How can I not hate others? How can I not allow myself to live in hatred?

Smile to face the people and things around you, take every step with your heart, treat things peacefully, smile more, if you don't like a person, you can ignore him, don't hate him, there are only two kinds of people in the world, likable and unlikable. Don't plant hatred in your heart, come on!

You go listen to a song.

Friends Boy Lyrics:

Shake hands at most and take a walk together.

You are massive, you are tolerant.

You are the future Ayumi Hamasaki.

Whatever the reason.

First of all, my attitude is the most wrong.

I regret that I was so noisy yesterday.

Then all of a sudden, I thought of my parents.

I don't want to remember.

For the day shirt like you.

and he was anxious and jealous.

Actually, I'm a very small person.

I'm sorry because I'm always near you.

and he will take thee out of his breath.

It turns out that friends are naïve.

It's someone I'll always cherish.

Love others tomorrow.

And remember that it doesn't matter if you learn.

It turns out that friends have higher scores than lovers.

It also made me know how not to hold grudges.

If everyone is sensitive.

I must always remember to refuse to be weird over small things.

Why is there no school motto?

Shake hands again and just think of you later.

There are tears that flow with confidence.

It's hard to be cold.

No matter what the road goes in the future.

Each other's old friends are like the same.

Later, at the juncture of the engine.

Looking back at this quarrel, it's also ugly.

It turns out that friends are naïve.

It's someone I'll always cherish.

Love others tomorrow.

And remember that it doesn't matter if you learn.

It turns out that friends have higher scores than lovers.

It also made me know how not to hold grudges.

If everyone is sensitive.

I must always remember to refuse to be weird over small things.

Why is there no school motto?

Like looking at your loved ones.

Often too aggressive.

In the future, I will not be able to understand others.

How to kiss my lover.

If you hate you all the time, you will always be tired, and one day you will feel that you can't continue this life, in fact, it's very simple, let go, as long as you can let go, all your troubles will leave you. Hate can't help you change the status quo, but it helps you get messier and messier, so why should you give yourself such a thing to bind yourself, let go.

Think of "This world is so beautiful, but I'm so grumpy!" It's not good, it's not good, hehe, the main thing is to have a good mentality, long live understanding, and the other party may not have a heart.

Don't care about the person you want to hate. Ignoring is much less effort than hatred.

Stay in a good mood.

Listen to a more relaxing song.

Participate in more group activities.

Boredom or holidays go mountaineering on a trip.

Adjust your mindset and think about the good things.

Be tolerant of others. Tolerance is one of the virtues.

I suggest you take a look at the book The Wisdom of the Mean, which can teach you how to behave in the world.

My reason is very simple, people who hold grudges are easy to age, and people who hold grudges are easy to die early, friends, why don't you live a few more days, so be generous! Hey!

Learn to be more tolerant and generous, you can look at the magazine "Reader", half a moon sentence, maybe it can infect you. That's how I am.

In real life, we will have friends, and there will be people who are not on good terms with themselves, for busy people who are not in good relationship with themselves, we will stay away from them, and do not want to deal with them, but when they encounter difficulties, will they choose to help, which requires us to analyze the other party's attitude towards themselves in the state of their relationship, as well as the other party's character, and finally make a decision, first, according to the state of the relationship between each other to determine whether to help each other, Although the other party is always aimed at himself in daily life, but the specific relationship status between each other is different, which will have a great impact on himself, his impression and attitude towards him, specifically, if the relationship between two people you maintain normal communication, his target is only in a different point of view, then he can help when he encounters difficulties, and if two people can not interact normally at all, then they will definitely not help him, and secondly, according to the other party's attitude towards themselves, decide whether to help each other, If he has a more rational attitude towards himself, and the most interacting between two people is in a frank state, then he can help each other, and if the other party is in a private grudge against himself, then he will definitely not help her today, third, according to the character of the other party to finally determine whether he will help him, the most important thing for us to look at a person is the character of the other party, if the other party's character is good, So even if you can't be friends with him ( °3° ) or even be targeted, you will give him a high evaluation and help him when he encounters difficulties, but if the other party has a bad character and low quality, and the character is poor, he will not help when he sees the other party in trouble at this time!

Pay attention to legal discipline.

Between people, look at the positive side, not just some mistakes and shortcomings.

Some people may choose to forgive so that past hurts no longer drag their lives forward; And some people may choose to fight back, wanting the other person to get the punishment or revenge they deserve. Still others may choose to forget, let go of the past, and move on with their lives.

Either way, you need to consider your own feelings and the safety of others. If you choose to forgive, you need to make sure that you don't get hurt anymore, and you need to have enough time and psychology to restore and rebuild trust. If you choose to fight back, you need to consider whether your actions are legal and whether they will cause the other party to fight back; If you choose to forget, you need to make sure that you are relieved of the old things and that they do not affect your emotions and behaviors.

Ultimately, the choice of forgiveness or fighting back, or letting go of the hatred in the chest, depends on each individual's personality and thoughts.

Hatred is a natural emotion. Let's start with the goal of life, which is not easy!

This may seem like a common problem, but it's actually big. I can't be rigorous, but I think it's necessary to talk to you, try to have some and not, appropriate and inappropriate verbose.

Long-winded. Don't blame you for not having time to interrupt, knowing that there are people who are well-intentioned and concerned about the plight of others, and it can bring you some relief.

Hatred is an emotion rooted in genes, any kind of psychology and things that originate, can not be avoided without studying, that can only bring greater problems, put on individual people, due to grievances can not have a proper outlet to release the psychological disorder, caused by psychological disorders are not uncommon.

Think of us as people, things like hatred, it's all the minds that do things. Thoughts are influenced by the scope of cognition and the circumstances that need to be dealt with. Cognition and environment determine the pattern, and the collision of different philosophies of life has created all problems and no problems.

Thought is the biggest difference between us and other species, so we are human beings, and our troubles over thoughts and emotions prove that you and we are individuals. Too simple and big to follow the crowd, and even worship false gods, selfless and ruthless, just cognition, that is, lack of IQ. Looking around, you can basically exclude "rare and confused" people (sorry, I just started, and I will continue when I have time) (it's just that there is no rule and modification, and there are some words that are not matched).

See Reply. You are mistaken! I won't explain it anymore, maybe it's because it's so long-winded that it's confusing.

In short, don't guess the reason, don't speculate about right and wrong. In life, everyone is inevitably hurt, especially from the hurt, betrayal and misunderstanding of all the people who are physically and mentally entrusted. The heartache caused by this kind of injury is far from being comparable to other things, and it is far from being exculpable by a few words of exhortation that are not in it.

This goal has nothing to do with wealth and mediocrity, it is just about one's own willingness. Throw what should be thrown, keep what should be kept, live to understand, always firm, it will be much easier to overcome the entanglement.

Turn hatred into motivation, it is not too late for a gentleman to take revenge for ten years, but you have to repay it in the right way, such as learning a skill, and when you succeed, everything else will not be afraid of threats to you.

Hatred is a very normal psychology of a person, but we can't be affected by hatred and lose judgment, first of all, we can't do anything wrong, we can pursue our rights and interests through legal channels, and we can use hatred to make ourselves work harder and become stronger.

If you want to deal with hatred correctly, you must first distinguish the root of your own interests, what is beneficial to yourself, what is not beneficial to yourself, do not do it, and avoid causing harm to yourself.

You must learn to vent your hatred appropriately, don't keep it in your heart all the time, this will only make you go crazy, but you can't completely vent your inner hatred to others, you should use hatred to encourage yourself and improve yourself.

To think rationally, hatred must be avenged, but it is necessary to choose the method that does the least harm to oneself to take revenge.

Hatred is accumulated by both sides, and the correct treatment must be resolved positively, and each other will be relieved, if the treatment cannot be proven, then it is necessary to put an end to the past, and resolve the hatred into a good deed, so as to overcome the deterioration of this hatred.

Make yourself better, this is the most beneficial way to act, and it can also make hatred worthwhile.

I think we should treat hatred correctly and let ourselves remember hatred, but don't lose our minds because of hatred, and it's not too late for a gentleman to take revenge for 10 years.

How to make one's living people eliminate hatred, I think we can consider the following aspects.

1.Find a way to forget hatred, don't always think about the unhappy things you have experienced, learn to forget, be brave enough to start a new life, if you are hating because of love, then you can try to start a new relationship.

2.Get in touch with more positive energy, feel the happiness and power brought by people who are grateful, learn to treat people or things with a heart of kindness and gratitude, think more about the favors given to you by others, and believe that your kindness can help many people and bring inner satisfaction to others and yourself.

3.Learn to love others with sincerity, love is the medicine to dispel hatred.