If a person does all four things, will he lose his good fortune and will not go far?

If you often speak ill of others behind your back, deceive others, calculate others, and insult others, you will lose your blessings if you do all these four things.

The momentum is inexhaustible, the blessings cannot be exhausted, the cheap cannot be exhausted, the wisdom cannot be exhausted, only those who really know how to hide their true strength, and will not be easily revealed, are really smart people.

Betraying one's own friends, promising false things to others, hurting the hearts of those who love oneself, and speaking ill of others behind one's back.

People only need to make a career or get promoted to make a fortune, there will always be some stunned feelings, feeling that they have become the best among people, but in fact, sometimes they still have to be more convergent, pay attention to a degree of everything, how to have more back roads when encountering misfortune in the future. After these lift themselves to a height, they can't get out of the way without leaving a way out, and most of them will fall and never recover. Therefore, people should always remain humble, prudent, and unassuming in this life, so that you can go higher and further.

When you encounter a problem, just complaining about others will not solve the problem in the slightest. Learning to discard bad emotions, rational thinking, and correct planning and decision-making to solve problems is the attitude that middle-aged people should have. Middle-aged men, perhaps when they shoulder heavy responsibilities, face their elderly parents and the next generation who have not yet matured and become independent, and face the bottlenecks and pressures at work, life is not so smooth.

But even if life fails you, vent appropriately to relieve stress, and then you must calm down, instead of complaining and blindly venting, think seriously about what is the problem and actively look for solutions. If a person "does" these four things, he will lose his blessings, and the road is very close!

First, the momentum cannot be exhausted.

Many times people will suddenly have an idea, at that time people are very few, some people want to think about the feasibility of this idea, and there will not be too much to carry out the overall planning, can only do their best to rush forward, until the situation encounters difficulties, will gradually be timid, because at the beginning of the exhaustion of his entire hard work, and finally more and more exhausted. Many things can only be gradualized by thinking and being prepared for mistakes, and we must remember the great truth that water drops wear stones, and we need perseverance to do a good job.

Second, blessings cannot be enjoyed.

The old man has always said that a person's life's blessings are all understood, if you have been greedy for enjoyment and exhausted the blessings, you will be punished by God, and the rest of your life will be very hard, naturally this kind of speech has some feudal superstitions, but it is not unreasonable. Because when a person is in the case of a spring breeze, he will be blinded by these external luxury life. Thinking of danger and full of precepts.

The meaning of this sentence is not to relax even when you are in a high position, and to be clear-headed to see the risks, rather than always greedy for enjoyment.