I m 38 years old and have three young children, how would I split up my plan if I were to get divorc

Depending on the age of the child, the woman will raise the child under the age of two, and the economic and parenting ability of the two people over the age of two and under the age of ten will be asked.

The Supreme People's Court stipulates that when a people's court hears a divorce case, it shall properly resolve the issue of child support from the perspective of benefiting the child's physical and mental health and protecting the lawful rights and interests of the child, taking into account the specific circumstances of both parents, such as their ability to raise and conditions for raising children. On the basis of the above principles, combined with trial practice, the following specific opinions are put forward:

1. Children under the age of two generally live with their mothers. If the mother has any of the following circumstances, she may live with the father:

1) Suffering from incurable infectious diseases or other serious diseases, and the children are not suitable to live with them;

2) There are conditions for raising children who do not fulfill their obligation to support them, and the father requires the child to live with him;

3) The child is unable to live with the mother due to other reasons.

2. Where both parents agree that a child under the age of two lives with the father and there is no adverse impact on the healthy growth of the child, it may be permitted.

3. For children over the age of two years, both the father and the mother request to live with them, and one of the following circumstances may be given priority:

1) Have undergone sterilization or have lost their fertility due to other reasons;

2) The child has lived with the child for a long time, and the change of living environment is obviously detrimental to the healthy growth of the child;

3) There are no other children, and the other party has other children;

4) The child lives with him/her, which is beneficial to the child's growth, but the other party suffers from an infectious disease or other serious disease that cannot be cured for a long time, or has other circumstances that are not conducive to the child's physical and mental health, and it is not suitable to live with the child.

4. The conditions for the father and the mother to raise the child are basically the same, and both parties require the child to live with the child, but if the child has lived alone with the grandparents for many years, and the grandparents request and have the ability to help the child take care of the grandchild or grandchild, it may be considered as a priority condition for the child to live with the father or mother.

5. In the event of a dispute between the parents over the age of 10 over that a minor child over the age of 10 should live with his or her father, the child's opinion shall be taken into account.

6. On the premise that it is conducive to protecting the interests of the children, where both parents agree to take turns raising the children, it may be permitted.

According to the ability to raise, many aspects.

You are 38 years old, you have three children, how will you divide it if you want a divorce? You've already had three children, why get divorced. There is something that cannot be solved between husband and wife.

I think as long as it's not a matter of principle. There is no need to go to the point of divorce. Husbands and wives should understand each other, tolerate each other, trust each other, and respect each other.

Both husband and wife should take a step back and reflect on themselves. If there is no room for reconciliation between the husband and wife, it must be resolved by divorce. Three children can be divided by agreement between the couple.

If you really can't, you can turn to the law. Let the law do justice.

If the child is self-conscious, then it is up to the child to choose to live with the father or the mother;

Property is divided equally between the husband and wife in the absence of a prenuptial agreement.

Parting, parting is not good for anyone.

Before raising, today you raise one and he raises two, and tomorrow you raise two and he raises one.

If both parties are striving to raise children, 1, first look at the nature of the husband and wife's work, working environment, income status, living conditions, education level, personality cultivation, etc., to see which is more suitable for raising children, raising ability, etc.

2. Look at the age of the child, infants and young children generally belong to the mother, children over 10 years old follow the opinions of the child, but also depend on the gender of the child, girls need mother's guidance during puberty, and boys need father's care during adolescence.

3. The child's previous living environment, as well as the opinions and physical condition of the parents who have been with the child for a long time, are often also an important aspect that affects the child's custody.

If neither party wants it, then the judge will make a reasonable distribution based on the above conditions.

If the negotiation fails, the lawsuit will be brought to the court.

Divorce needs to be cautious, and remarriage is risky.

I have three children, and I still have to divide them?

Why don't you think about it before giving birth, do you want this child?

Divorced families are the most direct source of problem children and domestic violence children, and if they can't give their children warmth, they shouldn't bring their children to suffer.

Two people negotiate, who is good for the child to live!

You have three children and are divorced, how do you divide them? This look at how old the three children are, if the child is too young, then they should all follow the mother, if the child is older, then the child also has the right to choose parents, and then you husband and wife can negotiate with both sides to see how the three children are divided? If you can't do it?

Then ask the child, if the child is sensible and an adult, can you and the child want to follow the father, or want to follow the mother, if this is not decided in the end, then you have to go through the legal process, and slowly see how the court decides the court? To whom will it be awarded in the end? So who has to support it, so it can only be said that these three conditions, do you see if you can let the child choose himself and his father?

Or with my mother, there are too many divorces now, can I try not to divorce and not divorce, after all, the three children have been greatly harmed, can you consider it for the children?

In principle, after divorce, the joint property of the husband and wife shall be divided equally between the two parties, and the property of the husband and wife before marriage shall be owned by each other. If there is an agreement between the two parties on the division of property, the property shall be divided in accordance with the agreement between the two parties. Article 19 of the Marriage Law provides:

Husband and wife may agree that property acquired during the marriage and property acquired before marriage shall be separately or jointly owned or partly separately and partly jointly owned. The agreement shall be in written form, and where there is no agreement or the agreement is not clear, the provisions of articles 17 and 18 of this Law apply. If there is an agreement between the parties on the ownership of the custody of the child, the custody of the child shall be determined in accordance with the agreement, and if there is no agreement or the custody of the child cannot be agreed upon, a lawsuit may be filed with the court to determine the ownership of custody.

According to Article 17 of the Marriage Law, the following property acquired by the husband and wife during the existence of the marital relationship shall be jointly owned by the husband and wife: (1) wages and bonuses; (2) Income from production and operation; (3) the proceeds of intellectual property rights; (4) Property obtained by inheritance or donation, except as provided for in paragraph 3 of Article 18 of this Law; (5) Other property that shall be jointly owned. Husbands and wives have equal rights to dispose of jointly owned property.

Article 39 stipulates that in the event of divorce, the joint property of the husband and wife shall be disposed of by mutual agreement; If the agreement is not reached, the people's court shall make a judgment based on the specific circumstances of the property and the principle of taking care of the rights and interests of the children and the woman. The rights and interests enjoyed by husbands or wives in the contracting and management of family land shall be protected in accordance with law.

Submit a divorce petition to the people's court, requesting a reasonable division of property. The people's court will handle it. You have to be mentally prepared, one is to mediate the divorce, and the other is to adjulate the divorce. Property division, you have to fight for half of the request.

If the negotiation fails, it is necessary to be cautious in suing the court to deal with the divorce, and there is a risk of remarriage.

No matter how many children you have and want to divorce, there are only two ways, one is to divorce by agreement, and the other is to sue for divorce in court.

Hello friend, I already have three children, try not to get divorced. Of course, if it really can't be done, the divorce can be carried out according to the actual situation.

If you have three children, it is best not to divorce, if you must leave, then the raising of the children has been discussed and resolved.

How do you divorce a child after giving birth? Then I think that if I have three children, I should divorce and divorce, if I really can't get along, and I can't get together, then I have to divorce.

I gave birth to three children, how do I want to get a divorce? If you want to discuss with your husband to see how to distribute the child's support, you can apply to the court to decide how to leave?

If you have three children, you can get a divorce by agreement

For the sake of the child, don't get divorced, after the divorce, the child will judge which party did not file for divorce, you have to think clearly, it is recommended not to divorce, live well, endure it if you can, let it go.

You can negotiate with each other ...... yourself

Consult a lawyer. This is to be decided on a case-by-case basis.

In terms of custody, in accordance with the principle that the maintenance of the parent is beneficial to the child's growth, the court will comprehensively consider the child's current living status, the working income and moral aspects of both husband and wife, and whether the child has been raised by one of the parents.

Children under the age of 2 are generally given to the mother, and children over the age of 10 are given the opinion of the child. If there are two children, one child is raised by one person as a general rule.

The parent who does not support the child should pay child support, which is generally 20-30 of the income of the spouse, and the cost of taking into account the local living standards and the child's living needs. Alimony includes living expenses.

Under normal circumstances, a child who has not been weaned will definitely be awarded to the woman.

If the child is older, it will be awarded to the party with good conditions according to the family conditions of both parties You have three children, which is up to you to fight for yourself, you had better find the local women's federation and ask for help.

In addition, if you really want to get a divorce, it is best for you to find a professional lawyer to protect your rights and interests.

Why do you want to divorce If the children are still young, for the sake of the children, it is better to think about it before making a decision.

You adults can do anything, patronize yourself, and in the end, it is the dolls who are hurt physically and mentally.