face of parents. And in your sister, this burden is that you want to get ahead everywhere...
Yes, most modern people have psychological problems to a greater or lesser extent.
Marriage is also a law code for comparison between girlfriends. . . Children are no longer the crystallization of love...
The weight of sin makes all things taste ...
Life is only left with labor and sorrow, and it is empty in the blink of an eye...
In fact, the true meaning of life is not to have no desires, nor is it a life of ease, satisfying desires, being happy and being envied.
It's about living life in its original glory.
The poor education we received when we were growing up has caused many talented young people to lose their direction in life, and it is very painful for this generation.
The most important thing for people is to find the meaning of life, so that there will be no hardship and emptiness.
The human soul is truly a wonderful thing, and only something truly eternal and valuable can satisfy it.
Yes, if there is no ultimate truth, everything under the sun does not stand up to scrutiny, whether it is busy, leisurely, shallow sensual enjoyment, wonderful games. Movies, men and women entertain... A sigh and.
The Savior Jesus said, "What profit is it for a man to gain the whole world and forfeit his soul? What else can a man exchange for his life? ”
I recommend this sister to read a book "Wandering Son Yin - Eternity is Calling", there are on the Internet, in fact, only with true faith, people will see the glory and preciousness of life, and will also have mature values, and thus find the meaning of life, and live a rich and truly satisfying life. And it is a life that is happy and responsible in love and gratitude.
The Lord Jesus said, "Those who are not sick do not need a doctor, but those who are sick can use it; I have not come to call the righteous to repentance, but to sinners.
May you, sister, have a heart to seek the ultimate truth, try to come to this true and living Savior, and put your life direction and burdens before Him. He is also willing and able to heal the sicknesses of our hearts.
Try it, and you will find that the God recognized by the great scientists Newton, Einstein, Sun Yat-sen, and the previous Americans** really exists. You will understand why Europe and the United States are scientifically advanced, but there are many outstanding people from all walks of life who believe in the great salvation revealed in the Bible.
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