Why do some people want to see you laugh and be happy when you make a fool of you?

There is a characteristic in human nature, that is, the weak prefer to bully people who are weaker than themselves, and they dare not say a word when they meet the strong, a person who likes to see others make a fool of himself is often a person with a more inferior complex, psychological research shows that what a person lacks is often a factor that contributes to his character, and people with low self-esteem are comforted when they see others making a fool of themselves, and someone is worse than himself, and when he makes a fool of himself, he feels that the whole world is laughing at him, and he will feel scared, uneasy and fearful.

In fact, we say that people with low self-esteem do not necessarily like to see others make a fool of themselves, but people who like to see others make a fool of themselves are often people with low self-esteem, and every action and character of a person has its psychological activities behind it, and through the analysis of behavior, you can often see through the heart of this person.

A boy who sees you making a fool of himself but still laughs at you may have two situations: one is that you take his helpless and regretful smile in the face of your foolish situation as a joke for you; The second is the joke you are talking about, there is a possibility of ridicule or falling into the ground.

Those who want to see you laugh and see you make a fool of themselves are jealous of you and because you are better than them. Those people aren't really your friends, and they won't reach out if you need help.

In some people's inner world, there will indeed be dark situations, because they themselves do not do well, they will hope that others will make a fool of themselves. This is also the case. But it is also very rare.

If this happens, you should pay attention to your psychological problems.

People who like to watch people laugh and are happy when they make a fool of themselves are generally a little dark in their hearts, lest others have a good life, and this kind of person can't have deep friendships.

That one's cognition.

1. When I went downstairs at almost midnight just now, I saw the doorman peeing in the flower bed, and I was about to bow my head, but the uncle looked up and saw me, and everyone was very embarrassed.

Then I wanted to say hello and ease the atmosphere: "Uncle, you are still watering the flowers so late......”

2. One day in the summer, I saw a buddy buy knee pads and asked him to play ball and exercise? This thing lost a sentence that made me think about it for a long time before I understood.

He said: It's hot, and the mat is too hard.

3. A colleague bought a mobile phone film for dozens of dollars on the Internet, and pasted it by himself, which was full of bubbles, so he took the booth of the mobile phone film to re-paste it.

The stall owner took his colleague's mobile phone and tore off the film without looking at it, and asked his colleague: "Did you post it yourself?" ”

Colleague: "Yes. ”

Stallholder: "You put a protective film on it, and you threw it away." ”

4. I once played at my aunt's house, and I was going back at night, and his family had to send me, so I joked: I look safe

Then my brother said, "It's hard to stand up to the dark..."

5. When I was a soldier, once at dinner, we sat at a large round table in each class, and at that time, the training volume was relatively large in the recruit company, and the meals were all vegetarian.

As soon as the food came up, we took the chopsticks and started to eat violently, and a person next to me suddenly stood up and picked up a piece of meat with the chopsticks. Just shouted: squad leader, find a piece of meat!

The squad leader grabbed a chopstick and said: Very good, leave it to me to deal with, you continue to scout...

There are troubles, embarrassments, and ruffians.

You are a heartless person, you have found the answer and tell me (o).

Zhang San is notoriously afraid of his wife. On this day, the couple quarreled again. After a few words, the wife started with her teeth and claws.

Zhang San's enemy is no match for his wife, and he escapes from the house with his legs in the thirty-six schemes. The wife scratched Zhang San's face and was drenched in blood, Zhang San covered his face and went to his friend Li Si to discuss how to treat his wife. Li Si stretched out his finger and said:

What's so hard about that? You cut her nails every two days. ”

Listening to what my sister said, the teacher was explaining the problem when he was in high school, but the classmates found that the teacher's belt was not bad, so it was quite long and exposed, and a classmate said: Teacher, your belt is really long! The teacher didn't hear clearly, thinking that he was talking about solving the problem, so he replied:

It's still long, and it's even longer to unravel! The class laughed and the teacher was messy.

It's not that there is no ugliness in the world, but there is a lack of eyes to find ugliness, alas, brothers predict what will happen next, it depends on your creation,