As an adult who is about to enter society, what social knowledge must you master?

1.Don't go to a chance dinner, no matter how others invite you.

Since it is a chance encounter, it means that others have not thought of having dinner with you, but out of politeness, they will symbolically invite you, and if you take it seriously, it will often end up embarrassingly ending in your interpersonal relationship.

It will also be hugely affected.

The wine table suddenly became cold, which means that you must have said the wrong thing, and the person who called everyone to drink is actually trying to use wine to block everyone's mouths, and by the way, divert attention and prevent you from being attacked by the group.

3.Don't expose a person's lies easily, or you will be subjected to insane retaliation.

People who love to lie are generally very narrow-minded and have a very good face, so they will lie, if you expose his lies in front of others and make him embarrassed, he will definitely try his best to retaliate against you in private.

4.When there are many people, you must be cautious when speaking.

We can never know what the other person is thinking, if you are complaining and gossiping about a certain star, and this star happens to be liked by the other party, then there will definitely be a crack in the relationship between the two of you.

If you keep scolding your leader when there are many people, maybe the person in front of you who listens to your complaints is a relative of the leader you scold.

5.Learn to say no, the good guy is actually not so popular.

The more good people help, the greater the probability of mistakes, if one day you don't want to help, others have long taken your help for granted, and in turn will scold you and snub you, in this society, don't be a good person, the end is often not too good.

6.Don't borrow money from friends lightly.

Don't borrow money from friends easily, otherwise your friends will not be able to urge you to repay the money, and you will not be able to repay it too late, once this scale is not grasped well, your relationship will be greatly affected.

7.When others show you yourself, don't slide left and right.

When you take your phone to look at others, you must take care of your hands, don't slide left and right, others may just want to show you this one**, other places** are particularly private, if you accidentally slide, you are embarrassed, if you see something terrible, you will be hated.

8.If a friend asks you to pick a place or order food, you must be cautious, and it is best to ask him to recommend it.

You don't know what your friend likes to eat, how much he wants to eat this time, if he is only going to invite you to eat some porridge, but you order seafood, it is estimated that you and your friend will not have the opportunity to meet again in the future, let him recommend it, is the most respectful way to respect him.

When you ask someone to eat, be sure to arrive at least 30 minutes early to deal with possible emergencies, and don't go to a temporary dinner, no matter how invited by others.

There are some social common sense that must be mastered, first of all, we should not easily believe the words of others in the workplace, and do not show wealth, and in the process of getting along with others, we should respect the opinions of others.

There are some social common sense that must be learned, and there are some social common sense that must be mastered, first of all, in ordinary life, you must strengthen your exercise in all aspects, and do not disclose your personal information to others at will, and in the process of getting along with others, do not say some bad things.

I think adults should read and not be too self-centered, and be tactful.

You have to be a low-key person, do things in a high-profile manner, don't make people feel that they are very good at talking, and leave everything to you, but you must be serious in everything you do, do it well, and a good work attitude will make the boss slowly notice you.