The girl I like says that when I get drunk, I remember how to comfort me?

Wait for her to wake up and then comfort her, persuade her not to get drunk in the future, women will bring a lot of trouble when they are drunk, and it is especially bad for the body.

You comfort him and say don't think so much, the past was so good, it will pass, we are living well now, forget the past!

Let her forget the past and face the future.

Interesting, are you her cousin? Please don't get me wrong, I won't say that you sisters and brothers are in love What I want to say is that if he thinks of his ex-girlfriend from time to time in the future and is in a bad mood, how will you get along? ? It's not something that you comfort him once and it works, and you, as a cousin, should remind him not to be nostalgic for the unhappy things in the past, instead of comforting him, you know?

I don't think you want to see what is said below, but I still have to say, you are so heartbroken now, do you still need happiness in this life? Everyone has the right to happiness.

The boy found the woman he loved and was happy.

Girls are blessed to find men who love themselves.

Are you sure you'll get your cousin's love? Why is he in a bad mood, it shows that he is still in love with his ex-girlfriend when he is with you Even hate is a kind of love

I don't think you're very old Don't do things that you regret Thinking about what you want, what your cousin wants. There can be no happiness in forced love

Think about it, love and be loved what you need is like that There are very few people who get these two things at the same time I wish you happiness!

Boy, sometimes the more comforted, the more unhappy he becomes.

Let him be quiet.

The next day was much better.

Or, ride your bike to a quieter place and listen. Not bad

It's not a big deal to laugh.

Be brave enough to tell him: In fact, there has always been someone around you who likes you! Maybe you can find your own spring for each other.

In fact, you have given her a chance to find happiness again.

When you are in a bad mood, you should always be by his side to support him, encourage him, talk to him more about happy things, spend more time with him, and let him forget the unpleasantness.

Silently support him by his side, you don't have to do anything, your support is the greatest help to him.

Be next to him and meditate with him. Let him get used to the days of not having an ex-girlfriend but having you.

The past is like the wind. The past is gone ...

Take him out for a walk.

After falling out of love, you always have to go through such a period of time, and time is the best medicine for emotional wounds.

On the contrary, it is you, you have to adjust your mentality.

When you don't want to talk, don't look for him.

Change the subject. Find individual things that attract attention.

Wipe away your tears and don't ask why. Hold him tight.

True love is not expressed in words, it comes from the heart, when you fall in love with someone, your whole heart will be attracted by the person you love, fascinated by him (her), concerned for him (her), I hope you can see him (her) every minute, when you can't see him, you will always think of him (her), when you see you will be excited, your heart will beat faster, when you are together, you will feel very warm and safe, and he (her) will be in love, you will look forward to using all your love to bring him (her) the greatest happiness, And you get another kind of happiness in the process! I often think of him (her) and am happy, I mind him (her) very much, I care about him (her) very much, and I have happiness with him (her).

Believe in yourself As long as there is love, happiness will definitely exist

Gone is the past, memories are memories, look forward.

It's simple, endure the pain, choose to forgive and forget.

Is there anything in this world that can't be forgotten? In my opinion, there is nothing that cannot be forgotten, only that you don't want to forget.

At that time, we once thought that those things that made us miserable, looking for death and life, and couldn't get by, would one day pass. The wound that used to bleed will slowly scab over and heal.

A lot of people and things are thrown into the long river of time, washed repeatedly, and slowly become blurred. The things that once made us die or live are slowly becoming unimportant. It boils down to a word: we slowly look at it and think about it.

When something that we can't forget comes back, swarming and washing over the embankment of our hearts, our hearts will also hurt, and we will also have mood swings and even violent reactions.

But man is an emotional animal on the one hand, and a rational animal on the other.

We will all find some ways to comfort ourselves and self-desolate in order to achieve psychological balance and liberation.

For example, we have done harm to others, and deep down we have always harbored deep self-blame and regret. We must find ways to try to remedy it, reduce the pain of the other party, and make up for the loss of the other party. If something really can't be made up for and the other party doesn't forgive, then you can only do your best to comfort yourself psychologically.

Otherwise, you will be burdened with a heavy load, and your heart will definitely be tormented deeply.

For example, others have hurt us, because no one is immune to harm in this complex and ever-changing world. If the other person is sincere enough, we will also make ourselves more tolerant and accept the apology of others. Although, yesterday's wounds are still there, and the wounds have just healed.

Once revealed, it will still be heart-wrenching, but we can't let others carry too much pain.

In the world, the greatest tolerance is forgiveness.

We have been tormented by people and things that we can't forget, and our hearts have been tormented and painful, and we can empathize with the feelings and pain of others. When you know others, you know yourself.

Therefore, leave those things that can't be passed to time, time will slowly wear everything away, and time will slowly smooth out the pain we once had. To have a forgiving heart is to be kind to others.

Alas, in fact, I think that although memories are beautiful, but always recalling the past, you can't always say that you spent all your thoughts on the past, so people should look forward, and the most important thing is that we should live in the present, and have a far-sighted vision.

You should say that memories are indeed beautiful, but even if you don't turn back the clock, it will be just as good in the future.

Don't finish chatting with girls all at once, leave some topic introduction, so that it is convenient for the next chat.

First of all, don't be too rigid, try to show your strengths, of course, don't be too exaggerated, or even pretend that girls hate pretending to be boys the most, and then start with small details, girls like boys who take care of everything, of course, if you just want to chat, first of all, dirty words can't appear, be polite, don't say anything, I'll play the game first, and then talk about it after the game, make the girl very uncomfortable, and then you yourself think about the character of the girl you like, good luck.

Learn more about each other, what she likes, what her hobbies are, I believe that as long as you are attentive, there will be a common topic, the pursuit of girls is a science, only if you study hard, in order to get the other party's favor, I believe that if you work hard, you will definitely get the favor of the other party, I wish you well.

Of course, it's to act like she likes it, and do what she likes, but remember not to chase after it, and you still have to have a degree to chat with someone, and it will be annoying if you exceed this degree.

If you like her, then you must understand her preferences, chat, you must do what she likes, talk about some things she likes, or the dramas she has been chasing recently, and the games she likes to play.

It's a long story, it varies from person to person and fits the situation at the time! Cast it to its liking in general! After getting along for a while, you know more or less what she likes.

You can talk about some topics of common interest, such as hearing that the Hong Kong-Zhuhai-Macao Bridge has been opened to traffic, etc.! Don't rush to ask me how you feel like me or not, when you have been dating for a while, if you are still willing to date, that is not the same as telling you the answer!

I think so. Think about it from a girl's point of view, pay attention to what he likes when you speak, mention his interests a lot, and tell him a lot about you, show your strengths, and spoil her a lot.

Observe what she likes, just say whatever she likes, and she will be happy.

Care more about each other, say humorous and funny things, and let the other party slowly like you and fall in love with you.

It's just a matter of saying it simply, and it's up to you to understand it. Pay attention to the girl's temperament, personality, interests, hobbies, and people with different personalities talk and chat in a different way. Don't talk nonsense, pay attention to your demeanor, and have connotation.

Communicating in a humorous and witty way can reduce awkwardness. Learn to be considerate and caring for others.

Just chat normally, show your truest and most sunny side, there will always be women who will like you, why be careful for a woman?

Chatting with someone you like is the happiest thing! But the premise is that she must have a crush on you, at least not averse! To follow her wishes, the two of them will be speculative! will resonate!

Understand the girl's points of interest, light-hearted and humorous topics to relax with each other, and approach you naturally....

How do you have to chat with a girl to get her love?

When you invite her to dinner or when you chat, you ask; How's it going? What's your favorite meal? Have you seen this movie? There is time to go out to the movies together. Have you ever been to this city?

You'd better talk to her in a problematic way. Proactive questions make the chat longer and longer.

Don't force a girl to enter a relationship quickly, otherwise she will be screwed up and you will be tired in the next relationship. First of all, we analyze what you said about you giving a lot to your girlfriend, but not asking for anything in return. Let's put it this way, there is never love without a reason in this world, and there is no unrequited giving, which includes all feelings, including the affection of parents and children.

You feel that you have given a lot and sacrificed a lot, and it may just be your self-righteousness, self-touching. Your wishful thinking is not what she needs at all, so do you understand that you are doing a moral kidnapping of her feelings? Let's analyze what she said, you only love yourself.

Feelings are like a person who knows the warmth and coldness of drinking water, and she, as the person who feels your love, knows the weight and extent of it better than you, the giver. She just said what she really felt inside.

Respect the girl's ideas and continue to contact and associate with her. Love her with all your heart until she approves of it.

Then take it slowly, when ordinary friends contact for a period of time, usually make an appointment to have a meal, and watch a movie is very ordinary. And at this stage, you can't force a girl to admit that you're a boyfriend, right? Don't rush and take your time!

The girl has gone through a failed relationship, she is now in need of care to get out of the shadows, as long as you love her, don't rush for a while, love her well, trust her and tolerate her, she will definitely fall in love with you, by then it will be a matter of course, the heart understands that you love her, do you still need to reply?

You have to take your time to make friends, and you can't be in a hurry, and the girl has fallen out of love once, and she probably hasn't come out of the last relationship. So boy, you have to have enough heart, and you have to use your actions to move her. Someday she'll be ready to impress you.

will throw into your arms. Isn't that what you want? Believe in yourself.

I think time can dilute everything, it's not okay to be in a hurry, you have to wait for a long time, when you're in a good mood, everything can be solved, maybe I'll promise you soon.

This situation can't be rushed, if you really like her, it doesn't matter if you suggest replying, be friends first, as long as you have the opportunity, usually be nice to her, often care more about it, and if she likes you for a long time, she will naturally have a chance.

In this case, I think it's better for you to attack strongly! Let's cook raw rice and cook it directly, or go directly to her parents, and then settle the marriage as soon as possible! Although a little rude! But I think the average girl will still like it!

Since the girl said that she didn't want to start the next relationship, it means that the girl hasn't come out of the previous relationship yet. You want to determine the relationship, and the girl is very clear about what she says. If you really care about her, you can only wait.

If you like her, treat her with sincerity, give her some time to think about it, and then use actions to prove that you like her, I think she will accept your feelings for her.

She may be tactfully rejecting you, or the relationship really hasn't come out. You can, first, carefully analyze whether your relationship is stable. The second is to give her time to repair her heart. The third is to stop in time and stop pestering her. I wish you all the best in your cultivation.

The girl has already said that she is not ready to accept the next relationship, and you can no longer force her, the only thing you have to do is wait, if you really love her, then you should reply to her that since you are not ready to accept me now, then it's okay I can wait for you, and wait for you to be ready.

Can't be in a hurry, accompany the girl through the saddest time, take good care of her, and wait for the girl to heal, so that she can slowly accept the new feelings, this matter can't be in a hurry, remember. Remember, be patient with your girlfriend!

If LZ is interested, tell me what she looks like, and maybe you still have a chance.

Why did you refuse? How do you want to be comforted?