Do people make friends with a purpose?

Although it is easy to walk with more friends, everyone also has to consider how we can make friends in real life? Most people will make friends with their sincerity, but don't deny that some people make friends with a purpose. In general, it is understandable that people make friends with a purpose, after all, everyone has their own goals.

On the whole, as long as a person lives, he actually makes friends with a purpose.

First, the help of friends can make yourself more smooth

Everyone wants to have a smooth sailing on their own, but this society will always bump and bump. So when you are alive, you want to manage your life well. At this moment, if a friend falls from the sky, then whether this life is going well or not will become incredible because of the appearance of this friend.

Although making friends may not make it easy for you, life or career may become easier because of friends.

Second, because of the addition of friends, the purpose becomes simple

In ordinary life, many people live with a purpose, for example, we have to eat three meals a day, sleep exquisitely, and live a more colorful life. While these goals are easy to achieve, we are also exposed to more difficult ones. At this time, when I want to achieve this goal, I suddenly find that there is a friend who can let me take a "shortcut", then most people will choose to make this friend.

3. The relationship between people can actually be "used" by each other

I once read a book in which the idea is that relationships between people are actually mutually exploitative, including husband and wife. You may find it a little incredible to see this!

It has to be said that people have to make friends with a purpose, and use the relationship of friends to achieve a certain goal.

In life, we all want to have an extraordinary life, and most of us just live a dull life. If we think about it a lot, life may be different. After all, our lives can change due to some of our own decisions, such as making a certain friend, etc.

Not all make friends with a purpose, because the friendship between friends is also relatively simple, not purposeful, if there is a purposeful to make friends, then this friend is okay.

Some are, some don't. I think some of the playmates I played with when I was a kid had no purpose, and the children were just very happy together and liked to play with each other.

No. Many people make friends based on their personality, and it is very good to be able to find a friend who fits their personality.

I don't know if I can help you with this, but I can talk to you about my thoughts, because I have thought about this problem as much as you do, and I have been confused! Actually, I think that we should have a degree in everything we do, and making friends is the same, I remember that I once made a friend before, and our relationship was very good, and we wanted to stick together all the time, especially when we first met, no matter what we said, our views and opinions are the same, so to speak, there is really one"I hate to see each other late"feelings. Sometimes I talk to other friends about me and her, and I'm very impressed by what one friend says.

She said"If you join for a long time, you will divide for a long time"I didn't think much of it at the time. Later, it was as she said.

Our relationship is getting worse day by day. In the end, they only see each other's shortcomings, and they always have contradictions. In the end, I slowly lost contact.

I think that if a person has a good relationship with another person, you know everything about her, she understands everything about you, and when the two people get along together, they feel that there is no privacy at all, she will lose interest in getting along with you, and sometimes she is too lazy to say a word, if you maintain some degree in a timely manner, it may not be like this. However, the premise is that whether we are going to make friends or whatever, we must treat everyone sincerely, no matter what she is for. As long as we have a clear conscience ourselves!

Hope mine can give you some help!

It can't be said that making friends has a purpose, and sometimes it is just a chance to meet two people with the same interests and hobbies, and if you have a good chat, you will have the opportunity to become good friends. Some friends have grown up since childhood, and before they know it, they are already the best friends in their lives.

Yes, people are selfish, and making friends is also about wanting to get things from friends, some are benefits such as money and rights, and some are companionship.

Personally, I think that no matter what you do, there is a purpose, and it can't be completely purposeless, why do I make friends, but also because I am too lonely, if I have a friend, at least someone will chat with me and accompany each other.

Making friends is not all about purpose, you may just feel that you are very happy together, and you don't have so many eyes or want to get something out of each other.

Whatever you do has a purpose.

1. The need for social mutual assistance and cooperation.

That is, the need to help, or the need for interests in popular terms, the initial purpose of friends is not friendship, but social mutual assistance and cooperation, and the root of all social relations in society is social mutual assistance and cooperation. With the cooperation of people through social mutual assistance, the problems of survival and security are solved.

2. The need for friendship.

That is, the need to love and be loved, that is, the need for emotion. I hope that the friendship of friends can be deep and long-lasting, that they can share and share each other's feelings, that they can talk about and relieve the bitterness and troubles in their hearts, and that they can eliminate loneliness.

3. Different positions require different abilities.

In the early stage of familiarity and understanding of friends, you can judge who is suitable for what things. You can quickly contact the relevant people and cooperate on related matters.

4. When encountering extremely complex interests, what you need is reliable character.

When you encounter technical problems, you need to be technically competent. Once these things come, it will be a fire to the eyebrows, and the risk is huge, and there is no room for too much thinking. Then, the foreshadowing of making friends in the early stage is the basis for immediate decision-making now.

The purpose of making friends should be:

For the sake of their own emotional sufficiency.

In order to have a true heart"Mirrors"

In order to let yourself experience the division and integration.

In order to make up for their weaknesses more deeply.

In order to make yourself happy every day.

Someone to comfort when you're sad'Care.

Everyone has their own purpose for making friends

Some people do it because of money;

Some people are because of power;

And some people just want to be happy;

There are also people who just want to make others happy...

Get a sense of satisfaction, help others, improve yourself

So what kind of friends do you make, is it the need for friendship, the foundation of love?

It's not like those things, I often go to love and meet the contract p, which is still more reliable.

People make friends for two reasons. One is true feelings, and the other is interests.

Truth: In this era when everything is too cheap to look at money, how blessed it is to have a friend who can open his heart and speak his heart. A lonely tree does not make a forest, and a person will always be tired and lonely after a long time.

A friend can give you encouragement when you're at a low point, a drink with you when you're out of love, or a small gift for you on your birthday to say happy birthday. It's all beautiful to think about. If you don't have friends to talk to, then when you are blamed by the leader, you can only smoke and drink silently by yourself and have no one to talk to.

Interests: Friends, the good thing to say is to help each other, and the bad thing to say is to use each other. Everyone wants to be rewarded for their efforts, and no one is exempt.

To put it bluntly, it is utilitarian. It's the same with making friends, which is less obvious when I was a student. But when you get to society, who you play well with and get closer, there will definitely be an idea that he will be able to pull you in the future.

It is the so-called Gou Fugui.

Don't forget. Friends, there is also a synonym for nobles. If you want to succeed in your career, in addition to personal efforts, you also need opportunities. And this opportunity is the appreciation and support of noble friends.

Of course. In the actual process of making friends, there are also both. All in all, I hope you treat everyone with sincerity and don't play tricks.

Making friends is for chatting, playing together for entertainment, and having someone to help you when you encounter things, which is a kind of emotional communication for human beings. Help a friend, but don't rely on a friend, so that the time to make a long hand.

There are many aspects to this, and I will tell you my opinion.

If you have a confidant, you can share whatever you are unhappy about or happy about, and in this stressful society, you will not feel that you are alone and will not feel lonely (even if you are not together, or in the same city).

Also, my future wife (or husband) is actually my best friend!

You can make more friends in the society, and if you want to do something difficult in the future, you can ask your friends for help, and they are also willing to lend a hand to help you. I also have a lot of development for myself in the future. There is a saying that connections are wealth, not only in life, but also spiritually.

Try to find friends who are compatible with you, the so-called good friends, not everyone is worth making.

Try to be careful in what you say and do, because one more friend is better than one more enemy.

If you don't have friends in this period, you must have a huge impact on your personality, such as common rejection of strangers, low self-esteem, naivety, and idealistic ...... that are detached from reality

After the mental age matures, after you are mature enough, the group of friends will become less and less important in your life. It takes energy to maintain friends, and some people can really do it without friends, because in their free time, they can arrange themselves very properly, and quite have the state of enjoyment, or peace with loneliness, and can always solve things by themselves, rarely need the opinions of a third party, not stubborn, not do their own thing, is their own social experience is rich enough, and the perspective of looking at things is diversified enough, and they don't need other people's opinions as a reference. In this state of mind, many people will not take the initiative to pay energy to make new friends, if at this time, the old friends gradually drift away for various reasons, until there is no friend in the address book who can chat in real time, probably will not feel anything unusual.

It is difficult to cultivate the grass at the end of the world, and it is difficult to find a bosom friend in the world!

For the sense of rice pairing, travel friends, there is really no need, there is a posture that would rather be lacking than excessive! For drinking friends and dinner friends who don't understand themselves, even if they sit face to face, they still feel a distance of 108,000 miles, and at this time, they just feel that it is better to stay alone!

That's where I'm now.

When you're mature enough, of course it's good to have friends, and it's okay if you don't!

When you are immature, afraid of loneliness, and need to hug someone for warmth, friends at this time are really important!

In addition to eliminating their own loneliness, making friends is of course more about making themselves happy. Let friends be happy and happy, because one more friend, one more road. And you will also feel each other's joys, sorrows, and sorrows, and when you are unhappy, it must be very good that someone cares about you and enlightens you.

People make friends to communicate and relieve pressure, and a few are also for other purposes, all for profit, of course, there is also pure friendship, a few.

Of course, for myself, for the sake of being able to have one more way.

Of course, it's for my own happiness, and it's also for the help of friends.

In today's society, where people think that money interests are paramount, perhaps, you are still a child looking for a friend just to be a playmate. Perhaps, you are innocent and sincere, and you are looking for friends only to find multiple friends and multiple paths, help each other, and seek confidants. Perhaps, you are becoming more and more insidious and treacherous, looking for friends only to take advantage of them, and for your own interests, you have the intention of harming others and benefiting yourself.

The essence of friends is human nature, when you interact with more and more people to see through human nature, you will give friends a definition, because everyone is not exactly the same, outlook on life, values, thoughts, beliefs, education, personal quality, character, personality, temperament, different comprehension and understanding ability is different.

The prerequisite for two people to become more and more iron is that they cater to each other's needs, can attract each other, are more happy together, have similar interests and hobbies, and other communication skills.

I think all making friends is for a certain benefit, whether it is indirect or direct, making friends without any interests is a hooligan, but there is a benefit of making friends for a long time, otherwise they are all passers-by and clouds.

People of different ages think differently, children, in order to be happy, someone to play with him and treat it sincerely, teenagers are to have a confidant person, adults want to have a friend who is blessed and shared, and there are difficulties together, this friend is just a person, most of them are for the benefit relationship, there is a saying, the bigger the person, the smaller the heart.