Now that people s living standards have improved, why is the pressure increasing?

The improvement of living standards is related to people's pressure, and the improvement of living standards has accelerated the pace of people's lives. Think about how many house slaves and car slaves there are in our society today, and life will be stressful. There is a saying that with great power comes great responsibility.

The higher your salary, the more difficult the job you need to undertake. In the eyes of many grassroots employees, his leaders do not work every day, and it is enough to drink tea. In fact, a lot of his leader's work is in his head, not in the computer, so he doesn't need to work 8 hours a day at the desk, and most of the things are thinking in his head.

In the past, there was a school package assigned to the unit, and after entering, it was basically retired. Unless you want to go to the sea to do business, if you don't take the initiative to resign, the company will generally not fire employees. But now this mechanism is gone.

It is common for employees to change jobs, and companies are also hollowing out their minds to lay off employees at zero cost. Affected by the epidemic this time, many companies have asked employees to accept waiting for work or salary cuts, and proposed: "If you are willing to do it, do it together; If you don't want to, you're welcome to leave."

The work of the management is definitely not blessed by the commuting time, so to speak, the working hours of the manager are 24 hours, but as long as his leader makes a communication matter, no matter what time it is, he will continue to work. But for grassroots employees, it is different, the leader calls you in the middle of the night, and you can choose not to pick it up. The leader asked the next day.

It can also be said that I have slept or other reasons, and it will not be too much of a problem. So you see, you don't have a lot of responsibility, and your leadership often has a lot of responsibilities to juggle.

Life is better now because the material level is indeed higher than before. The increased stress is due to the greater difficulty of interpersonal communication and the lack of motivation to obtain emotional support; Factors such as job opportunities and declining income stability are linked. There is an idiom called the rising tide lifts all boats, the higher your income, the higher your expenses will be, because you will try to buy the consumption that you once did not dare to buy after you raise your salary, which is also a very easy reason to go from thrift to luxury.

It's like a person who is extremely hungry and suddenly has a big meal in front of him, and he will inevitably eat and drink like crazy, and at this time he obviously doesn't care about how to eat healthier. The truth is pretty much the same, but I still want to advise everyone that there must be a degree in everything, otherwise too much pressure will not be good for people.

Why the pressure is increasing.

Personally, I think the reason why this situation occurs is because people nowadays are generally more materialistic, and the pace of society is relatively fast, so the pressure is getting more and more.

Because the level has improved, life has become better, the quality of life has also improved, and the current prices are also ** day by day, but the salary is still the same as before, so the pressure will be more and more.

In fact, people are a very simple thing, everything does not have to be so complicated, encounter any difficulties or troubles, face it with your ordinary heart, whether it is society or people, in fact, society is nothing, it is with people, society exists. Therefore, the improvement of living standards is created by people, and of course the ideological pressure falls on people's heads.

1.Nowadays, the greatest pressure in life comes from the fragility of the heart.

2.Family stress. Every family has a scripture that is difficult to read, and their own scripture is understood by themselves.

3.There are old and young, and there are wives (husbands), there are always things that can't be taken care of, and over time there are some complaints. It's just that it's inconvenient to speak out because of the situation, so the pressure on the family is great.

4.Career pressures. The older generation has a saying that they are thirty years old, but the reality is cruel, and not all of them are as people wish.

5.Wealthy entrepreneurs also fail, and low-level entrepreneurs also have thriving careers. There are those who have stable jobs and incomes, and there are those who run around all day but have few children left. responded to the sentence "Friends and clever people don't have the same fate". So the pressure of the career is miserable.

6.The stress of marriage. When you reach the marriageable age, you are not in a hurry, and your family will be anxious for you.

7.Seeing that there are naked marriages and divorces around me, and some who are about to get married and divorce quickly, I really hit the saying of "three years of pain, seven years of itching", and even some received another certificate in less than two years, and some have been ten years long, and still waved away. Over time, it became commonplace, creating a contrast.

deduced the fear of marriage, the unmarried family, and the runaway family. So the pressure of marriage is difficult.

8.Mental stress. As you tell you, the three views of life are different.

9.Those who are too strong in their desires, pursue fame and fortune, are consumed by power and interests, and cannot extricate themselves, so that their hearts are empty. And some will think that it is the so-called motivation. As everyone knows, if you want to hurry, you can't reach it, and you can't get into a hurry.

There are many reasons that can lead to stress, and here are some of the common ones:

1.Work stress: High demands at work, heavy tasks, tight deadlines, etc., can all contribute to increased stress.

2.Academic pressure: Students may feel a lot of pressure when facing study pressure, exam pressure, homework pressure, etc.

3.Interpersonal relationships: Conflicts, stresses, and conflicts with others can also be stressful, such as relationship problems with colleagues, bosses, family or friends.

4.Economic stress: Financial difficulties, debt, unemployment, or economic instability can all be extremely stressful.

5.Family problems: Conflicts within the family, loss of loved ones, marital troubles, etc., can be stressful.

6.Health problems: Physical health problems such as illness, chronic diseases, pain, insomnia, etc., can also increase people's stress.

7.Time management: Difficult work schedules, inefficient judging, tight schedules, etc., can also lead to increased stress.

8.Excessive self-demanding: Internal factors such as high expectations of oneself and perfectionist tendencies can also lead to stress.

9.Environmental stress: Environmental factors such as noise, orange congestion, pollution, traffic jams and more can also cause stress.

These are just some of the common causes, and the real causes of stress vary from person to person. When people are unable to deal with these pressures effectively, they can become even more forceful.

1. Expectations for oneself or work or life or the country are too high, and once they cannot be satisfied, they will feel resentful, unbalanced, and have the urge to recover or destroy. It's either that you can't get along with others, or you can't get along with yourself.

2. The pace of social life is too fast now, in the busy journey, few people can stop and look back and think, few people can sit down and read a book, think about what the goal and reason were for the original departure, most people have deviated from the starting point and trajectory and do not know it.

3. Nowadays, the society is extremely rich in materials, which leads to people's dazzle, pursuit of many and chaotic, which affects people's inner spiritual needs.

4. The interference and influence from the objective or external are too obvious, and people are all focused on promoting, dividing houses, buying houses, promoting professional titles, children learning this specialty, going to this famous school, etc., the whole person is always in a state of anxiety, and many people have menopausal symptoms early.

Therefore, now psychologists and Chinese medicine advocate learning to reduce stress, look at your favorite books is best to rest and recuperate, listen to the soothing light **, three or five confidants often chat, often go out for a walk, in short, do something you like as much as possible, and divert your attention from the persistent pursuit of work and life, Tagore said: "The wings of a bird are tied to ** and can no longer fly", similarly, tied to garbage can not fly, I wish everyone a light heart!

Because the pace is getting faster and faster, the growth of individuals cannot match the development of society.

The causes of stressful life can be boiled down to the following:

1.Financial burden: High housing prices, high tuition fees, high medical costs, etc., make many people feel financial pressure. Not only do you have to deal with daily expenses, but you also have to face the constant cost of living, which makes many people feel stressed.

2.Work pressure: Jobs are highly competitive, work intensively, and overtime and compressed rest time become the norm. At the same time, many people in Big Bend are facing career development difficulties and are worried about being optimized or replaced, which increases the pressure on work.

3.Educational pressures: The education system puts students and parents under heavy pressures, including test-taking education, the pressure to go on to higher education, and anxiety about future job competition. Entrance exams and academic performance requirements make the pressure of many students to stay high.

4.Social Relationship Pressure: Interpersonal relationships, family pressures, and social expectations in society can also put pressure on the masses. Whether it's competition and cooperation at work, or role expectations and responsibilities at home, it can lead to people feeling stressed.

For the case of a monthly salary of 3,000, if you can enjoy two days off, no overtime, no mortgage pressure, and no need to worry about being optimized due to age, these factors can reduce some of the pressure on individuals in terms of economy and work. Therefore, for some people, a monthly salary of three thousand may no longer make them feel stressed.

However, everyone's expectations and attitudes towards salary are different, and a monthly salary of 3,000 may still not meet the needs and pursuits of some people. Therefore, even if no other pressure exists, some people may still have an attitude of dissatisfaction or dislike for the monthly salary of 3,000.