How can I let go of the person I love when I leave me?

Updated on amusement 2024-06-19
28 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    You're cheap, your sister's boyfriend can be good with you, it's too normal to dump you, continue to be good with other women, are you a little ambitious.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    What a difficult question, there are many answers... For example, trying to forget, such as going out more often, etc.

    But even if you know how to do it, you may not be able to do it, this process is very painful, and others can't help you, after all, love is deep and it hurts deeply...

    If there's a way to forget him quickly, it's probably to fall in love again. However, this is also something that can be met but not sought, and falling in love simply for the sake of forgetting may be even more troublesome. I hope you will be strong and try to control your emotions. Good luck!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Find another to transfer feelings

    It is the best medicine for wounds.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Drink Coke, eat instant noodles, devote yourself to everything in life, focus, focus on yourself, keep yourself busy, and slowly get used to it

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    I feel like this is the caseThe first thing we have to do is to let go in time, when the person you love deeply loves someone else, you can't attract his attention next to you, and it is the best choice for yourself and him to let go properly. Secondly, divert attention, when you love someone, your eyes have been following him, and your attention is all on him, at this time you must divert your attention and shift your attention to work or other people, and over time your feelings for him will become much weaker. Finally, when someone you love deeply loves someone else, the best you can do is to bless, because by blessing them, you are also blessing yourself.

    I believe that there are many people in this world who are the ones who can't get in love, many people love someone, but the person they love likes someone else, what should I do when I encounter this situation? I think the main points of action are as follows.

    The first thing you have to do is to let go, if the person you love has a person you like, it means that all his thoughts will be on the person you like, he will not share excess energy for you, if you don't let go and keep stalking, in the end you will only become his licking dog, and what can you get by licking the dog? Nothing. So letting go is the best option for both you and him.

    Secondly, when you love someone, all your eyes are on him, and all your energy is on him. Once all eyes are on him, it will cause you to love him more and more, which is an endless cycle, so if you want to let go, you must divert your attention, force yourself not to like him, force yourself to focus on other things and people, and over time you will find that you don't love him so much, and he can't touch your heart anymore.

    Finally, if you can, you can bless her in the face of this situation, because blessing her will leave a good impression in his heart and at the same time, it will also make it more decent for you to let go.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    should be let go, if you don't let go, this relationship will have no beginning and end, and the damage to you is very great, so you have to endure the pain and cut the love. If you take the initiative to pay all the time, it will hurt you very much, and the other party will look down on you and feel that you are very humble.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    You should be upset and decisively let go, because such a person is not worthy of me, and I don't need to be sad for such a person.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Tell yourself that the person you love doesn't like you, that he likes someone else, and that you can make some comparisons between yourself and the other person. Even if the other party is better than yourself, then you need to admit your mistakes, and if you are not as good as yourself, then you should believe in fate.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    You should adjust your mentality, and you should also slowly enlighten yourself, comfort yourself, and understand that such feelings are fruitless, so that you can let go.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    You should adjust your mentality, hang out with friends more, attend more parties, and meet more friends of the opposite sex.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    If the person you love doesn't love you and loves someone else, it is recommended that you divert your attention and stop thinking about her all the time. Otherwise, you will be even more sad, and use time to forget all this!

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    The person you love loves others, you only have blessings, and the purpose of deep love is to make the other person happy and not bother.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I think since he already likes other people, then I think you should go to your half and adjust your mentality so that you don't let yourself be so sad and sad.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    I think it's a very difficult thing for you to love someone else, but if you don't let go of being sad and sad, it's only yourself.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Take a trip that you can go and go, you can go out to travel to adjust your mood, and you can put it down after a long time.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Your beloved poke your beloved and love someone else is how you should let go. She loves others, you should think clearly, she will understand you.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    If love is sweet, such unrequited love is painful. Loving someone may be happy, but it can also be painful.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    When the person you love deeply loves someone else, you can't attract his attention next to him, and it is the best choice for yourself and him to let go properly.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Method 1: Find a close friend to talk to.

    Sometimes it will be more uncomfortable to keep some unhappy things in the bottom of our hearts, so we can better release ourselves after venting, at this time you can find a confidant friend you approve of to talk about some of your thoughts, and let the other party give you some opinions to enlighten. Even if the opinions put forward by the other party are useless, but I also vent some negative emotions, it will not be so painful.

    Method 2: Find something meaningful to do.

    Many times you can't let go or keep recalling the past, largely because you don't have anything else to do, so at this time you can let go of the other person by distracting yourself. You can travel, go hiking, or go shopping and dining with friends.

    Method 3: Start a new life or relationship.

    If it is really difficult for you to let go of this person or this relationship, then you can choose to leave this sad place and start a new life. Or you can try to reach out to more people, maybe you will be able to completely forget the previous sadness and start a new relationship.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    The so-called letting go is not forgetting, but hiding in the bottom of the heart, no longer reading...

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Don't think about him, cut off all contact with him, and then improve yourself, make yourself better and better, find things for yourself to keep yourself busy, so that you can slowly let go, if you don't know what to do, you should start from this moment.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    You can keep yourself busy, stop thinking about those troubles, participate in more outdoor sports and social activities to relax your mood, and usually play more games with friends, run together, etc.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    I think first of all, don't bother the other person, don't contact him again, live a good life, keep yourself busy, and do something that interests you.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    After deep love, it will be sad and difficult, and it is not an exaggeration to describe it as five internal burning.

    It's too unpleasant. So what you're afraid of is this sad feeling, and you want to get yourself out of this uncomfortable feeling as soon as possible, and you're too bad to experience this uncomfortable feeling. So you're trying your best to resist that feeling.

    So your fear and fear are ** to this uncomfortable feeling you have for you, fear and resistance. On a deeper level, you don't want to admit that the person has left you. So you're struggling, you're resisting.

    Try to give up struggling and resisting. The one who first admitted yes left, and he will never come back. See what happens when you admit it.

    This is the time when you will experience calm, but with regret. Tranquility is ** for you, no longer struggling, no longer denying and resisting. Regret is something we experience when we admit that we have truly lost someone or something we love.

    At this time, a kind of sadness will rise in the depths of your heart, a kind of tenderness and love for yourself. Don't be afraid to experience these emotions. When you really experience these emotions, you get closer to your true self, and a voice arises within you, and the voice will tell you, what do you want?

    These will only come when you no longer resist, when you admit that you have lost.

    Let yourself live well to experience the kind of love that loves very much and loves what it will become in the end There is no person you can't forget There is no love that you can't give up When you experience something, you will understand that the pain that you once had so much that you can't breathe It's just a flash of sadness Maybe you will cry when you dream back More because you were so fragile and worthless at that time You can't change others Then change yourself Why bother to be nostalgic for someone who doesn't love you.

    Start a new life, make new friends, and keep yourself busy, in fact, how can everyone's experience be completely forgotten, but with time, I slowly look down on it and want to open it. Stay up slowly, and time will dilute everything.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Be sure to divert your attention, this is the time to travel, and then you can also do more things to keep yourself busy, so that you will forget about it after a long time.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    I think I can divert my attention and let myself learn something that interests me, and at the same time, I should organize my time sufficiently, so that it is okay.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Fought for it? If you fight for it and feel that you really can't be together, I understand your heartache, then hide him in the depths of your heart, although it will hurt, give it to time, and it will heal.

    Loving one does not have to be together, but fulfills each other.

    At this time, you can't let yourself be idle, you have to be busy.

    Ask friends to sing songs, take a walk, and don't stay alone.

    A person who is cranky and prone to illness is susceptible.

    You have to take care of yourself, you have to persuade yourself.

    You are the best, the best person has not yet appeared, what you need, etc.

    Let yourself be in the best shape to meet the best person.

    Everyone will experience love and know how to love someone better in the future.

    Wake up early to run and exercise, you can sign up for a yoga class.

    Calm your mind.

    Trust you to do it.

    Don't bruise yourself all over for a man. It's not worth it. Your own body is the most important thing.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Find a friend to talk to and ask him to enlighten him.

    Letting go of a loved one can find a close friend to have a good talk, let the other party put forward some opinions to enlighten yourself, you can also travel, climb mountains, or ask friends to go shopping and dinner together, which can be a good diversion of attention. In the end, you can choose to leave this sad place, or try to contact more people and start a new life or relationship.

    If it is really difficult for you to let go of this person or this relationship, then you can choose to leave this sad place and start a new life, or you can try to contact more people, maybe you can completely forget the previous sad things and start a new relationship.

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