As a stay at home mother, do you choose to work after your child enters first grade?

In fact, I feel that it all depends on my choice, and if the focus is on the education of my children, it is also good to be a stay-at-home mother. My child from the first grade, on their own school bus to and from school with the key to go home, Sunday also at home until I get back from work at five o'clock in the afternoon, in the morning I will prepare for him to eat and drink fruit and lunch, I am also very good, the grades are also good 54 children in the class, always the top five, study with this don't care, before the beginning of the after-school class for him, but he felt very bored, do not like to go, so he relied on himself, until the second grade teacher came to talk to me, said that the child can be better, I wanted to participate in his learning, I tried for two months, and the results were the first in the monthly exam, so I decided to return to the family, now not only the first in the class, but also the first in the grade group twice, now think about the child actually grows up very fast, sometimes you are not around when he needs to be accompanied, and when you want to participate or want to accompany him, maybe he doesn't need you anymore, so while they are still young, it is better to give them more companionship, some encouragement, some hugs, and more love.

I have to go to work, otherwise it's hard to survive. My baby has just started kindergarten, I will come out to work, get up early every day to get it done, rush to the hospital to work after sending the child to school, rush to pick up the child after work, go home to buy groceries, play with the child, cook. Clean up the house and wait for my husband to come back for dinner.

Eat a good meal and pack your things. Bathe your child and put him to sleep. (In the end, I was told that you were tired all day long, am I tired from work?)

In fact, with children, these things are more tiring than going to work. To tell the truth, occasionally people's fathers rest at home for a day to take care of the children, and when I go back from work for a day, I have to go grocery shopping, cook, wash and make the children, and people just sit and wait for food. If you're in a good mood, give you a smile, and if you're in a bad mood, give you a face.

Sometimes I don't know what I'm trying to do. (No matter how much I pay, I don't get a word of thanks, and my husband's salary is not handed over.) Women are tired.

My child has just turned 9 years old and is in the third grade, I quit last May Day and am now starting a business. Raising a child now is different from when we were in our parents' generation, such as social security, such as learning content, such as living environment, basically a child before the age of 12 is equipped with an adult to perform caregiving duties. I quit because I couldn't get 7 a.m

00 go out and go home at 7:00 pm. According to the child's schedule, I basically can't accompany her to eat on weekdays, what's the matter?

It's not without pressure financially, but if you think about it, even if I go to work, the possibility of getting rich from my work income is 0, but I can cook for my child in the morning and evening, accompany her to a hobby class, and listen to her chatter at any time, which is a happiness that money can't buy, and from my own point of view, I think it's worth it. The direction of my business is also related to children, although the product is not available now, and I don't know whether it will be successful or not, and it is said that the failure rate is very high. But it's worth thinking about it, after all, my original intention is just not to miss too much time with my children and regret it when I'm old.

I quit my job when my child went to elementary school. Later, I went to school for a while, and it was my parents who helped pick up and drop off the children. During this period, my father was sick and hospitalized, my mother was in the hospital to accompany me, I had to go to work to pick up the children, cook and send them to the hospital, and then I was busy with the children's meals, my husband traveled a lot and couldn't take care of the family, and there was always someone in our family who was responsible for making money.

I couldn't keep busy, so I quit again. My father was discharged from the hospital after half a year, and I never went to work again. Because if I continue to work, I have to help my parents pick up and drop off the children, and now that my parents are older, as long as they are well, I can't bother them anymore.

And the children are getting busier and busier, not only to pick up and drop off from school, but also to have various cram schools after school. In the past, all kinds of tutoring classes were scheduled on weekends, and I could take care of them, but now I can't arrange them on weekends, and I usually have to go to school after school, and I can't bear to work my parents anymore. And there are a lot of things to do at school.

The school also requires parents to participate in education, and although they don't go to work, they are still busy. Of course, you can also not participate, but participation or non-participation is completely different, not to mention that everyone understands. The children's growth footprints are also a lot more beautiful, and the qualifications for junior high school or school selection are also different.

In this era of networking, there is really no need to worry about not working and derailing from the times. The school brought out all my potential, and I didn't know I was so capable before. It's not a problem to publish a newspaper and do a handicraft.

Now it's to guide children to write a **, submit a manuscript, and get a campaign, or don't get it, as long as you want to get a prize. Engage in a performance, from planning the case, choreographing and choreographing dance, stage performance, hand-in-hand action and action teaching, on-site guidance, background, editing, costumes and props ......You can really do anything. The requirements of the teacher are also of high standard, and I am really not a ...... professional in doing thisBut there's nothing you can't do, you can't just go to school, you ...... learnI followed the child to tutor the Olympiad, studied English, learned music theory, played the piano a few times, couldn't dance, watched too much, made a dance or something, and ...... artYou can also organize students and parents to travel, and you can do it at home and abroad Teachers, classmates, and parents are all smiling when they see you, school activities, my daughter will always be the most central and shining one on the stage, and teachers will think about your child's ...... in various opportunitiesThis is the pay and return, is the current full-time mother, ** still have the energy to work?

My daughter is my career.

I think it needs to be carefully considered. I know a mom who also has two daughters, the younger daughter went to kindergarten in September last year and the older daughter went to the first grade of primary school last year. She started work in September last year, at a care center.

She works for three hours from 10:30 a.m. to 1:30 p.m. and three and a half hours from 4 p.m. to 7:30 p.m., with Saturdays and Sundays off. Her eldest daughter is in the middle of the day and in the evening, and the younger daughter is in the kindergarten at noon and in the evening at the care center. This work schedule is still more suitable, and her eldest daughter finishes her homework before she goes home.

In fact, there are not many jobs suitable for elementary school mothers to work. Children are dropped off at school by 7:30 p.m., picked up at 11 p.m., dropped off at 1:30 p.m., and picked up by 4:30 p.m. If you choose to go to work, your child may need to be taken care of, and the pros and cons of this have to be considered.

As a full-time mom for six years, I would like to say that I want to go to work after my child is in first grade. I have two babies and it will be two years before I can go to kindergarten. Dabao entered the first grade in September this year.

When a stay-at-home mother comes out to work again, sometimes it is not a career to choose, but a suitable working time. As long as it's right for your child's time, it's a good job.

I go to work, the child eats at school at noon, the child's father eats in the morning, I do the child (when the child is young), now in the 4th grade, I help the child tie his hair, and when he gets home at night, the child's father cooks, I check the homework, I get off work and is busier than work, and the clothes are washed once every few days, and once every 2 days in the summer. Although it feels busy, at least it is fulfilling and not so unbearable.

I have to go to work, when I don't go to work, the housework and the children are in charge, my husband still always quarrels with me, this year's child is the first day of junior high school, I earn more money than my husband at work, I don't do anything, the housework is done by my husband, and he has no temper. You say you want to go to work or not.

I have to work, I worked the day before I gave birth, and I continued to work when my child was 3 months old, and women don't work and have no family status, and their parents are also angry.

In fact, there is a random person in the family who can help pick up the child and watch it for a few hours. will choose to go to work. My child goes to kindergarten and my husband is a program ape.

I get home at 9:10 every day. The grandparents disliked their daughter for a long time and didn't agree to show it. It's a distant marriage again, and my mother's family can't help.

Recently, I went out to look for a job, and I was very sad that I didn't have the time to do it. It's okay in the morning, mainly because I don't leave work so early in the afternoon. Still working on it....Whatever job is done at the right time, it doesn't matter how much money he has.

Can you earn some money for this family?

Before going to primary school, I have been at work, very busy, the leader likes to get off work at 6 o'clock in the afternoon for meetings, overtime, sometimes get off work in the early morning, my husband is as busy as work, and will not take care of the children, when the children graduate from the class, I resigned decisively, now the family, the children can be taken care of, and can help my husband's career, is the ideal state.

The baby's first grade is the early stage of learning, and it is also the most important time. Good habits and learning attitudes will begin to be cultivated, if mothers choose to go to work at this time, first of all, there is a limit on working hours, unless the baby is placed on the small dining table. Secondly, when you get home from work, you have to do housework, and the baby's writing and homework must also be taken seriously, which will definitely have an impact!

As a mother of a second child, it is recommended that if mothers really want to go to work, it is best to consider it after the baby is in the third grade.

Mom has to cook, wash clothes, and take care of the children when she doesn't go to work, and if there is no one at home to help with this, why go to work.

If you are the only one at home 24 hours a day, in addition to being a civil servant working from 9 to 5, it is unrealistic to want to go to work and take the baby in other jobs, especially before the fifth grade of the child, the parents of the first and second grades do not pick up, and the teacher does not dare to let the child go home alone......

In fact, it is difficult to find a good job by waiting for the child to go to the first grade.

I go to work as much as possible if I don't work full-time, I go to work after my children go to school, I don't need the help of the elderly, two people make money, you can ask someone to pick up the children, cook dinner.

It's still early for the first grade to finish school, right? How? The ideal is very plump, and the reality is very skinny.

Elementary school is more worrying than kindergarten, starting early and leaving school early, taking home for dinner at noon, tutoring homework after eating and then sending it back to school, and tutoring homework after school at night. It's not as much free time as kindergarten!

Do coupons. I can't pick up my children when I get off work late, and I can't catch up with my children when I'm early. You usually have to take leave for activities. The child has to take time off work when he is sick. Alas, it's hard to find. This is the only way to do it. Time is free.

I went to work after my child was in the second grade. At first, because I didn't go out for two years, I was a little uncomfortable, afraid of an unfamiliar environment, and didn't want to communicate with people. Now that I've adapted, my mindset is different. I feel that it is very fulfilling to go to work every day and then go home to help my children with their homework.

I look at the children at home full-time, especially after having two children at home, I can't find a suitable job, which company will allow you to go to work at nine o'clock and get off work at three o'clock in the afternoon, and there are two days off, so it is unrealistic to say that it is unrealistic to go to work, every day with two children are tired and dizzy, and at night I have to tutor the eldest to study, even if the family is under great financial pressure, there is no way, so now it is really tiring and tiring to raise two children in a big city.

No, you don't. Seeing many stay-at-home moms say they're anxious, or their kids accuse their moms of being too busy and choking their kids, my mom might be another type. She never worries.

Her daily life is all about making herself happy, so she is happy every day. She often hears her own laughter at home, which is the fruit of happiness in the family. She was very happy for me and my sister, we just need to have good behavior and freedom.

My sister and I have had the right to decide our own affairs since we were young.

My mother chose not to work just because she didn't want to. After all, it was my father who raised her as long as her father supported her. My sister and I have no objections.

She never told us that she didn't work for us or the family, didn't ask us to be grateful, didn't lead by example, didn't think she could create much value through her work, she was very self-aware of her abilities.

My mother's greatest contribution to the family was to provide emotional value. Whenever something unpleasant happens to her, she cooks a delicious meal at home. She doesn't like to nag or complain in front of us.

Instead, she often shares some interesting stories with her family. The same goes for my father. When she came home from work every day, my father would tell her about what happened at work or on a certain day, whether she understood it or not, she listened carefully every time and supported my father unconditionally, even if we had conflicts with my father.

Even though my father was wrong, she chose to side with my father. When my father calmed down, she would point out my father's faults. My father also liked to tell her that they rarely quarreled and were mentally dependent on my mother, who was in charge of the financial power of the family.

They have been married for many years and still play ** every day. My father neither smoked nor drank. He only left himself £200 a month for living expenses and paid his salary.

For the first time, he took the initiative to transfer money to my mother (my father was a different kind of person). One of the most powerful things about my mother is that she never mentions her salary at home. The whole family took the initiative to treat her well, and I believe that the whole family can treat her like this.

This ability has nothing to do with whether she works or not.

Whether to be a housewife or not.

is everyone's choice, depending on their own circumstances. However, in this society, being a housewife is very dangerous. My parents are an example of this.

Whatever choice they make, they should remember that people should love themselves and enrich themselves first and foremost. Only when they are happy can they have a positive impact on the family. Don't think of this companionship as a way for children to be grateful, except for preschoolers, children of other ages don't need so much companionship.

Instead, they need to provide more space. For example, my mother gave too much, but my mother still did well. No matter who she mentions, she says she doesn't want to work, she won't say to be with us, and we don't need to have a company like this all the time.