I decided to get married with my boyfriend, but I always quarreled

Although you have been dating for a while, it is not that the time is enough to promote marriage, according to what you say and your own considerations, it is obvious that you are not running in enough, take it easy, don't have to implement it because you are engaged, you must really get along, otherwise how will the days go on like this, in fact, you think like this, it proves that you are a responsible person, this marriage event can not be casual, if you can, talk to him about this problem, I think when he is as aware of this problem as you, he will not be blind, I believe he will also face this problem well, although you do not know the inside story of others, but the combination of men and women is very particular, for example, your age gap may lead to your outlook on life, values are different, especially the views and views on things are also different, or your growth environment and experience are different will also lead to future living habits, thinking and thinking things are also different,, These are not easy for you to find and blend with each other when you are in love, you say that he will let you, it's not that you can't, he must have been letting you when you first fell in love, listen to you, it's not necessarily now, hehe, have you ever heard a sentence: "The standard for the best combination of men and women in this era is complementary." "To use an analogy

If you are lazy, but your husband is very diligent, then you may be very harmonious. If you don't have an opinion, but your husband can usually give you ideas, so that you don't usually get into trouble because of disagreements; If you have a bad temper, but your husband has a very gentle temperament, so that you don't usually quarrel,,, a lot of quarrels come from the trivial aspects of ordinary life,,, in short, you must face this problem together, everyone is not a child, right? It may be difficult for you all to do it, especially when you think of these wedding receptions, officiants, weddings, etc., but please weigh it, which is important? Besides,It's not that there's no way,,You know,There are always more ways than problems,,It's okay to postpone the wedding.,As long as all the matters are in place.,Try to be reasonable and unreasonable.。。。

For your happiness,For you to be happier,,, there's still time until May next year,,Come on,,My girlfriend and I have always wanted to get married.,But I have to go back to Tibet for four years.,,No matter what,,Come on.。。

Think about your future and see if you can tolerate each other.

To break up. Because such a boyfriend has no sense of responsibility and doesn't know how to pity the fragrance and cherish the jade, he wants to break up with him.

Break up because your boyfriend doesn't like you at all, he's just dragging your time, and he has no plans to get married.

Yes, he should not want to marry you, so he will quarrel with you when you propose to marry, thus diverting your attention.

Hello Duck. 1.Because of the bride price and other marriage matters, they quarreled.

Marriage should be a very happy and beautiful thing, and the partner we hold together for life is also the closest family member we personally choose. Talking about marriage and marrying these matters is the etiquette for the man to marry the woman, but the bride price in some places is indeed too high.

2. In the process of preparing for marriage, the boyfriend should be the shopkeeper.

In fact, among these rituals, the boys are the most careless, such as my boy. Men and women are really two extremely opposite species, one is delicate and the other is a careless ghost. Just because he doesn't care about that doesn't mean he doesn't love you.

He is just not sensitive enough to these, and if two people can go to talk about marriage, it means that you think he loves you. It's just that each has its own strengths, of course, the boys who read this article also hope that you can reflect on it, and pay more attention to these little things, and for girls, the wedding and romance we look forward to, we can concentrate on doing our own thing.

3.Time is tight to prepare for marriage. There is a saying in our hometown"Dress up your daughter to get married, and when the time comes, you will be all together"What does it mean, there is no so-called preparation is complete enough, because the needs of marriage are very trivial, and on the day of the wedding, it is complete smoothly and smoothly.

Of course, if you are still getting married, you can prepare slowly half a year in advance, or 3 months in advance; If you're pressed for time, don't panic, make a list of your home's custom necessities, as well as your favorite items, and you can buy them online.

Finally, marriage is a major event in our lives, and it is also the stage when we are about to enter another stage of life. The quality of marriage needs to be managed, put a good attitude, and enjoy the process of preparing for marriage. Every girl is the most beautiful elf.

It's not easy to make, thank you.

Hello subject, in modern times, more and more people will be more cautious about marriage, and more of these women will also be hesitant in front of marriage, is the boyfriend who once loved each other really suitable for long-term relationship? Will you be able to adjust to your new family ...... after you get married?

In the above description, the subject mentions more about the man's family luck and the various manifestations of the person, or the reason why you will quarrel, I think it is more that your boyfriend's reaction at that time did not meet your expectations or was lower.

In your new family, your boyfriend, who is your future husband, is your only connection to your new home, but if your future husband is completely on the side of his own family and can't take you into account, it will make you feel very insecure.

In many cases, the man said to his wife: I hope to be filial to my parents together!

But for the woman, of course, she hopes to get along well, but some of the two generations have some ideas and concepts that are inevitably different, but whether it is to let the older generation change their concepts, or the newer generation to retreat, at these times it will be more necessary to make a difference as a son and husband, rather than simply favoritism, which will exacerbate the contradictions between the two sides.

Therefore, if you feel that you may not get along well with the man's family, see if the man can balance the relationship between his family and his wife, and on the other hand, see whether you are sure that you can handle the relationship well.

Personal opinion, just look at it

Wish you well!

Looking at your description, it seems that you are very contradictory, on the one hand, I think that the prospective mother-in-law Shouxiang is not bad to you, and the bride price is not married, saying that the sister-in-law is not good to hide, which means that your second daughter-in-law is okay; On the other hand, you feel that your mother-in-law is strong (guess if she is not married so she is tough), one in front of you and one behind the other, and you feel that your sister-in-law is also very cold to you. Interestingly, the title is about arguing with your boyfriend, but the statement only talks about your mother-in-law and sister-in-law.

After reading the description, I feel that everything is your subjective conscious judgment, you haven't had this problem with your boyfriend, and you feel that he doesn't understand you when you quarrel with him. Think about it, he doesn't know what you're thinking, how can he talk to you? Also, your mother is afraid that you won't have a good life when you get married, is this based on your words after talking to her about these feelings, or is it just out of mother's anxiety that you didn't communicate with her?

To sum up, the subject should be anxious before marriage. The wedding date is getting closer and closer, and I am restless, full of doubts and uncertainties about the future, and I feel that everything is out of control. At the same time, there is also a fear of losing the right to speak in the economy.

Don't hide these feelings in your heart, talk openly and honestly with him who is about to become your life partner, hide not only your troubles, but also bring confusion to those close to you, boldly seek resonance, come on (