What did you not fit in after you left the military?

Many veterans find it difficult to gain a foothold when they go out into society, and they are not used to it. In fact, if you stay in the army for a long time, you will inevitably be out of touch with many people in society. After all, your living environment and life circle have changed completely differently than before.

Let's start with the work aspect. More often in the army, as long as you bear hardships and stand hard work, obey orders, and obey commands, there is no intrigue between the troops, and when you enter society, you must have your own thoughts, your own opinions, you have to please your boss, arrange your subordinates, your body is relaxed, but the psychological pressure is greater. It's hard to get paid more in a general unit than when you're in the army, so the pressure of life naturally becomes greater.

The second is interpersonal relationships.

Aspect. In the army, you are facing brothers from all over the world, the eldest of whom is away from home at an early age, and the comrades-in-arms are like relatives. Most of the feelings in the army are sincere and natural.

And after you go out into society, you will find that the simple comradeship becomes unattainable, and everyone who wants to get close to you seems to want to be profitable. The complexity of society and the unpredictability of people make it difficult for those who have just left the army to adapt.

Finally, let's talk about the emotional aspect with family. In the army, my family, especially my wife and children, have been away from each other for many years, and it is rare to be together often, so every time I meet, I cherish it very much, and there will be no contradictions at all. After returning home from the army, living with them every day for a long time will inevitably lead to some friction, and many people will have doubts about the relationship between the two people.

In fact, there will be some friction in every family, and no one is naturally suitable for whom, so you should slowly run in. There are also many men in the army who are not good at expressing their feelings, do not understand romance, do not speak sweetly, and are strict with their children. In fact, everyone likes to feel loved and spoiled, so after leaving the army, you must also make changes in this point, don't be stingy in expressing your love, and spend more time with your family.

Let them also feel the warmth of the family, so as to make up for the lack of companionship you have for them in the army, and repay them for waiting for you and persevering.

In fact, almost everyone who has been in the army, especially those who have been in the army for a long time, will go through or go through this period. There is no need to worry too much about what life will be like after leaving the military and whether it will be bad. As long as you are willing to struggle, the world is so big, there will always be a place for you.

If you are about to be discharged from the army, please cherish the last period with your comrades, the relationship between you and your comrades-in-arms will make you unforgettable for a lifetime. Then you must be fully psychologically prepared, and you may face difficulties and setbacks after stepping into the society, but don't be afraid, you must know how to face the difficulties.

Finally, I wish you all the best.

In the army, I am used to getting up early every day to run and exercise, and when I suddenly leave the army, I will wake up very early every morning and become unable to sleep, turn over and fall asleep, always think that this time of day should be out for exercises, always think about going out to run with my teammates and shouting slogans together, and my heart will feel very empty.

I was used to the days when I was accompanied by a lot of people every day, and I was suddenly discharged from the army, and I was not used to the days of being alone, I was used to playing with a group of big men in the army, and I was eager to return to the army, and I was eating and singing with my comrades. After being discharged from the army, I also found it difficult to integrate into society, and I only knew how to defend the motherland before, but now I have to worry about work.

My neighbor was discharged from the army last year, and my family has changed very quickly in the past two years, and the roads have been repaired, and many of the old paths are blocked, and when he first came back, he didn't know how to get home. And there are some family customs and the like, he can't adapt to it.

If you have money, you can make more money, you have a good job, and nothing is better than reality.

The work of security guards, because although the work of security guards is idle, there is no future for development, and there is no hope in sight.

It's best not to be a security guard. Because security guards need to stay up all night and can't learn anything, the development prospects are not very good, which is not conducive to future career planning and development.

There is no best job not to do, the job that suits you is the best, you don't have to listen to what others say, as long as it suits you and meets your own requirements, it is a good job.

Veterans I think it's better not to work as a security guard, because I think it's a bit overkill, and there is no future in being a security guard, and the appreciation space is very limited.

Veterans can do some simple jobs, such as opening a restaurant. Veterans must not do things that violate the law and discipline.

It is better for the soldiers of the team not to do such work as security guards, because it is too wasteful of their talents, and they can realize their ideals while they are young.

It's better not to go to bars, nightclubs, KTVs and other places, although you are a veteran, it will still damage the image of the country, which is very bad.

The Regulations on Preferential Treatment of Military Pensions for the Families of Revolutionary Martyrs are as follows: if the families of revolutionary martyrs do not enjoy publicly-funded medical treatment and are unable to pay the medical expenses due to illness, the local health department will give them exemption or exemption as appropriate; For the families of revolutionary martyrs living in rural areas, if they meet the recruitment conditions stipulated by the local labor department, the local people** should arrange employment for one of them; Where the children or younger siblings of revolutionary martyrs voluntarily join the army and meet the requirements for conscription, priority may be given to approving one person to enlist in the army during the conscription period; When the children of revolutionary martyrs apply for secondary schools and institutions of higher learning, the cultural and physical conditions for admission should be appropriately relaxed; Children of revolutionary martyrs who are admitted to public schools (including primary schools, secondary schools, secondary specialized schools, technical schools, and colleges and universities, etc.) are exempt from paying tuition and miscellaneous fees, and are given priority in grants and student loans. Those who enter public kindergartens and nurseries should be given priority; The families of orphaned old martyrs can be centrally supported by the glorious hospital of the county (city, district) where they are located.

3. What are the provisions of the Regulations on Preferential Treatment of Military Pensions for the families of servicemen who have died in the line of duty or died of illness in terms of preferential treatment?

The Regulations on Preferential Treatment of Military Bereavement Pensions stipulate that the families of servicemen who have died in the line of duty or who have died of illness do not enjoy publicly-funded medical treatment, and those who are unable to pay medical expenses due to illness will be exempted or exempted by the local health department as appropriate; Children or younger siblings of servicemen who have died in the line of duty or who have died of illness who voluntarily join the army and meet the requirements for conscription may be given priority in approving one person to enlist in the army during the conscription period.

4. What are the provisions of the Regulations on Preferential Treatment of Pensions for Military Disabled Soldiers in terms of preferential treatment for revolutionary disabled servicemen?

The Regulations on Preferential Treatment of Pensions for Military Personnel stipulate that the preferential treatment of revolutionary disabled servicemen is as follows: Revolutionary disabled servicemen who are above the second class B level (including the second class B) in the township shall enjoy the medical treatment at public expense. If the third-class disabled serviceman in the township does not enjoy publicly-funded medical treatment, the medical expenses required for the wound shall be solved by the local civil affairs department, and if it is difficult to pay the medical expenses due to illness, the local civil affairs department shall subsidize it as appropriate.

Disabled servicemen who are disabled due to war or duty working in state organs, social organizations, enterprises and institutions shall enjoy the same living and welfare benefits as employees who are disabled in the line of duty (work) of their units. Disabled servicemen who need to be equipped with prostheses, tricycles and other assistive devices due to disability shall be examined and approved by the civil affairs department and shall be responsible for solving the problem. Disabled servicemen who take state-run trains, ships, long-distance buses and domestic civil airliners are given priority in purchasing tickets with the "Revolutionary Disabled Servicemen's Certificate" and enjoy preferential fare treatment in accordance with regulations.

When revolutionary disabled servicemen apply for secondary schools and institutions of higher learning, the cultural and physical conditions for admission should be appropriately relaxed.

5. What are the provisions of the Regulations on Preferential Treatment of Military Pensions for Officers on Active Duty and the Families of Volunteers who are attached to the army?

The Regulations on Preferential Treatment of Pensions for Military Personnel stipulate that the public security department where the garrison is located shall allow the families of active-duty officers and volunteers who have been approved by the political organs at or above the division (brigade) level of the army to join the army; If the family members of the former army have a regular job, the labor and personnel departments of the place where the army is stationed should arrange appropriate work for them.

6. What are the provisions of the Regulations on the Preferential Treatment of Military Pensions on the priority of the recipients of preferential treatment?

The Regulations on Preferential Treatment for the Bereavement of Military Personnel stipulate that, under the same conditions as other people, the recipients of preferential treatment shall enjoy priority in employment, schooling, relief, loans, and housing allocation.

In fact, many military personnel can easily find a job after being discharged.

Because they have good discipline and a good physique in the army, they are all a group of excellent people in the eyes of the responsible persons of the units.

In the past, after the military was discharged, the state was assigned work in a package, but because this amount was too large, it was gradually canceled.

Even so, there is no need to worry, in fact, there are many options available, and if you know a craft, it is even better.

Nowadays, when many companies recruit drivers, they will add a veterans first, especially the kind that drives for business owners, if it is a soldier, it is even better.

The minimum requirement for the bank's security personnel is to be a veteran.

And those who escort the transport management vehicles, although not regular employees, also enjoy high welfare benefits.

In fact, there are many jobs to choose from, if you are the kind of veteran with academic qualifications, then among the eight major bureaus of the local government, they are all randomly selected.

Many veterans with high academic qualifications generally choose to work in the public security bureau after they go to the locality.

If you have been in the army for a long time, you still have a certain position in the local area.

After the military is discharged, if the education is higher, then you can choose to take the civil service examination, because when recruiting the police, there will be some policy tilt for veterans, as long as you can pass the written test, you can basically be successfully admitted as a civil servant; If the education level is relatively low, then you can go to the street or village committee to interview for security work, there are many people in the countryside who specialize in public security, at least a village official, this is also a good choice.

There is also the bank as an escort, the bank has to transport banknotes to various outlets every day, so they need a lot of escorts, if you are a veteran, then they will definitely give priority, and the welfare of the escort is quite good. There are a few people in my hometown who also chose to work as an escort after being discharged from the army.

Firefighters are also good, but firefighters do not belong to the formal establishment, and their treatment is relatively worse than that of civil servants, but it is still better than many industries. **Priority will be given to veterans when recruiting firefighters, and the educational requirements are not high, which is suitable for veterans with low educational qualifications.

Now the country implements a mercenary system, so after leaving the army, there is no distribution, and you need to find a job by yourself. But a batch of placement fees will be given. It's also pretty good.

If you want to find some jobs based on your experience as a soldier, then the professional counterpart is also some jobs that require military deterrence.

For example, many security companies nowadays are very fond of asking veterans to work with them. Because the veterans have more professional qualities, their image is very good. But for a veteran, being a security guard is really overkill.

You can also try to interview for a job as a cash truck escort. This job is relatively leisurely, and it is also real. It also looks very majestic, and it is more suitable for Brother Bing to do.

Some of my classmates were engaged in railroad work after joining the army. This job is actually a good position, and it is a state-owned enterprise, which is equivalent to an iron rice bowl. The salary is also relatively good.

In general, being discharged from the military is not a relatively superior qualification, so it is basically unrealistic to find those high-level jobs.

Start a small business on your own or enter a public institution.

Take the right path. Comrades-in-arms who choose to change jobs should review well and prepare for the assigned exam. Don't go the wrong way and look for such and such relationships.

It is necessary to bring back the good traditions and work style of the troops to the localities. At present, the whole country is vigorously fighting corruption, and the local government is quite fair and transparent when it comes to sensitive issues.

Adjust well. The special environment of the troops, which is tense and closed, makes it easy for people to suffer from mental illness. This type of disease has a certain "deceptiveness", which is not easy for individuals or military doctors to detect, and is not as obvious as headache and brain fever.

After returning to the place, once you don't adapt to it, it may induce or intensify, which is more harmful. Self-regulation is required, and if necessary, a psychiatrist is required. This is my personal experience with many of my comrades-in-arms.

Make friends. Because the barracks are managed in a closed manner, most of the comrades-in-arms have little social experience and are relatively simple. When you return to the place, you must be cautious in making friends.

In October 2014, I was invited by a veteran comrade-in-arms to travel somewhere in the south, but I fell into a pyramid scheme, but fortunately I took the opportunity to escape. This comrade-in-arms gave up a regrettable stable job and got on the "thief ship", which was careless in making friends.

At present, promising industries in the country include drivers, cooks, and computers.

Fitness coaches are in line with the professional concept of veterans and have good development prospects.

Fitness trainers are very scarce and there is a great employment platform. When choosing a fitness trainer and a career coach, the time is relatively free.

Work, now I want to find some work to do, I want to learn some skills.

The status of military personnel is different, there are officers, non-commissioned officers, and soldiers. Military personnel have different jobs, cultures, educational backgrounds, abilities, skills, and specialties. The national policy on the placement of veterans is also different. So after being discharged from the army, the work arrangement is different.

All in all, veterans should find or arrange jobs according to their strengths, and ordinary soldiers can be engaged in administrative management, logistics, security, etc. If you have technology, such as communications, repair, and other majors, you can do your old job.

If you are not old, you can learn some specialized skills so that your job will be stable.