Why don t your friends want you to have a good time?

Then I can only feel sad for your friends to have friends like you.

If you really be your friend, how can you not want them to have a good life, I think the friends in your mouth should be limited to acquaintances, not heart-to-heart friendships, at least I don't want friends to have a bad time, I just hope that my friends and I have a smooth life, there is no catastrophe.

From your question, you can see that you are not very sunny in your heart, at least there is a dark side, you don't want your friends to live better than yourself, nothing more than afraid that they will surpass you, thus reducing your superiority in front of them.

This is also understandable, everyone wants to be superior to others and be superior, in fact, this is more of a comparison psychology and self-esteem.

After all, there is always a group of people in life who invisibly compare you to cause psychological pressure and imbalance, just like my parents compared my relatives and said that this family is not as good as that family, I don't agree with their approach, because whether they live well or not has little to do with them, and this will also cause psychological discomfort to the family that is not doing well. I think there must be an element to that in your question.

You have to remember that life is to live for yourself, not for others to see, you are poor or rich, you live well or not, only you understand in your heart, others may not live well may only be on the surface, whose real life is only known to your own family, you should change this kind of thinking, you think from another angle, if your friends are better than you, in the future can still help you in their career or in some way, wouldn't it be better, ignore other people's criticism of their lives, but also care more about their friends and true love, Work hard to improve your quality of life instead of hoping that your friends will have a bad time.

If the friends around you want you to have a bad time, then the group of friends around you are not really friends. This kind of friend can only be called a bad friend. This kind of friend doesn't want you to really live well, but is actually jealous of you.

This kind of friend still has less contact with them in the future.

Your friends around you don't want you to live well, on the one hand, it may be that you are the only child, on the other hand, it may be that your friends around you are a little jealous of you, which is also a very normal thing, so just be yourself, don't care what others think of you, how they think of you.

If you have such friends around you who don't want you to live well, it means that they are not your friends, because the people who want you to have a bad life are the ones who hit you, and the people who hurt you had better stay away from them, and you must work hard to make your life better, come on.

Friends don't want you to do well, maybe it's jealousy. It's also vanity. Because they themselves are doing poorly, there will be problems with their mentality, and they also hope that you are not doing well, so that their hearts will be more balanced.

Your friends don't want you to live well, it only means that they are not your real friends, so naturally they want you to live worse than them! In this way, they will have face in front of you, they can show off in front of you, they can insult you, and these people cannot treat him as a friend.

Nowadays people are selfish, psychologically strong, and have a high sense of jealousy, and when you are down, he feels that he looks down on you. When you are brilliant, he wants you to have a bad life.

Hello dear, people's life is afraid of meeting bad friends, if your friends around you don't want you to live well, you try to stay away from such friends.

In fact, the people around you who are particularly close to you are still the people who follow and compare with you, sometimes they really don't want you to live well, that is, after taking you to live well, it will actually make them feel that their lives are not so good, so they will naturally be very tired.

That means it's not your friend at all, it's just that you treat others as friends. Since I don't regard you as a friend, I definitely don't want you to do well.

This is not a real friend, if no one is the best friend who doesn't want you to live well and be rich, so the people around you don't want you to live well, just to see that you are poor and happy, it is not right.

This is the source of the idea of human inferiority.

Because friends are also human beings, they also have the psychology of envy, jealousy and hatred.

I'm afraid you have some kind of delusion. Human beings are complex emotional creatures. He doesn't necessarily want you to be bad, he may just want you to be not as good as he is.

Those are friends, if you have such friends around you, it is recommended that you stay away from such friends, do not associate with such friends again, usually friends are to help themselves care for themselves, hope that they will live a better life, this is the real friend.

Why don't your friends want you to live well, I don't think so, if the friends around you say, they just want to live a good life for those little people who don't want to live a good life.

Why do the friends around you don't want you to have a good life, I don't think it's possible, as long as it's a friend. People around you want you to do well.

Then I don't think this kind of friend can be counted as a friend, and I suggest you stay estranged. A true friend wants you to make a fortune and let him lie down and win.

What you are asking is a bit one-sided, in fact, as long as you get along well with people, no one doesn't want you to live well.

Why is this happening, are you offending all your friends without knowing it? That's what they're going to do to you.

I'm a bit direct, but one thing you really have to understand is that it's not your right to think like that. You must know that each of us is an independent individual, and we all have our own life circle. Even two people, no matter how good and close they are, have no right to interfere in the lives of others.

Everyone can only say that they can take care of themselves and don't let their lives be a mess. <>

Just like when it comes to making friends, everyone is free to make friends, and we can't ask others to stop being friends with other people just because we have a good relationship with each other, which is really wrong. I can understand that you are more possessive, whether it is a friend or a lover, you may have a strong possessiveness, you will feel that as long as they have a good relationship with themselves, then they can only have themselves in their lives, and there can be no other people who have a better relationship than yourself. Maybe it's because I haven't thought that way, so I don't really understand why you do this, but one thing is for sure that it's not right for you to think this way.

I'm going to talk about what you should do now. <>

1. Adjust your mentality. The main thing you need to do now is to adjust your mentality, and you must realize in your heart that this is not right. Each of us has no right to decide on others, and others can have a good relationship with you, but this does not mean that when you have a good relationship, you can't have a good relationship with others.

In the same way, you can't kidnap him forever with the idea that he's your best friend. <>

Second, you can make more friends. You can make more friends, although there are not many friends, but it is definitely better to have more friends than one less. So you can make some new friends now, so that you don't always wonder if your friends have better friends than you, because you can also have several good friends at the same time.

If you care about this good friend and you want to be better with him, you can keep in touch more often, come out to parties on holidays to give him gifts, and handle your relationship better, and he will not be better with other people. will also treat you as their best friend. You have to take action so that you can keep your friends.

Because a good friend is like a lover, if another person appears, we will feel that our territory has been encroached upon, and we must treat it with a normal heart, because it is inevitable.

You don't have the right to ask your friends not to make other good friends, you have to control the degree of interaction with your friends, if you exceed this boundary, it will invade your privacy. And it will make your friend feel that you are managing too much, and slowly you will lose this friend.

If you don't want a good friend to have a good relationship with other people, if you ask you, well, if you have a good relationship with other people, you will be jealous, so it's normal.

You can explain it directly to your good friend, make it clear, and at the same time, you should also understand the heart of your good friend, so that the relationship between the two people can get better and better.

This is a kind of jealousy psychology, in fact, we are not looking for friends to possess friends, exclusive friends, that is not right, you should hope that friends can get along with each other amicably.

You should change your mind, such a thing is wrong and selfish.

I think you can have a good talk with your good friend, because the friendship of three people can easily go wrong.

The people around me want you to live well, but I don't like others to live better than you, I think the people around me must be their own relatives, must be their own family.

Often when entering the society or facing life, I always feel that there are many things I can't do, and often at this time, my family takes care of me, so that I can feel the warmth around me, so I think that no matter when, the people around you want you to live well.

Especially your own family and parents, they all want you to be the best in front of others, to be able to live a carefree life, so that you can get the most happiness, in fact, this is their expectation.

It's true, everyone wants others to be better and not detach from themselves, but at the same time, others can't be too good than themselves, and their own feelings are unspeakable.

You can understand that sentence, the people around you want you to live well, but they don't like others to live better than you, this is the love and care for you, I hope you live well, others live better than you, he is in a bad mood, that's what it means.

You are if you are doing well, you will also want your friends to live well, but you don't want your friends to be better than you, if the people around you are better than you, it is not equal, maybe your superiority is gone, this is how human nature is, the people around you are better, most people will not feel happy.

The so-called good and bad are relative, it is compared with others, if others are better than you, even if you are not living badly, you will feel bad. Therefore, only when others are not as good as you will show your goodness. That's probably what it means.

Indeed, that sentence is very true, this is to reveal the essence of human nature, that is, the people around you want you to live well, but they don't want you to live better than them, then that is the essence of human nature.

The meaning of this sentence is to hope that you will not only live well, but also live a better life than everyone else.

People around you generally don't want you to be better off than him, that's human nature. This is also very normal, we can look at this phenomenon from the heart, do you want the people around you to be better than you everywhere?

I think this sentence is very correct, because people are like this, even if the relationship is good, he doesn't want you to live better than him, when Ye Qingran, except for your parents.

In the process of getting along with friends, if you have a better life than friends, some people will be jealous, and such friends are not real friends. This sentence is the kind of person that Qing Xian is talking about.

I think everyone has a certain jealousy mentality, if your good friends see that you outperform them, they will have a certain opinion of you, and they don't want you to overtake them, this sentence is very true.

This sentence only applies to ordinary friends, and there is no such statement if the relationship is relatively good.