His friends said I wasn t worthy of him, and my boyfriend said I wasn t worthy of me

I want you to be angry for a while, but since you are married, you have to invest more effort in maintaining this relationship, marriage is not a playhouse, you don't like his friends, his friends don't like you, this is mutual and very fair, why bother, to have an excellent husband is something that others can't envy. If you have troubles, you have to talk to your husband, don't ask for troubles alone, otherwise it is easy to have misunderstandings. Be happy! Come on!

Marriage needs to be understood, communication is needed, the word divorce does not need to be on the lips at every turn, everyone encounters problems, first of all, they should communicate, and they must deal with this matter with a problem-solving attitude, sometimes they don't know how to cherish when they are together, and they regret it when they are separated, there is nothing that can't be passed, husband and wife, quarrels are sometimes a seasoning, not only do not hurt feelings, but also promote your emotions, the same half a glass of water is placed there, it depends on how you look at it, you can see that there is only half a glass of water there, It can also be seen as thanking God for leaving half a glass of water for you, and sometimes looking at it from a different angle, you can see a different life and a different marriage.

That is, if you get married before you have fully thought about it, it is easy to have problems because you find more and more problems. Actually, I don't think your husband needs to be so atmospheric, isn't it just a chat record, why do you react so much if you don't see something unsightly? But you should also think calmly, after all, marriage is not child's play.

I see that you are still young, you got married early, the run-in time before marriage is too short, and you and your husband have no experience of working together, so let's run in slowly.

Summary. Seriously, you can say, don't send me a good person card, I don't accept it, I say you are worthy of you, I just like you, there is no reason to like you, as long as I am with you I think everything is worth it, I hope you give it a chance. Let's get along.

It depends on what kind of situation he says and what tone he says. It may be that he really doesn't deserve you; It may be because of something you did that hurt his self-esteem, but he is not good at picking it out directly; Or maybe it's just a whim. <>

He said he didn't deserve me, he said he didn't want to delay me, he said there were too many people better than him, but I really liked him, how could I keep him.

You can joke: I'm the kind of person who is out of the eyes of a lover, and I have a soft spot for you, and no one is worthy of me, but only you can be worthy. <>

The situation is a bit serious now, not for jokes, how can I convince him of this mentality.

Seriously, you can say, don't send me a good person card, I don't accept it, I say you are worthy of you, I just like you, there is no reason to like you, as long as I am with you I think everything is worth it, I hope you give it a chance. Let's get along.

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I hope I can help you, I wish you a happy life, a happy and happy life, every day. <>

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Summary. My boyfriend's friend said that he didn't deserve me, and he said this kind of thing purely because he was jealous of your boyfriend, he thinks you are better, and he must have a good impression of you.

My boyfriend's friend said that he was not worthy of me, including Yi Qin, and he said this kind of thing purely because he was jealous of your boyfriend, he thought you were better, and he must have a good impression of you.

A guy says he doesn't deserve you, so how should you understand it? If you are really not worthy of you in all aspects, then he said it from the heart, and he has a little inferiority complex in front of you, on the contrary, if your various conditions are at the same starting line, then he says that he is not worthy of you, it may be that he looks down on you, or shouts bad hands to give you a hint that he appreciates you.

Summary. Hello, I am Mr. Heln, a psychological listening teacher, who is good at marriage and family, love, parent-child, psychological and other aspects of counseling. When your boyfriend says that he is afraid that he is not worthy of you, he is more confident, that is to say, you are very good, which makes him feel a little inferior, afraid that the relationship with you is out of reach, and even a little unbelievable and wants to retreat.

Hello, Sun Pin, I am a psychological listening teacher Heln teacher, who is good at counseling in marriage and family, love, parent-child, psychology and other aspects. When your boyfriend says that he is afraid that he is not worthy of you, he is more confident, that is to say, you are very good, which makes him feel a little inferior, afraid that the relationship with you is out of reach, and even a little unbelievable and wants to retreat.

So how to dispel his concerns, how to talk to him.

In fact, words have no effect on carrying a cover, you can treat him normally, the more you care, the more you pay attention to it, although you think it's not like that, but what he is emphasizing is this, the more troublesome it is.

But I'm afraid he doesn't trust me.

Don't worry just yet, what's going on? Or you can tell me a little bit more about what your relationship is like right now.

It's a bit of a stalemate, he may just be a bit of a straight man, and he told me that his classmates told him that I will be separated from him sooner or later, and then I may start to worry about myself, just say a word of withdrawal, I saw him say, "I'm really ugly, what should I do?" I'm afraid I'm not worthy of you," I told him, don't think about it, I'm not that kind of person, for example, I made him a flower last night, and he told me in the morning that he was afraid that he wouldn't be worthy of me, and I was very worried that I would be separated from him.

You are both very sensitive people, my dear, so it seems that he is a very self-conscious and humble person, and you need to affirm and appreciate him more, and at the same time, you should also teach him to guide him, and the relationship with your Zen code needs his own feelings to affirm, rather than listening to others.

It sounds like you really care about the relationship and you care about him.

How can you be sure that you will appreciate and teach him?

Affirmation is to affirm your choice that you really want to be with him, you have no suspicions, and you will affirm this as soon as you have the opportunity, for example, I know that you are the best for me, I know that you love me the most, and I know that there is nothing wrong with loving you, dear ......Similar.

Well, okay, I know, but he keeps scolding me, what should I do, why is this happening?

Why does he keep scolding you?

He always likes to me off and ask me to punish him or something.

This kind of presentation should be related to the environment of his original confessional family, he needs to feel the care of others in the way of being punished, and he always provokes you. How much you affirm him, so that he can change his own perception and understand that you are good, and you also love him.

Your boyfriend is hopeless.

Let's change the heart for a good one.

There are 2 possibilities:

1: He really has low self-esteem and really feels that he is not worthy of you.

Since he himself said that he was not worthy of you, what is the use of saying that he is worthy?

He's running away from problems, and low self-esteem isn't a problem.

He doesn't try to change himself, and his problems are the ones who run away from them.

2: On this ground, he wanted to break up and dump you, and you were not at fault, so he had to say so.

And it feels like your boyfriend doesn't love you very much.

He loves you, and he will never think about breaking up, he will only think about working on himself.

You have a bunch of barabalas, and he will reply with a sentence or two, which is for me, I don't speak, and the points will be divided. Are you still afraid that you won't find a boyfriend?

The problem between you is his low self-esteem, but I don't think this can be a reason to break up, he has low self-esteem, shouldn't he make himself not inferior, why do you feel wrong when you are in good condition? Your good conditions are just your mother's love for you.

How can you change your conditions and become poor for him? Don't be stupid.

To be honest, looking at your chat history, I've really been thinking, why do you want to be backwards compatible?

He has said that he is not worthy of you, and you have been saying that your conditions are not good, since he thinks that your conditions are good, no matter how much you say, he will not change his concept, and people will always only believe in themselves.

Think about it, even if you don't break up, this inferiority complex in him will still explode in the future.

You're still going to quarrel over that.

You can never wake up someone who is pretending to be asleep.

You may think that your conditions are not good, but from the outsider's point of view, they are already very good.

It's generally a man's backward compatibility, and the first time I see a woman's backward compatibility, people are not happy, it's really ......Speechless...

Most men have a strong sense of self-esteem, you can be weaker than him, you are stronger than him, and he will feel wrong in everything.

When the time comes, what inferiority complex, what hatred ......

Most men can't accept that their wives or girlfriends are better than them.

A man who is not confident, if he has low self-esteem, he needs you to reconsider.

In the past few days, I happened to brush up on a man who talked about marriage**, and the expert said that girls must not find a man who is poor by yourself, such a man will either be poor all his life, or he will abandon you when he is prosperous. At the time, I was quite shocked to hear it, and the experts summarized it very well, that is, it depends on whether you believe it, or you have to give it a try.