What moment did you feel that all the good you had for your friends was not worth it?

I've only had one friend that makes me feel very unworthy, the girl who robbed my boyfriend before, and I feel drunk to make such a friend, and although it's been so long, I still remember it. The moment I confirmed that the two of them were really together, I felt that all the good I had done to that friend was particularly unworthy.

We had lived in the same dorm before, and even when I introduced my boyfriend to my sisters, we were still living in the same dorm. I don't know what I was sorry for her as a friend, maybe she robbed my boyfriend at that time just to make her the only one in the dormitory who was single. In fact, if she really says she wants to find a boyfriend, we will help her find it.

But the truth is that when we all had a tea party together, the girl kept saying that she didn't want a boyfriend and that she was doing well alone.

It turned out that he was the only one left single in the dormitory, and he began to rob other people's boyfriends, which was really righteous enough.

In fact, not only me at that time, but also the other sisters in my dormitory also saw that the girl and my boyfriend at the time were a little tired, but there was no evidence, and I couldn't believe that the girl was that kind of person, at least we were still friends at the time, and the relationship was not bad, and we were usually good to each other.

Then the two of them held hands and stood in front of me, saying that my presence had delayed the two of them. Bah! Excessively! Disgusting! Make this kind of thing, I don't want it to give it to me, do whatever you like, as long as you don't dangle in front of me, disgusting me.

Then the girl moved out of our dorm and hasn't been in touch since. The moment the two of them held hands and stood in front of me, I really felt unworthy for the kindness I had ever been to her!

The saddest thing for me is probably that my friends forget their friends, many of my good friends don't pay much attention to our relationship after they have boyfriends, and they feel that they have become slaves of love, and friendship is even more valuable. <>

Shuangshuang was my best friend in my freshman year of high school, and I transferred to another school in my sophomore year of high school, but we never broke off contact. They still play ** every day, comfort each other, encourage each other, and motivate each other to study hard. She likes a boy and has been waiting for him, they agreed that they will be together when they graduate from high school, and I have always encouraged them to study hard and wait for graduation.

But after they were together, I felt like I became air, I think there is always another life when I fall in love, friends still have to be in touch, but both completely forget about my existence, and she only thinks of me when her boyfriend ignores her when he is busy. It's really heart-wrenching, and in that case, I'd rather she don't think of me at all.

I hate it when others raise their voices to talk to me, although I have already understood this person, I don't have much ability, but my temper is very big, and it is better to have less contact in the future. Although I've heard her yell at some people, but I still can't stand this, obviously others talk to you well, you still have to use yelling, I know a truth: a person's temper should not be greater than a person's ability.

You don't have anything to blame for others, and you have no right words to blame others.

There is also a type of person, the character is not good, not sincere enough to you, sometimes you treat a person with your heart and lungs, but at a certain moment suddenly find that you don't know this person at all, this person is you thought that you would not hide anything from you, but also treat you sincerely, but it disappointed you, very cold. A friend used to have a good time, and the two of us would talk a lot together, and I would also tell some little secrets. Suddenly, one day, I felt that everyone was looking at me wrongly, and I wondered to myself, and then someone told me that it was what I thought was a good friend, and actually told the little secret I told her, and still talked about me in front of others, which was very cold and heartbreaking.

Sometimes I feel that more things are better than less things, forget it, it is better than always having to care, and you must understand that there are some things that should not be said, and you must have a number in your heart.

I believe that true friends are just like what Jacky Cheung's song "Blessing" sings: "Don't ask, don't say, everything is in plain sight, this moment, let us spend quietly by candlelight, may I always keep my smile in my heart, and accompany you through every spring, summer, autumn and winter."

In fact, to put it bluntly, friends are relative in heart and sincerity. When parting, although parting is in front of you, say goodbye, but goodbye will not be too far away, in a certain year and a certain moment, reunion in the splendid season, and as beautiful as when they were not separated.

It is said that there are no eternal friends, no eternal enemies, only eternal interests. When this sentence is scored, because friends are also divided into friends and scumbags, right? A true friend is not to give you a simple blessing on your birthday, not to give a word of comfort when you are lost, and not to give you a ** when you are empty.

A true friend is the one who hands you a cup of hot water when you're sick, carries your bag for you when you make a mistake, and pays attention to you in your daily life.

Okay, now back to the point. I'll also talk about the scumbag friend I met.

It was when I was in high school, I fell in love with a girl in high school, I was a junior in high school, and that girl was a freshman in high school, although I knew that my chances of success were not great, but I was brave enough to try. But after a month of hard work, I finally failed, at this time, that "friend" comforted me, and in an instant, I felt that he was a true friend, and my heart was warm.

However, after a while, I gradually learned some things, he asked for her QQ number through others when I was pursuing, and chatted for a few days, and after I failed in my pursuit, I told my jokes to my classmates, at that time, I suddenly felt betrayed and deceived, in fact, I was sad in my heart for a long time, quite disappointed. It was at this moment that the concept of "friend" disappeared in my heart...

What friends are afraid of is betrayal and deception, and at that time, you really don't think it's worth it...

In fact, whether you like a person or not, it's not like or dislike it all at once, it's all accumulated over a long period of time, but if I don't like it, it's not worth it, so I don't want to contact it anymore, after all, others will take what you do for granted, but I'm not your mother!

No one will be good to you for no reason, and your parents are good to you, and they are also wrapped by blood. A person's selfishness and lack of consideration for others is the moment when I feel most inappropriate to be a friend, so stay away from me.

In fact, I have always felt that friends are such a thing, I can't force it, when it will be easy to get along with, and when you will betray it behind your back. If I have to say that I feel that someone is not worthy of being a friend, it may be that I feel that I have been replaced by someone else without knowing it. It's not a betrayal, but I still hope that the friends I once met can give them some good memories in my heart.

Since I went to college, I have known a lot of friends, but most of them are acquaintances, but I don't know each other. Occasionally, we had a good relationship at that time, we had breakfast together every day, chatted together, talked about some happy things, and because of this, my girlfriend also had a good relationship with him, and sometimes the three of us went out shopping together. But because of one thing, I think I may have been deceived without my knowledge, at that time another friend of mine told me, let me pay attention, don't get too close to him, he doesn't look like a person who can be sincere, maybe when he will be sold, I didn't take it to heart, I think it's not easy for friends to talk about, not to mention that the current relationship is not bad, until something like this happened, I didn't understand that the relationship between friends is really not something that can be recognized clearly by looking at the superficial phenomena.

After that, I was suspicious of the people around me, and during that time, I didn't trust anyone, and I was always on guard against anyone. Slowly, I became very withdrawn and indifferent to everyone around me. Later, I slowly figured it out on my own, and when I saw it, I was not so uncomfortable, and I could only mature after experiencing some things.

Now I don't care if my friends are usually close to you, I find that only when something happens, I can finally put myself in your shoes, that person is right. It makes me feel that when a person is not suitable to be friends, he may be deceived by others, and I don't even know it. It's not just that he doesn't fit to be friends, it's anger.

Making friends depends on the heart and the character of the person, which is an important criterion.

When I encounter difficulties, I don't answer, I don't reply to text messages, I can only share the joys but not the sorrows, this kind of person is really not worth communicating.

My girlfriend had an accident at home, and she cried and asked me to borrow 5,000 yuan, saying that she would pay it back immediately next month, but she didn't say a word and called her. I just graduated from college, and 5,000 yuan is most of my savings. As a result, I haven't returned it, and I don't use it in a hurry, and I don't urge it.

At a party, she suddenly got rid of her drunken addiction and quarreled with me over trivial matters, saying that I treat her as a friend. I said, I don't treat you as a friend, and I still lend you money when you are in the most danger. She said, Lao Tzu has a lot of friends, and there is no shortage of you to borrow it for me.

Those moments when she spoke badly and hurt people but didn't think so. If you say hurtful words, you completely ignore the feelings of your friends, and there is no friendship. If there is no friendship, then there is no need to maintain false friendships.

A friend of my husband, when his child was sick and lent him 5,000 yuan, he never urged it, and then I got pregnant and gave birth, because I was going to give birth to a child, so I had to prepare more money, so I told him to let him arrange the money, he actually said no, you must know that he has borrowed this money for two years, and now my son has repaid 2,000 yuan in more than two weeks.

When a friend takes advantage of me, I think that the friend is not worth associating with him. You should be friends with people who are positive and positive.

Obviously, we had a good time together, but because I went home and had a car with other people and didn't have to walk, I didn't play with me anymore.

When my friend was in trouble, I helped him, and when I was in a hurry, I borrowed money from him, but I cried poor, poor and poor, and even posted his crab in the circle of friends at night, at that time I felt that such a friend was really not worth dating.

I am a very sensitive person, and I think that in many small details, it will reflect whether this friend is worth it, such as when you need advice, whether the friend is sincere or perfunctory, you can see whether it is a real friend or not.

He doesn't talk all day long, he doesn't tell the truth in his mouth, and sometimes he doesn't want to demolish him, so try to stay away from them.

I have a best friend, a friendship of more than ten years, the second generation of officials, and later married a rich second generation, who is the right person. She's stingy, and I know it, so I usually rush to spend money on what to eat together, and I've been okay all the time. Later, there was an urgent need for money, because I didn't have a job at the time, and then I couldn't ask my family for this money, so I had to borrow it from her, that was the first time I borrowed money from her, 800 yuan, but she refused, and the reason was very strange, let me borrow it from her husband.

She was already working at the time, was a piano teacher, and earned about 3,000 a month. The food and clothing are all consumed by her in-laws, all of them are top brands, and 800 is equivalent to the price of a box of cream. Alas, no more.

Anyway, that's when I decided to give up on her. Boring. Some people may think that I am extreme, thinking that it is understandable that people do not borrow money when they have money, and it is a favor to borrow, and it is a duty not to borrow.

I told myself the same thing, but after all these years, although I don't hate her, I still can't let go. When I borrowed money, it was urgent, we were together every day, and I got married immediately, and I said that I would pay her back as soon as I received the gift money after I got married... Well, I really can't be friends anymore, and I can't get over the inner hurdle in my heart.

In the end, the bridesmaids were not her.

A classmate, now a colleague, since I bought a car, as long as he came to the day shift, he asked me to take him home, to be honest, it was really not a good way, four kilometers around. Although we are in the same unit and not in the same workshop, I can leave at 4:50, but he can only leave at 5 o'clock, and I have to block it for half an hour if I walk ten minutes late. I really don't want to send him, but I can't erase it.

After all, he works shifts and sends him off at most twice a week. However, the next time the unit distributes benefits, unfortunately, my car was rear-ended, and it was very coincidental that his sister came to pick him up, and then, hey.

I was a best friend in college, good like a person, she got married, I took leave to fly from Nanjing to Qingdao, the balloon was broken, I blew it one by one, helped him decorate the house, helped her get things, sent things, it doesn't matter if I'm tired, and then I'm going to get married after 4 months, I told her before, this time I told her 1 and a half months in advance, asked her if she could come, but she said she was preparing to have a child, I don't know if I can come, I was a little unhappy in my heart, can't I ask for it later, I can't wait for more than a month, I said okay, if you are pregnant, forget it, but I heard her say that their company is decorating, this is only a month's smell, I told her, because the decoration has formaldehyde, you had better do a check and then choose to get pregnant, she didn't say anything and said that his husband wants to have a child, I said well, if the check is fine, I will be pregnant, and then another week, she told me that she couldn't take leave in October, her niece fell and injured her arm, she wanted to go back to see her on October 3, I got married on October 2. I didn't say anything, in fact, the first time I told me that I might not be able to come, I guessed that she would not come, and my boyfriend heard about it and said that she would go back to see her niece in a month, and her hands were all good. I said forget it, it doesn't matter if you understand some excuses, in fact, I feel very uncomfortable, forget it if you don't come, there's no need to make up such excuses, but I don't want to tear my face directly, after all, it was so good to be together before.