There are two people who are not in harmony, what if you are in the middle

Try to understand the other person, understand what the other person thinks, learn to be tolerant, and understand. For the sake of the child, you can sit down and have a good talk, if you have feelings for him, try to maintain your relationship, if you don't feel for him anymore and feel that being with him is a torment, then it is better to separate early! Or take a break to calm down!

Decide whether two people are together, personality is only one aspect, the important thing is whether the two people have the same outlook on life, maybe you will have different ways of dealing with things, but the ultimate goal should be the same. When there are differences between each other, there is more understanding and tolerance, which is what you must learn both if you want to be together.

Go with this heart, and let whoever you want to live with you more! Don't think too much, either persuade them to arrange from the school, it's best not to offend anyone, if you really can't help it, choose one of the two, if you really have a good friend who is really good, you won't be angry, if you are angry, it's not really a good friend, and you don't understand that you have to put pressure on you. Whatever!

Then you'd better not share the same bedroom with any of them, like this, whoever you are with, will provoke the other party to have an opinion on you, at this time you have to do work with two people, explain things clearly to the two of them, just say that some of you are happy to do this, but let me be caught in the middle, who you live with will offend people, the contradiction between the two of you can't sacrifice me to achieve your own goals, that's what it means, when you say it, you have to come to some language arts, you have to be resolute, no one lives together, At first, two people may have complaints about you, but this is short-lived, and it will be good for them to figure it out after a long time, and there is no need to offend one party.

You can separate one after another, it's strange, it seems that you are the emperor, who to sleep with, you have to consider, they are not in harmony, you can mediate Oh (o) Oh, since you and they are good, it means that both of them have good character, and slowly they may get along, they both have the intention of sleeping with you, then you take turns to sleep in this way, which is fair.

Since they are all good friends of yours, you should act as an intermediary so that the two of them are reconciled as before, and all three of them should live in harmony with each other. If you're in a quandary, you can let the two of them share a dormitory, which will help them reconcile.

Then you can put forward conditions for them: if both of them want to share a dormitory with you, then they can't quarrel, and the relationship must be good, otherwise they won't be given the same dormitory! In this way, it is also a disguised way to alleviate the contradictions between them and let them make the relationship good!

You say that two people are good to you, but two people are not in harmony, if you can be the middleman, let these two people reconcile that is great, if not, you ask yourself, who do you prefer, there is always a place in your heart a little heavier, you choose him again. Hope to adopt, thank you.

It seems that your popularity is very good, and two inappropriate people have to sleep with you, whether it is vindictive or something, the best way is for you to adjust the contradictions between the two people. It's all about using your charms, and then the three of you sleep together.

I don't know if you're talking about men or women, or how many men or women. Also, your wording (thanks for the discord) doesn't know if it's intentional or if you're at a real level. Convoluted.

Are you okay with those two people, you mediate those two people, and the three of you can sleep together.

You're quite right.

A lot of things are true.

Look at fate......No one harms.

That is, the contradiction between these two people must be resolved first.

If you can get in touch, first show that you want to communicate, give the other person some time to calm down, but not too long, and then try to communicate.

Let's give everyone a moment to calm down

Slowly running in, two people who grew up with different family backgrounds come together, and they have to have a run-in process after marriage......

If you don't have children, you can't continue to divorce early, so don't harm your children later.

Now that you're married, let's run in slowly. If you really can't say it, it depends on why there is discord.

Actually, for your situation, many people will encounter you, and you can use euphemism to explain it, you just say that although it feels like two people are together, it's okay, but it's not the best choice?

If someone asks you if you think two people are compatible, and you don't really want to be with the other person, but you don't know how to say it, you can praise the other person. And then say something very good, and you say that you can't do it yourself or something wrong with it, so it's not appropriate, and that's also a way to say no.

There's nothing bad to say, so reluctantly together, sooner or later you have to break up, don't be indecisive, be decisive, long pain is better than short pain.

I don't really want to be with each other, at this time you have to say it clearly, you have to grasp this, you can't be vague at this time, some problems can be vague, some problems must be clear and straightforward, show your point of view, your opinion, show that the two people are not suitable, so that the other party will not delay each other, let the other party die, let the other party find a good home, you will not be entangled, you can also find your own good home, two people can get together and disperse.

If you are vague and do not express your attitude, you will keep delaying the other party, delaying the other party, and annoying yourself. It's self-inflicted.

Of course, you can express this point of view, but you can say it tactfully, and it will not hurt the other party if you say it in a short time, and the point of view is to end this relationship as soon as possible, you understand this.

Don't force yourself on emotional matters, if you don't want to be with the other person, just talk to him directly, even if the other party helps you, you can repay him in other ways.

This happens from time to time. You feel that the other person is willing to help you because of this relationship. You're still reluctant to be with him after helping.

It depends on what you don't like about him. If it's small, otherwise you'll stick to getting along for a while, and then observe it. If you reject him from the heart, or even hate him a little, then resolutely break up!

Say you can use it. It's better than feeling bad for the rest of your life.

In fact, it can be said that we can only be ordinary friends, after all, there are still some personality differences between them, this must be said directly, otherwise the people around us will be more and more misunderstood.

It's really impossible to explain this time for a long time, or to put an end to all the troubles in the future as soon as possible, in fact, it should be explained more simply, really don't let people misunderstand anymore!

Don't say it directly, it will hurt people's hearts. It can be politely refused, and if the other party insists, then appeased.

If someone asks me if the two of us are a good fit, I'll be honest.

I think if you don't want to be with the other person, you can tell him that I haven't thought about it for the time being.

With each other because of a favor?

Isn't it? I helped, thank people, you don't have to make a promise, right?

What does this post-em letter mean if someone asks him if it is appropriate? That's definitely not together, because if my girlfriend was angry, I didn't coax her.

You said we could get along for a while longer and strengthen our relationship, what do you think?

Outright refusal. If you don't want to be together, you refuse. It's impossible to say sacrificing oneself and making others happy.

You can say that we are in the stage of getting to know each other, let's talk about it first and see if we can get along.

If you really feel that it is inappropriate for two people to be together, then you must say it earlier, don't delay (

I think helping is helping to fall in love is being in love, it's not a thing. If you don't want to be with him, just tell him that you two are not suitable.

The main reasons for marital discord are:

The relationship between master and servant is chaotic.

The first thing to do is to establish who is the master and who is the servant.

It can't be everyone's boss.

There must be one man as the master and the other as the servant.

How to establish a master and servant?

In the family, those who resist the banner are the mainstay, those who are responsible for supporting the family are the mainstay, and those who are capable are the mainstay.

The weak are servants.

If you distinguish between master and servant, you will avoid quarrels.

Of course, both parties must have the spirit of contract, and what is agreed upon must be carried out according to the agreement, which can naturally avoid differences due to incompatible personalities.

The laws of the country are a good example of this, and everyone must follow them, regardless of your personality.

If the personalities are not compatible, they can set up a convention, abide by each other, and judge who is right and who is wrong according to the convention.

If two people keep quarreling, it must be very emotional, in fact, I think if the personalities are incompatible, you can try to run in, you can't keep quarreling. Try to work hard for the sake of the child, and if it really doesn't work, forget it separately.

Many marriages seem good on the surface, but in fact, there is more or less disharmony on the inside. Because of the ties of having children, they are not willing to give up a complete home easily. After all, the children are innocent.

In marriage, there is also a need to be tolerant and giving, if there are no mistakes in principle, communicate well with each other to make changes, it should be better for the original team to live.

Separate for a month, come back and try again, still quarreled, and divorced.

For the sake of the children, let's make do!

Try to be patient. It's not easy for the two to be together. Usually they are rarely together, so why quarrel when they meet. Learning to be considerate and tolerant will not.

After the run-in period, it will be fine, as long as people are together, there is no tongue that does not touch teeth. Since it's a trifle, let them pass! It's also a good idea for men to quit women. Hehe, I hope your relationship will return to the past.

Then cherish each other and calm down when arguing, so that it will be better.

There is no waiting for a goal, life is played by two people.

There are a lot of things that don't fit, and long pain is better than short pain that will only hurt each other.