My mom always scolds me, why does my mom always scold me?

Mother is the best person in the world to herself, mother always scolds people is a sign of love, she is afraid that you don't understand words, afraid that you will suffer losses in life, afraid that you are not polite ,...In a word, she is ruthless and cannot be made of steel. That's why she scolds you all the time. Because she loves you the most.

Single mothers, different from ordinary people, you are a pair of hedgehogs, loving each other but hurting each other. Let's talk about it from the bottom of our hearts! Actually, she loves you! Be more understanding.

I think you grew up in a single-parent family. You should understand your mom. Maybe he sometimes has a very aggressive personality. It is possible that he also hates iron and steel. Have a good talk with your mom.

I was also often scolded by my mother for some reason. Sometimes she asks me to bring a bag because I go out, and I refuse. Then she talked about me all the way, and inexplicably pointed to the old things .........

I usually ignore her when I encounter this kind of thing, and I usually reply with the words "uh-huh, oh-oh". In this way, I can't quarrel, and before I can't afford to move out, try to avoid her as much as possible.

It's so pitiful, if you don't recognize your mother's anger, it's fine.

Try to meet her requirements.

Please elaborate on the specific situation.

Summary. What I can understand is that my parents used more ugly words when they quarreled than when they scolded me. In such a comparison, it's just that the era in which they lived, and the people who raised them, were almost at this level of language ability.

It is mentioned in "Nonviolent Communication" that the older people get, the less they can express directly, and they are used to reducing the words from others to some abstract words. What you have to do is hear what he really means, and what most people want to convey is not a malicious idea, but more of a concern. Sometimes, though, you don't even understand yourself, let alone what someone else is really trying to convey in a vague language.

Why does my mom keep scolding me?

What I can understand is that my parents used more ugly words when they quarreled than when they scolded me. In such a comparison, it's just that the era in which they lived, and the people who raised them, were almost at this level of language ability. It is mentioned in "Nonviolent Communication" that the older people get, the less they can express directly, and they are used to reducing the words from others to some abstract words.

What you have to do is hear what he really means, and what most people want to convey is not a malicious idea, but more of a concern. Sometimes, though, you don't even understand yourself, let alone what someone else is really trying to convey in a vague language.

Kiss, about the fact that my mother always speaks badly and hurts people, many times it is a habit of speaking, unintentional, and incidental. It can also be said that because she loves you, she also forgot to cover her ugly side.

Kiss, I want your mother to get along with you, in fact, you can also have some little willfulness, you can use ruthless and soft tricks, don't look at them so old, in fact, they are still a child, not just communication will change. (Of course, if you push too hard, you may be rewarded with a beating!) As long as you want to, as long as you dare to try and dare to do, you will be able to understand your parents' temperament and temperament, and then you will understand their behavior and language.