The child has been with his grandmother since he was born, how does this help the child s growth?

There are some families whose economic conditions are not very good, and after giving birth to children, couples have to go out to work, and only in this way can they earn money to support their families. Because the parents are out, the children in the family have to be taken care of by the elders, if the child is born with a grandmother, how does this help the child's growth?

Some parents go out to work when their children are young, and their children can't see each other all year round, although parents can't give their children a hug and a kiss face-to-face, but children will often talk to their parents, and now the development of science and technology is also very fast, parents can also play **** with their children, so parents don't have to worry about their children not seeing their parents for a long time and forgetting their parents. And children and parents can communicate feelings through **, and everyone knows that distance produces beauty.

Some parents and children often live together, and there will inevitably be some conflicts between parents and children, which will lead to this situation, but if the children are taken by grandma, the children will not have too many conflicts with their parents, and it will not affect the relationship between children and parents. At the same time, when the parents are not around, the children can also be independent earlier, cultivate the ability to be independent, and even if they go out to live alone in the future, they will not let their parents worry too much.

Nowadays, many families have only one child, but a child is easy to rely on parents, parents will always condone their children, no matter what kind of unreasonable demands the children make, parents will try their best to meet, but this situation is also very bad, easy to make children become more and more selfish. If the child is born with a grandmother, then the relationship between the grandmother and the child will become deeper and deeper, the child will not rely too much on the parents, and some doting by the parents will not lead the child astray. In fact, there are many such left-behind children in rural areas.

They are brought by their grandparents or grandparents after birth, so that children can integrate into society more quickly when they grow up.

This is definitely helpful for the child's development. You can let the child be closer to his grandmother from an early age, and then he must learn to respect the old and love the young, and the child will be very happy when he is young, grow up freely, there will be no many limitations, there will not be many constraints, and of course there will not be many people to restrain the child.

It can make children grow up in a loving environment, and it can also make children more cheerful. It can also make the child's body stronger, and it can also make the child more respectful and love the young. It can also help children understand the meaning of filial piety.

Grandma with children can make children understand the difficulties of the family, and they are very kind, know how to respect the old and love the young, and can also reduce some unnecessary family conflicts and create a happy family environment for the children.

In our daily life, we often see some children from left-behind families, these children basically spend their childhood with their grandparents or grandparents, in childhood, without the company of their parents, it is indeed a very regrettable thing, but in childhood life, with grandparents or grandparents is indeed a very warm thing. There are many parents who want to take their children back to live with them from their grandparents or grandparents after their children grow up, so what can be done to make their children more accepting of themselves and so that their children will not be rejected by themselves?

When the child is young, the parents accompany themselves is actually a very important thing, because the child's childhood needs the company of both parents, parents are the child's first teacher, there are many reasons are very grandparents and grandparents do not understand, so when the children encounter problems, if the parents are with the child, they can let the child get a good grasp and guidance, and the child is very dependent on himself in childhood, and the parents of the parents are by the child's side, It shows that this child's liquid smile childhood is not very complete, although some children are very sensible and very considerate of their parents, but these children's childhood will inevitably leave some regrets.

If parents want to make up for their children's childhood at this time, then they can take their children from their grandparents or grandparents to their side, and let their children live by their side from now on, so that their children can have more contact with themselves, and ask the elders of the family what children like, so that they can well shorten the distance between themselves and their children. It is true that the child's missing childhood cannot be compensated for by some means, but if parents play a good role in the child's future growth, it is also a good thing for the child.

Every family has a bookDifficult scripturesAt this time, parents must be a last resort, so they leave their children with the elderly, but if parents have the conditions to keep their children by their side, then it is best to let themselves raise their children, because in this way they can let their children have a complete childhood.

I think I can take it back to myself when I grow up, but it mainly depends on the child's own wishes, and I must not force him.

At this time, you must respect the child's wishes, you must take it into the Xianling Tomb step by step, and you must not have conflicts with the child, if the child is not used to the annihilation faction, you can come step by step.

When the child is born, the child's care has always been handed over to the grandmother, which will easily cause the relationship between the child and the parents to become more and more estranged. As a parent, you should be aware that when the child is born, women must try their best to help the grandmother take care of the child together, and do not wait until the child is born to hand over the child directly to the elderly. Although the elderly are very happy when they take care of their children, and they are willing to get along with children, this is not conducive to the growth of children.

Some women will choose to leave their hometown to work in other places, and they can also let their mothers and children go to live with young people, so that the relationship between children and parents can become closer.

For some young people today, after facing the birth of a child, they will directly hand over the child to their grandmother, because they will be more careful with their grandmother. In fact, women's thinking is very incorrect, women should realize that on the issue of raising children, although grandma will have a certain right to speak, it will reduce the conflict with women. But because grandma will also have her own affairs, women can't always tie their mothers around, and can directly consider handing over their children to grandma.

When women realize that the relationship between their children and their parents is becoming more and more estranged, it is important to take their children to the big cities and live with young people in the first place. Although it is very hard to work hard in a big city, the family is happy to be reunited, and no matter how hard it is together, you will feel very happy. As long as young people are willing to work hard and bring both the elderly and children to live together in big cities, the relationship between children and parents will be promoted.

Most of the elderly will choose to return to their hometown to take care of their children when they take care of their children, because considering that their hometown is a place where the elderly live for a long time, they will feel more familiar. Older people are reluctant to be with younger people, because there will be a significant gap between the two generations when they are together with children. Therefore, it indirectly leads to the inability to have both fish and bear's paws, and women must realize that since they have a job, they will spend less time with their children.

This will make the child not close to the parents, because the parents lack care for the child, so the child is not as close to the parents as the grandmother.

If the child is away from his parents for too long, he will not be too close to his parents, so if conditions permit, he still has to accompany his children to grow up.

Yes, because I was carried by my grandmother for a long time, I didn't have time to communicate with my parents at all, so I was prone to indifference.

Mainly because my mother feels very close to my grandparents, and I can say anything, and I am also very free and easy, and I don't know how to handle it, so I like to take it with my grandma.

First of all, it's because of communicating with my mother about parenting, and even if there is a conflict, there will be no overnight feud between the two people, and they are both very able to understand each other.

Because the relationship between my mother and my grandmother is relatively good, they are a mother-daughter relationship, and if they have any dissatisfaction, they can communicate very well what they want to say.

In fact, we all know that if you leave your child to the care of the elderly, in most cases, your baby will be dressed up by the older generation. In fact, when a child follows his mother, he must be a fashionable hipster, but when he meets his grandparents or grandparents, the child immediately changes as a person, back and forth, just like two people. Now, the annual sail rental light people live under great pressure.

After getting married, they not only have to pay off the mortgage and car loan, but also consider the expenses of the family and ensure the quality of life of the baby. In most families, although men go out to earn money, sometimes the father's salary does not meet the needs of the family, so some mothers go out to work to help the father relieve some of the pressure. At this time, the baby at home needs to be taken care of by the elderly.

But at this time, a problem arises, because the aesthetics of the elderly are different from those of the elderly. Some mothers are worried that the elderly will dress up their babies very dirty. It is not appropriate to give direct opinions on the educational methods or concepts of the elderly, especially in front of children, but it is important for parents to have a consistent educational attitude.

So parents and grandparents can discuss the knowledge of family education behind their children's backs.

Through conversation, we will find that the idea of the old man is also for the good of the child, but it is not suitable in practice. Family members can work together to develop a scientific approach that works. When giving advice to juniors, be sure to listen and talk at the same time.

Not only reasonable, but also pay attention to the way you speak and respect the mentality of the elderly. Conversations are just a run-in of educational concepts, and there may be differences in perceptions and behaviors in specific situations.

Making concepts truly a guide to action requires a step-by-step process. In this case, parents should not be angry directly at the elderly and children, but should actively find ways to turn the situation around. At the same time, let the elderly understand that parents are the first responsible for educating their children.

If, during dinner, the child suddenly asks for fried chicken thighs for takeout, and the grandmother wants to buy it, the parent will tell the child that what he wants to eat should be prepared before dinner. Now he has to eat the food on the table, and tomorrow he can go buy fried chicken thighs.

It is because the child's concept and living habits have changed, and they are not able to adapt well to the current life environment, and they have become more restrained.

Maybe it's because grandma taught her children bad thoughts. For example, the mother is bad. At this time, children will always follow the old man to learn.

The main reason is that everyone's way of raising a baby is different, so it will have a different impact on the child.

For many mothers, having a child is really the beginning of family conflicts. The mother-in-law and daughter-in-law had more disagreements, disputes, and discord over the issue of their children. This is why more and more grandmothers are starting to help take care of their children, and the reason behind it is really only understood by those who have come over.

Xiaoyun's husband has two brothers, and there is a younger brother below, and the younger brother has already given birth to two children, both of whom were brought to school with the help of her in-laws. And Xiaoyun is an only daughter, and both families live in after marriage, but since she has a child, Xiaoyun has become more and more reluctant to live in her mother-in-law's house!

Originally, when the child was not born, the mother-in-law said that she would help Xiaoyun take care of the child, but the child changed her mouth after she was born, and she didn't want to bring it, saying that the two children with the younger son were too much and annoying, and they didn't want to take it! Originally, Xiaoyun wanted to resign and bring it herself, but Xiaoyun's parents persuaded Xiaoyun that her job was so good and her salary was high, so it was really not good to give up her career like this. And her husband's economy is not good in all aspects, for the sake of the child's future life, her parents do not recommend Xiaoyun to give up her job.

So, Xiaoyun simply stayed at her mother's house for a long time and asked her mother to help bring it.

Although, there are still many mothers in life who let their grandmothers take their children, it is also because of Xiaoyun's mother-in-law's reluctance to take them. In fact, more mothers-in-law are willing to take their children, but Bao's mother chose to let her grandmother take them, and the reason is none other than the following:

As we all know, the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is a problem of the century, and the two have their own living habits and concepts. In order to avoid conflicts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, there are many grandmothers who ask them to help take care of the children.

In addition, there is a big difference between grandma and grandmother in the starting point of raising children: many grandmothers take children, although they also love their grandchildren, but because they feel sorry for their sons too hard, they want their daughters-in-law to go out to make money quickly and help reduce the burden on the family. However, the grandmother and the child are in love with the house, which is the continuation of the mother's love for her daughter, and the mother feels sorry for her daughter and chooses to help.

There is an obvious difference between grandma and grandma with children: although they both love children, grandma has a nature of wanting to be close to children all the time. Grandma often tells the child when she takes the child, "Your mother loves you very much, and your mother will come to hold the baby after work", but grandma never says; Grandma often teaches children to call mother, and grandmother prefers to teach children to call father and grandma.

Whether it is grandma helping to take care of the children, or grandma helping to take care of the children, in fact, they are not obliged to help bring them, therefore, everyone should be grateful to the elders who help take care of the children, and if there are differences and opinions, you can communicate well, don't dislike them too much. At the same time, I would like to ask everyone: who do you think is more suitable for children grandma or grandma?

Who are you helping to bring the children?