Always thinking about other things, always thinking about a lot of things

You now know that this situation is a good thing, usually you have to pay more attention to exercising your attention, and self-control, I am the same as you, when I was in junior high school, I began to be the first in the class (special class), but because I am a person who is easily distracted, and I also know my own shortcomings, but lack of self-control, I never can control myself (it's not that I'm not well-behaved, everyone else is well-behaved, the teacher likes me, the only thing is that I'm not interested in learning), distracted in class, distracted in exams, and don't like to do homework, As a result, it fell in the second semester of the second year of junior high school, and then the grades in the third year of junior high school were miserable compared to the original.

But don't worry, you're only in your first year of junior high school now, you have to exercise to restrain yourself from now on, don't fall behind, because this is a vicious circle, The law I found myself is that when you have good grades, you will often have questions, study, and ask teachers and classmates, but when your grades slowly deteriorate, you will have more and more no questions to ask, because when everything is a problem, it becomes no problem, so in view of your current middle and upper class situation, you must hurry up and figure out what you don't understand step by step. Chase it back, otherwise it will add up to a lot, and it will be very difficult to turn back in the future.

Wishing you well, little sister

Actually, this is all normal, I think you are too nervous first, and secondly you are not confident in yourself. If it's the first point, you can try to take a deep breath and try not to think about anything else, especially the kind of things that are easy to stress you, if it's the second point, you don't have to worry, you just think in your heart, you are the best, you are better than anyone else, no one will be better than you. To be honest, I've had this phenomenon with you, I tried it this way, and I don't know if it's suitable for you!

You take a deep breath! After closing your eyes, as long as you are serious, you will be fine, you have to concentrate!

Once you fall in love, you can be hurt once, and you can devote yourself to learning.

Actually, I've had your situation too. One is the fear of being hurt by the same kind, is it ridiculed and looked down upon? Don't dare to show your true self in front of others.

Putting up barriers before others get to yourself and not allowing others to come near you is a way to protect yourself. But in the bottom of my heart, I hope that "good people" can really get close to themselves and get real care from others. But because of this marginal state, first, others have a heart but it is difficult to get close, because they reject others thousands of miles away.

Second, if you have a heart to get closer, you may be mistaken for an intention. In short, the more I see others retreating from the "difficulty", the more disappointed I feel, and the more disappointed I am, the more I reject people thousands of miles away. If you find something sincere, be cautious and walk on thin ice, afraid that they will choose to leave when they see their true selves.

Anyway, I've had this situation before and even now.

Can you accept my suggestion?

1) You said it yourself, it's inferiority, yes. That is true. Think about what you think you're inferior to?

Then you must think of ways to change and improve yourself. Be sure to have a positive mindset and don't wait. I'm not a genius, I'm not a darling of God, and not many people will keep an eye on you all the time.

If you have, please cherish it by all means.

2) If you have to exchange things to get it, you have to take the initiative to give. But also accept that no one else has the same gift. Disappointment is inevitable, but I also understand that that person is not worth your effort. You only pay to the people who are good to you.

3) There are bad people, but there are also good people. It's a must. Believe that you will meet good people. No matter how unlucky, there is a time to the end, and in the end, there is no way to fall again. If you can't fall, you can only go up.

Seeing you like this reminds me of countless dark days in the past, and I was also confused, I also cried, and I also hoped to be redeemed.

So many words are typed out word by word, if you also want to use this question to fool people, please respect yourself!

If this is the case, there are many people who are struggling just like you!

My first love was a woman who was still looked down upon for making six pots of water in the whole bedroom, and later got along with me and fetched water for her in the whole bedroom! The reason is simple: her boyfriend dares to slap them. If you are a man, you should not blindly please others as your way to gain respect, only learn to focus on your career and achieve success a little bit, you will be able to gain the respect of others a little bit!

A person who really has a clear conscience can say what everyone says later! This is called a minimum of dignity, and of course we must pay attention to methods! The Book of Rites says that "a gentleman loves people with virtue, and a fine person loves people with appeasement", friend, you are still far from being a man!

Do you understand that you do things first and make up your mind in advance?

Hello, I just saw what you wrote, and I think it's because you're too sensitive. It is recommended that you communicate more with your close friends. You are too introverted and think too much.

Because there are many people in society, it is very complicated. Wishing you happiness! Happy life every day!