Good friends and loved people, can loved people still be friends?

What reason do you have to be cruel to her, don't blame anyone for your birth and you came to this world, you really don't have confidence in yourself, your mother brought you into this world You are the best, everyone has their own shining point, people don't just look at appearance, if a boy doesn't choose you because of an appearance, and doesn't find your advantages, then is he still worth your liking? I don't know how to persuade you if it's all hypocritical on the outside, only inner beauty or real beauty, but I hope you have confidence in yourself not to go the wrong way. Everyone you have a problem with you should take a closer look, like your own heart to come out, don't because of a relationship and your own heart is abnormal, everyone has their own fate, if you really can't come out, just keep your distance from your good friend, so maybe you will be better.

It's yours and it's not yours, no matter how reluctant you are, it won't be yours Many guys like your friends because they are hypocritical, they only look at appearances, and they don't love you if they don't love you guys like this

Don't be depressed, because there's a boy who might be right next to you right now, someone who can read you and know where your true beauty is

You have to wait for him to come with hope, and if you don't even have hope, then nothing will happen

I can tell you when he will appear and you can not believe it: he will appear when you are completely confident in yourself

You must see your own inner thoughts clearly, this feeling will slowly fade with the passage of time, everyone has had this feeling, everyone also belongs to their own happiness, and even if they are together now, there will not necessarily be any good results in the future, the relationship just let it be

You are the best.

It is undeniable that some contingencies often affect a person's destiny - such as good looks, chance, someone's death, and the opportunity to display talents, etc.; But on the other hand, man's fate is often caused by man himself. As the ancient poet said, "Every man is his own designer." ”

You're pathetic, I'm just like you, and you're a person who doesn't look good.

Crush on someone else.

But the man likes beautiful women.

Don't take me seriously.

The best way to do it.

It's just to leave that girl slowly.

Let time dilute everything!

Reluctantly saying that you don't like him is actually very much about him, but you don't want to be said. Only do this: four words:"Fair competition'.

Your appearance is not good, what about your studies? Learning is more important than everything!

I'm ugly too! But if I were you, I would use my grades to do everything!

Love is not forced, and beauty is not the only factor that decides!!

Oh yes! You shouldn't be very hers, she didn't mean to! She didn't hurt you

Leave them both 、、、 you will have your love!

You're still in love with that guy, right?

No, have you ever met someone who loves you very much, but has not held hands to the end of time? This is the man who has made you obsessed, crazy, and obsessed. But later, this person made you regret, despair, and cry again.

Someone asked me, can someone who has loved deeply still be friends after a breakup?

Many people say that people who have truly loved cannot be friends.

Some people are reluctant to give up because they still love. I am reluctant to forget the promises of the alliance, I am reluctant to let go of the sweetness of you and me, and I am reluctant to let go of the hands that were once ten fingers clasped.

After a breakup, we always try very hard to forget someone, not to mention her name, not to inquire about her current situation, not to pay attention to her circle of friends.

Carefully hide her in a corner.

I don't want to be friends because I know that her presence will easily destroy all your previous efforts. You are afraid, afraid that as soon as she appears, you will soften, you will fall, you will have expectations, looking forward to holding hands again, hugging again, having again.

There are also some people who hate after love. hates the other party's unkindness and resignation, hates the other party's empathy and betrayal, and hates the other party's undistressed self-inflicted bruises.

We will not be reconciled. Unwilling to pay the most beautiful youth, the most sincere heart, and the most sincere tenderness.

I don't want to be friends because you know that as soon as she appears, those wounds that have not healed will festered again, and the pain buried in her heart will faintly flare up.

Actually, looking back, the fate of lovers.

Although it's gone, after all, it's the person you once loved sincerely. Therefore, there is really no need to be sad, there is no need to hold grudges, and there is no need to always hold on to those memories of the past to embarrass and torture yourself.

Perhaps, we can be brave and calm, and try to accept some loss, some imperfections, and some changes in our lives. In this way, our hearts will become more transparent and bright, and our lives will become better.

Can't be friends anymore.

Just after breaking up with my ex-boyfriend for a month, he thought we were more suitable to be friends, and I thought so too, so we jointly decided to return to being friends. We also have a common circle of friends, playing in a circle. But that's where the real pain begins.

Since he is still in your WeChat circle of friends, Weibo, NetEase Cloud, Douyin and other accounts are still closed to each other, and you will associate yourself with any song and status of unknown meaning posted by him after the breakup. Every time you convince yourself that you have done a long time of psychological construction and determination to restart a new life, you are repeatedly recalled and missed. Your world just crumbles and repairs, rebuilds, and then collapses and repairs.

Even when it is serious, as long as we meet, I will be cranky because of his eyes and behavior.

I believe that people who have loved deeply cannot be friends. Because you can't control yourself from thinking about him, contacting him, wanting to know his every move, and caring about him at every moment. If you don't have another right person around you, it's fine for you to do it, but if there's another girl around you, he's very nice to you, but you've been thinking about your ex-girlfriend,When you can't strip yourself from this relationship at all, you will hurt the person who cares about you the most, likes you the most, and deserves your love the most, but you don't have love.

Only when you block all the ways will you feel like you are starting to let go and be free. Don't give each other any hope, just return to strangers. I may still like you, and I may still feel when I see you, but since we have chosen to separate and not go on, we should not give each other a chance to repeat the mistakes of the past.

Otherwise, continue to be lovers. Don't be involved in the name of friends, it's a responsibility to each other.

Love is actually like a puzzle. He is divided into many parts, such as meeting, acquaintance, embrace, warmth and parting, and parting sometimes does not make the puzzle complete, but rather completes the puzzle of love.

I often see such a question: Can former lovers still be friends after separation?

There are a lot of people who say: No.

If you have really loved, it is torture for both parties to be friends again, because you want to hug him again when you see him.

If it has been hurt, goodbye will undoubtedly bring back unhappy memories, and even the urge to strangle the other person......

In short, former lovers should never be friends.

I think it's because they probably haven't been through enough. If you see too much of life, understand the changeability of life, and then look at some things, it may not be so absolute.

Many times in life, it is often involuntarily. When I can have it, I don't know how important it is to me, and I stupidly let fate pass by, and I think I am very chic. When you know how to cherish it, you are often disqualified from owning it.

I can only cherish it silently in my heart countless times, watching him drift away little by little, slowly withdrawing from his life, letting a soft corner in the depths of his heart, gently hurting, but he can't do anything.

Time heals all the pain. If time had passed long enough and you had met again. How do you feel at this time? Was it a surprise? Is it a blessing? Or, pain?

Maybe there will be these, or maybe none of them.

Seeing the person you once liked so much appear in front of you again, there will be a little surprise in your heart. After decades of no news, unintentionally reunited again, what a rare fate is this? Life is like a dream, the people around you come and go, and those who say they will be together for a lifetime have long since dissipated in the dust and slowly disappeared.

Whether it is friendship or love, in the face of time, it has become so fragile. Time, really, corrodes a lot of things that once seemed indestructible.

As I grew older, my outlook on life quietly changed. I used to think that things in the world must be black and white, but then I found out that I was wrong, life is not about doing exercises, and nothing is absolute. Slowly, I began to understand why Jin Yuelin loved Lin Huiyin so much, but he could be friends with Liang Sicheng and live next to them.

If you really love, you will definitely have deep blessings.

I can't accompany you, it's okay to have someone to accompany you, as long as you are happy. The person who is next to you doesn't have to be me! As long as you are happy. This kind of love, when we were young, must have been incomprehensible.

So I think that former lovers can also be friends. This kind of relationship of being a little less than a lover and a little more than a friend is actually very rare. It often exists only between two men and women with noble souls, and it is impossible for ordinary people to have it.

Because, the sublimation of feelings requires a certain amount of rationality and wisdom! Love is a very beautiful feeling. There is too much worldly love mixed in, and it is often not very pure. And pure love can transcend all obstacles and become a force that nourishes the soul.

If you are lucky enough to meet it, please treasure it!

People who have truly loved have had many good times and have loved each other. Therefore, it is impossible to be friends after a breakup. We often say that it is impossible for someone who has truly loved to be friends after a breakup.

People who have truly loved cannot be friends.

People who have really loved each other know each other best and have true feelings. After separation, it won't be the same as before, I just get along like a normal friend, which is definitely not possible. After all, it is someone who has truly loved and has had a lot of intimate contact. <>

If you want to make two people forget the good memories of the past, and then become ordinary friends, it is impossible to think about it. Moreover, if two people become friends after a breakup, they both find a new partner in the future and be with their sweethearts, which I think is more embarrassing and strange. Also, two people have loved each other before, and if they become friends after a breakup, it means that they must maintain a certain connection with each other.

Keep in touch and care about each other. So, how can two people let go of this relationship? Will there be a resurgence of old feelings in the future?

So, after a breakup, you really can't be friends, and there's no need for this. Even if you are reluctant, you want to keep in touch with each other all the time. <>

But one day when you meet each other, will you feel embarrassed? Separation is separation, and if two people want to be together through other relationships, you will find that the relationship between the two people will be more awkward. Because at this time, no matter how independent it is, it is useless, because two people used to be a very loving couple, if they re-become friends after breaking up, the two people have no common language at all, there will be a stalk, and the existence of this stalk makes the two of you never be friends.

Therefore, the best state after a breakup is to go their own way, there is no involvement between two people, you live your life, I live my life, and be the most familiar stranger to each other. What do you think?

I don't think we can be friends anymore; People who really like it can't be friends, both parties know each other too well, living habits, eating habits are very well understood, and it's too embarrassing to be friends.

This is not okay, two people will feel very embarrassed when they see each other, and sometimes they will feel very regretful, and there is no way to communicate normally.

I think it's impossible to be friends with people who have really loved, because it's painful to have a certain depth of feelings and then separate your heart.