I hurt a boy who loves me very much, how can I get it back?

Updated on psychology 2024-06-19
25 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Go find him. I think he's a single-minded person, and he's loved you so much, I don't think he'll downplay his feelings for you so quickly. As long as you are sincere, ask him to forgive you for your ignorance and willfulness in the past.

    I don't think he will be indifferent, after all, you are the one he loves dearly.

    If you decide to save it, don't give up easily.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Do you like him or not? If you like it, if you love him, then you should break through all obstacles, and if he loves you, no matter how you hurt him, he will definitely come back to you. I believe in you, everyone is a woman, I am optimistic about you!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Things really don't have to be.

    There will be two extremes.

    One is that he's really hurt and won't touch you and everything about you.

    The second is that it is possible to redeem it, because he loved you deeply after all, and if he said to let it go, it was just an excuse.

    I feel that now that you know what it's like to lose.

    You should give it a go and try to get him back.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Maybe he's still sad now, maybe he'll despair tomorrow. It's only been ten days, what are you afraid of! You say that you are sick, depending on his attitude, if he still cares about you as before, ask him to buy a combination of medicine and send it to your house.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    If he loves you too, no matter how you hurt him, he will definitely come back to you. I believe in you, I'm optimistic about you!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Since you regret it, try again...

    Tell him what you think now and your determination to love him in the future.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    If you get him back, and you still break up with him for those reasons, then you still don't look for him! It will hurt him even more in the end! So it's good to think through those questions before looking for them!

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    If you know he's good to you, why hurt him? Speak boldly to him that he loves you and will forgive you. I hope you and Him are happy ...

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    If you really love him

    You can go to him

    If it's just for your own momentary mood

    Stop hurting him

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Contact him to see how you perform.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Summary. My dear, if you hurt someone who loves you very much, then he must be very sad in his heart Do you miss him very much, and you want to find him and apologize to him Well men, you also need to be coaxed

    If you hurt a man who loves you very much, how to get it back.

    My dear, if you hurt someone who loves you very much, then he must be very sad in his heart Do you miss him very much, and you want to find him and apologize to him Well men, you also need to be coaxed

    As long as he still loves you, you talk to him and tell him that you really did something wrong, that you know that you are wrong, and that you want his forgiveness

    Uh-huh. There are other questions.

    It was so uncomfortable to see him lose his soul.

    But he still told me he was fine.

    He doesn't want you to worry.

    In fact, he was really sad in his heart

    The more this happens, the more unpleasant it is for me.

    Go and redeem him, you already got along.

    I really did it wrong.

    Love. Why would you hurt him like this?

    He didn't seem to trust me anymore.

    What did you do.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    You've said he loves you very much.

    It's important to represent you in his heart, at least I believe.

    You think so.

    A man's self-esteem is very heavy, especially in front of the person he cares about, if you really have a very serious injury, he will really hurt very deeply, and he will think about it in a short period of time.

    Two people together should be sensible to each other.

    It's human dignity If you have a normal relationship with the man who loves you in your daily life, but this time you suddenly hurt him and hurt him very seriously, then the chance of redemption is still a bit first, apologize seriously, don't think that men don't need women's apologies, your parents hurt you, apologize to you, you will feel good, and many boyfriends and girlfriends will do the same.

    If he loves you, you love him too.

    Go and apologize to him.

    Explain that you are wrong.

    And then say that he's important to you.

    Then just wait.

    But take care of yourself while waiting.

    Remember, when he feels a little bored with you, don't exacerbate that emotion by pestering, and do what you have to do.

    But to give you a piece of advice In the relationship, don't be too emotional, too emotional is easy to get excited, excited is easy to say the wrong thing, easy to get to the bottom line, and then it is very likely to be finished.

    Bringing a little sensual rationality to each other is a long-term guarantee.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    You're right, if you have a light weight in his heart, it's hard to recover, if you weigh a lot in his heart, it's easy to recover, it should be impossible to get it back, in case he finds a girlfriend, isn't it embarrassing? And in case he doesn't forgive you because you hurt him, wouldn't it be very troublesome, in fact, if you really like him, you won't choose to hurt him at all, this is just my own thought, please refer to it carefully.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    The purpose of Hello Redemption is to attract twice, not to kneel and lick each other, now you make mistakes first, now you want to redeem, you must pay something, the success rate of redemption is not here to give you empty words, it is necessary for you to accumulate little by little. Instead of saying that you don't want to do it if you don't have much hope, then you think about whether you are unwilling or love to redeem it.

    You can send me how you get along, and I'll help you analyze it (you can send a private message).

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    I can see that he still cares about you, and just hopes that you can realize your mistakes, simply - he is waiting for you to take the initiative to reconcile. The best way to do this is to apologize to him and coax him. If you can't let go of your self-esteem and are afraid of being nervous, you can send him what you want to say by sending QQ messages or the like, of course, be careful with your wording.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Although the redemption has a certain relationship with the weight of your heart, the most important thing is to be sincere in the redemption, know the mistake and admit the mistake, if the confession is done with a sense of ceremony, it may be helpful for you to save this relationship. No matter how you express it, at least you give him a serious and sincere feeling.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    If he loves you very much, then you must have enough weight in his mind. Look at the topic, you have wronged him, then the first thing you have to do must be to rehabilitate him, and ask him for forgiveness, not a matter of principle, there will generally be forgiveness, and this is a matter of mutual trust, you have to let him know that you will communicate more in the future, don't easily have this kind of misunderstanding, wronged, those things happen. Men still have to have a little face.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    The premise is how you hurt his heart

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Communicate more and move him with your sincerity.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    The ideal is so rich and fulfilling, but the reality is so ruthless. Looking forward to the future, dreaming of all kinds of dreams, loving someone, love is a mess, desperate, but it backfires, inner entanglement, wandering, shattering the original ideal, having to return to reality, sacrificing himself for the sake of others.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    A man's self-esteem is the most difficult to recover It can only depend on how much he loves you What did you say Let's talk to you I'm a psychology major I'm very sensitive to language and writing Can understand what the other party is thinking in my heart I have also helped many people save their feelings in knowing Help you analyze what your boyfriend is thinking in his heart Find a breakthrough to save me You can send me a private message.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    In love life, not every girl's love is smooth sailing, when the other party proposes to break up with you, does it mean that you have no chance to be together again?

    No, if you want to redeem love and avoid destroying the redemption, these common sense girls must understand the correct way to redeem.

    Four key points to get your boyfriend back.

    1. Understand the reasons for the breakup

    After the other party proposes to break up, girls must understand the skills of recovering the other party, and do not destroy the recovery or reduce their own value because of their wrong behavior.

    Understand the reasons for the other party's breakup, don't entangle the other party, lower the pressure for the other party, reduce the contradictions between you, and improve your own charm, so as to pave the way for the second attraction and better save the other party's heart.

    Four key points to get your boyfriend back.

    2. Identify with each other

    When you break up, don't argue with the other party. What you should do is to reflect on each other's contradictions in the relationship, instead of adding more contradictions at the time of the breakup, which will only push the other person further. When he brings up your shortcomings, you need to agree with the other person's statement and admit your own shortcomings.

    Just imagine, if you are not willing to face your mistakes at this time and put all the blame on the other party, he will magnify his inner dissatisfaction with you even more, which will greatly reduce the chance of getting back together.

    Four key points to get your boyfriend back.

    3. Freezing relationship

    There are many people who think that the iron is hot to recover, so when he leaves, he tries to contact the other party in various ways, which is an extremely wrong approach. Such behavior not only does not succeed, but also increases the other party's disgust, so you can only be given more indifference or silence. In fact, after a breakup, everyone needs a calm time and space to cool down each other's contradictions.

    When you can calm down and not look for him, let time slowly dilute his previous dissatisfaction with you, and slowly remember your goodness, so as to lay a good foundation for redemption.

    Four key points to get your boyfriend back.

    Fourth, improve the charm

    If you want to win back the other person's heart, in addition to correcting your own shortcomings, you must also improve your own charm, and attractive women are more attractive than beautiful women. Girls have to understand the tricks of winning back each other, after the breakup, you appear in front of each other with a new look, and the external changes attract the attention of the other party.

    After getting along, when the other person finds your life more colorful and happier, he can easily question his decision to break up and be attracted to the new you.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Use your actions to prove that you like him, he will feel it, first sincerely apologize to him for your previous attitude towards him, show that you are serious about him now, want to cherish him, and let him give each other a chance, tell him that he doesn't want to lose him and miss him, and move him every day without replying to messages.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    To put it bluntly, to the point. Express what is in your heart directly to him. He'll come back to you, and you're going to have to hold on. I hope that there are lovers who can be together.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Can you two still see each other now?

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