What do you think and how do you respond to the kind of friends and relatives who don t see people

I think this kind of people are very selfish, cautious, have no quality, and the pattern is very small, and I usually use my own strength to blind their dog eyes to respond to them.

I will directly reply to the other party, and I will also tell the other party that there should be a correct attitude in life, everyone will have their own life, and there should be no envy, jealousy and hatred.

When I see friends and relatives who don't see people well, I will ignore them, and if they say something to my face, I will also turn back, and I will say that you can't expect others to be good.

In fact, this kind of person who can't see others better than himself is not limited to relatives, but generally appears among classmates, colleagues, neighbors, and relatives.

In fact, such a person is just trying to save face on the one hand, and jealousy and hatred on the other.

I have such a colleague in my unit. When I first joined the work, I was young and willing to study, and I made certain achievements in my work, which left a good impression on everyone. Later, he felt that he had capital, so he began to relax his business efforts.

Over the past few years, the performance has declined year after year, and it has gradually been surpassed by some young people. At this time, this colleague did not seriously reflect and wake up, but took the way of "cracking" on others.

One year, a colleague much younger than him was successfully promoted, and everyone congratulated him. What about this colleague? still has his own opinion, "But dozens of dollars more per month, how tiring it has been in the past few years."

The implication is that he was not promoted to the title, not because he didn't want to be promoted, but because he was not worth it, and it was a bit of "can't eat grapes and say that grapes are sour", and he was also very envious and jealous. Hehe. Fortunately, everyone understands his character and mind, and no one theorizes with him face-to-face, but does what he has to do.

In short, for this kind of person who can't see the good of others, don't care, just continue to work hard and be the best version of yourself.

The most unpleasant thing to see each other should be between the concubines.

The most unpleasant thing for me is my own brother, he wishes I was paralyzed, watching me live is better than death, and my father, they just want to be good, I don't want to be better than death if I have no use value, there has never been a so-called family affection, and I will never come and go in this life.

Because relatives don't want you to outrun them.

I remember one year during the New Year, our family invited relatives to eat at home, and then that year happened to be when I just graduated and then I just found a better job at that time, and then in Shanghai, at that time I was still relatively happy, because I felt that it was okay to say it, so during the meal, an aunt asked me that I was working in ** now, but I didn't think much about it at that time, so I told her truthfully, I guess it's because he thinks it's in Shanghai, so it should be the kind of job with a higher salary, but he said in **, what Shanghai is a good place, but you can live there and the consumption is very high, and then although you earn a lot but spend more, and then I thought maybe she was really thinking about it for me Then he began his tirade, saying that his daughter is now working as a Chinese teacher in a public elementary school, although the salary may not be as high as my job, but at that time, the stability and welfare are good, five insurances and one housing fund, there are winter and summer vacations, and then there are various benefits for the New Year's holidays, and then it is a lot of talking, in fact, at that time, I felt in my heart how could there be such relatives, in fact, I think such a middle-aged woman is the most terrible, first of all, I think it has no culture, no knowledge, so his vision is only in this third-tier small city, and secondly, I think it is the kind of relatives who can't see others, and it's the kind of distant relatives.

So although I was smiling at him on the surface, I actually wanted to press him in the toilet in my heart, but at that time, I still had to compliment which old woman said that your daughter is really capable, very powerful, and being a teacher is a better benefit than those of us who work?

Chinese common disease, red eyes and jealousy.

Not only relatives, but also close friends who play, can't see you a little good, and try their best to pour cold water on you when you are good. It's really unpredictable.

I won't see my relatives! I can't see a good life to show off in front of my relatives, and I am not filial to my own old people. Be good out there! This kind of person is disgusting!

Alas, my husband's relatives, most of them are not good at others, laughing at people and hating people, every year during the Chinese New Year, they cry and complain to each other, and after I got married, I never participated in their parties.

Only relatives with interests will, not to see you badly, it is better to die, so that the interests of his family can be maximized.

Not just relatives? Grandma will be unhappy when she sees that her grandson's life is better than that of her grandson. Don't ask me why I know.

Relatives and friends are also good and bad, so there is betrayal and betrayal, table, cousin, aunt, how good can it be. There are also good, not many, no matter how good it is, it will not be close to your own family, so intimate, and now this society is also a big reality, it doesn't matter.

My family was demolished, and overnight I became the richest among my relatives, and I borrowed money countless times, as if I was guilty if I didn't borrow, from hundreds of thousands to thousands, and finally gave you a few thousand for nothing, I don't want it.

Overestimating people's hearts and underestimating human nature!

Human nature is like this, and deep down I don't want anyone to live better than myself. It's just that some people are too good to let themselves be out of reach, and they can only recognize the reality! So it's normal.

I feel that my classmates don't like me the most.

Two relatives, one defeated me 20,000 yuan in a very short period of time, and the other defeated me 10,000 yuan, many years ago, but not the current price!

The point is that people don't think there's anything wrong with them! Thoughts, theories, words, deeds are all right! It's a mistake that you're doing well.

Don't talk about others, human nature can't stand the test, my own mother is jealous of her daughter's beauty, her daughter has ability, her daughter's marriage is happy, and she always feels that her son should live better than her daughter.

=。= I'm looking forward to having developed relatives who can put gold on my face and fly with me The most afraid of relatives committing crimes or something, this is going to be connected to the nine clans.

Why do you say that the people who can't see you are all relatives and friends around you? There are three main reasons.

I think it's mainly because people like to compare themselves with the people around them, and they like to communicate with their relatives and friends, so the people who don't see you are usually their relatives and friends.

Because only these people will want to compare with you. Strangers don't know you well, so they don't have this kind of malicious emotion. Of course, these are only a small part.

Because some people like to compare themselves with the people around them, and they don't want others to live better than themselves.

It's all jealousy, everyone has it, as long as it's not true to you, it's normal, just relax.