What kind of people around us are obviously jealous of you, stay away as soon as possible?

It is said that "you must not have the heart to harm others, and you must not have the heart to prevent others". When dealing with people, you have to keep an open mind. A person who is visibly jealous of you is likely to do something to hurt you one day.

So please leave as soon as possible, or you won't even know how you are overwhelmed.

1. People who talk about you behind your back, reversing right and wrong.

A powerful person is bound to be recognized by the majority. Without the recognition of others, no matter how great the achievement, you can only appreciate it yourself. The purpose of swearing behind your back is nothing more than to make you lose influence, make others think that you are not great, or even discredit you.

Jealous people will continue to look for your weaknesses. will continue to expand.

2. People who often deny your grades and are very critical of you.

Walking in society always has their own skills, and everyone has their own strengths, and they are proud of it. These advantages are likely to be our personal "rice bowl". For example, eloquence, people with excellent eloquence tend to perform better in sales and public relations, and it is understandable that individuals rely on their own strength to achieve their own achievements, but jealous people will come to suppress you.

There is such a person, when others express their merits, he will say "nothing special". These words are harsh. On the one hand, the efforts of others are worthless to him, and on the other hand, he wants to show exceptional abilities, jealousy and vanity.

3. Hindering you for no reason.

The workplace is also like a battlefield. Open and covert operations are essential. When there is a task, colleagues are friends and take on it together.

However, when there is an opportunity for promotion, colleagues become competitors. It's human nature, and it's understandable to some extent, but a person with serious jealousy has a standard of behavior - he doesn't see the good in others, he likes to do things that are harmful to others and not good to himself. But that's what he did.

I often talk to you in a pimped-tone tone, and I am negative about your efforts, these people are often doing this because of what you have right now, and when you encounter such people, you have to leave in time and keep your distance.

I can't see your good, I don't care about your success, I will try my best to frame you, I am narrow-minded, and I will say bad things about you behind your back.

If I can't see you, I will splash you with cold water, I won't really bless you, I will say sour things, and I will pick your thorns.

No one says behind him, and no one says behind him. Sometimes some people discuss you, it is very likely that they are simply justified and have no intention, and some people often discuss other people's lives because their lives are too boring, and they take the discussion as their own happiness after dinner.

Although such a person is quite annoying, it will not arouse deep boredom and affection, and it will not cause you trouble. However, some people, out of a strong jealousy in their hearts, will slander you, slander you, and spread harmful views to you, and such people will undoubtedly cause damage to you.

In the TV series "Xiaomin's Family", Li Ping is based on jealousy of Xiaomin. Emulate her everywhere in life, realizing that she can't replace her, and she has always been trampled by her, so he spreads her gossip everywhere. made up some untrue seven uniques, poured dirty water on Xiao Min's body, slandered her with incorrect views, slandered her, caused everyone to criticize him, and left a deep pain in Xiao Min's heart.

These people who maliciously slander themselves are actually mostly out of jealousy, because they can't surpass you. They hurt you with their words, and get the joy of their hearts for it. When you meet such people, the weaker you are, the more you will be exchanged for their insatiable greed, why not be stronger, prove your innocence, and let the rumors disappear.

If you feel that someone around you is always targeting you, then there is no need to be confused, there is no need to be negative and pessimistic. You're not so good. You're so good that you're jealous.

A person who is not known and will not attract attention when thrown in the crowd, generally not used for good things, but in addition to others will not compete with her. She doesn't have any impact on herself, she doesn't easily take away the scenery, and she doesn't have personal interests to compete with herself.

I think that if a person is too good and is in the limelight everywhere, it is very easy to be envied. At this point you will find that there are always people who will target you, fight against you at every turn, make you stumble, and choose some dark gray ways to run over you. In the TV series "The Sea of Stars", Wen Xin and Jane Eyre are classmates, from small to large, they know each other.

Jane Eyre has always been too good, and it can be said that she has done everything, causing Wen Xin to be dim on the side.

And the boy Wen Xin likes also has a good impression of Jane Eyre, which caused Wen Xin's psychological state of strong jealousy, when the two entered a company, Wen Xin went around embarrassing her and stumbling on him. When the two became competitors, Wen Xin used Jane Eyre to fake her academic qualifications to threaten her to withdraw, and because of her lack of self-confidence, she wanted to win her in this way. Jealousy made Wen Xin completely irrational, and finally did something that hurt and was not selfish, but harmed himself.

Eighty percent of your winning souls are due to jealousy of you, and when he shows his selfishness, you have to be more vigilant and play tricks on the other side to prevent him from winning the lottery.

Become competitive. When your friend suddenly becomes competitive and the facts are compared to you, it is very likely that he is jealous of you. People are born to want to be better than others, and want to make themselves better than others.

That must be the surface of the surface and the back of the other, or push all the good things to you, but he himself doesn't want it.

Jealousy manifests itself as follows:

1) Fault your mistakes.

Jealous people are committed to doubting your level, underestimating your abilities, and weakening your credibility. They will magnify some of the shortcomings in your work, repeatedly highlight them and then define them as a lack of competence, and then completely negate your efforts.

Of course, all this will be disguised as a form of hello, correcting you, and giving you advice. What appears to outsiders as a help to you is actually ruining your reputation.

2) Contempt for normalization.

People who are jealous of you will usually use gossip or jokes to ruin your image, especially the first impression in the eyes of others. This kind of destruction is very scary, the first impression is very important, and it can even be said that it is the basis for others to know and know you. Once qualitative, it's hard to change.

They can ruin your credibility with a few jokes, no big or too small. And this kind of joke is difficult to arouse your vigilance, or fight back.

3) Deliberately engage in some small provocations.

Jealous people usually make you "crazy" through all kinds of small provocations. Once you can't control yourself, you're in a trap. What they want is to label you as "irrational" by showing your madness, so that others will no longer dare to believe you and contact you.

In fact, the vast majority of people who are very jealous are very "cowardly", and they don't dare to engage in direct confrontation head-on, but only dare to make small moves and cooperate with the conspiracy to hurt you.

4) Weaken your success.

The last thing a jealous person wants is that you are better than him, that you gain honor and success. It's going to make them very uncomfortable.

Therefore, they will often advertise your success as luck. And continue to find fault with you, so that you don't have to be proud. In fact, it is a kind of repression. This way of weakening success can hurt one's self-confidence. It's terrible to lose the motivation to make progress.

Jealous people can't see that the people around them are better and happier than themselves, and once they find out, their hearts will also have huge ups and downs. Blame all the displeasure on the head of the other party, and then try to belittle the other party in any way possible. I've seen a little story.

The two boys grew up together since childhood, and it is not an exaggeration to describe them as siblings. The two help each other in life and go hand in hand when it comes to learning, but in the end it is always one who wins and the other who falls behind.

As the saying goes, "The greatest evil in human nature is not to see others better off than oneself." Once you are in the company of such people, they will not really treat you as a friend, but will do their best to belittle you behind them in the name of a friend, and they will be happy when they see you in misfortune.

But if you take care of it, they will never have the courage to admit their actions. For such people, once they find signs of jealousy, there is no need to treat each other sincerely, and to make themselves stronger and stronger is to give them the best counterattack.

The writer Ba Jin once said: "The average treacherous villain will always have the mind of jealousy of the wise." There were some people who were not very satisfied with him, and a lot of rumors were circulated to slander him.

People who love to be jealous basically have no humility, and they can see their own shortcomings from others without a mask, and they can learn more and more ways to make themselves better and better.

On the other hand, once they see someone better than themselves, they will always find all kinds of excuses and reasons to excuse themselves, thinking that the other party is just good luck. People who love to be jealous never put anyone in their eyes, and can only feel that they are incomparable. Nowadays, I am not as good as others, and I usually call it a bad fate, and every incorrect is someone else's, and it has nothing to do with me.

They never recognize other people's mistakes, and can only deny each other's achievements. Attribute the achievements of others to good luck or unfair means, or all kinds of fictional conspiracies are spread around. I've really experienced this kind of person before.

He has a good level and has his own skills, but the only drawback is that he likes to be jealous of others the most. Seeing that some people in the report have achieved very good results in a certain field, his immediate response was: Such an empty shirt and a young man must rely on his relationship to get to the top.

Seeing someone win the first place in the field, he commented disdainfully: he was just a momentary good luck, and the next time it may not be like this. The person next to him has a salary increase, and he privately tells others:

He must have sent something to the leader, otherwise it would not be easy to rise faster than me. "People who love to be jealous never reflect on their own shortcomings, and will always deny the development and achievements of others. Being with such a person, in addition to transmitting a lot of negative energy, will continue to make yourself more and more selfish.

First of all, they will attack or belittle other people's success or beauty, and they look down on other people's success, always put other people's success on some dirty things, and deny the efforts and sweat of others. Then this kind of person will stir up contradictions and strife among others everywhere, no matter who he is with, Yu Jie will quietly attack others with others.

When something good happens to the other party, when the other person is in love, and when other people show off their lives in the circle of friends.

I can't see that you are doing a very good life compared to yourself, and I will want to do hail to belittle you, and I will often slander you behind your back, deny your achievements, and never recognize your excellence.

When you find that you are not as good as others, you will belittle the other party, you can face up to the excellence of others, you will deny the other party's achievements, and you will also sow discord, and you will calculate the other party if you find that you are better off than yourself.