Am I delusional, or did she really wait for me for five years?

Updated on society 2024-07-21
25 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    I suggest that if you like her too, talk to her thoroughly, don't take the initiative to ask her if she is waiting for you, girls are very shy and reserved, first say your own thoughts, see what she has and what she means.

    And tell her frankly that you made up that you have a girlfriend.

    Nowadays, girls are still much kinder, and they don't all pay attention to money, house, work, or feelings first.

    My girlfriend is a very kind, very simple person, I don't have a house, I don't have a car

    Finally, you should figure out your mind now, and if you are not interested, don't go to her, because you are indeed still immature. If you're sure you like her, then be brave and confess, age isn't a problem!

    If you want to treat others well, you don't just use what you say, you have to do it, take out your courage to chase her, even if she finally refused, you don't regret it, at least you have worked hard!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Ask him directly...

    If you have feelings for him too.

    Go to him. Officially.

    That's good.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Maybe she liked you in the first place, and she had a hard time outside after going abroad, you said that you were a child at the time, she was only 25, many people are in their 30s, but the mood is still in their 20s, she is afraid that you will feel that she is a few years older than you and will not accept her.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    I don't know if you do this often, or just this time. If this is often the case, it is recommended that you go to a regular hospital for a check-up, and it is still beneficial to ** early.

    Clinical presentation. 1.The main obstacle is the lack of basic trust in people, which is characterized by the use of "negative effect" and "extrapolation" to deal with their psychological difficulties and paranoia.

    This leads to a systematic delusional construction. [1]2.Sensitive, more selfish, suspicious and vindictive for self-pleasure.

    3.Usually the problem is that you can't see the boundaries of yourself and can't distinguish between yourself and others. 4.

    There are many delusional patients who do have some secrets in their hearts that they personally think are unspeakable, and they are very guilty and afraid that people will know. 5.Lack of ability to recognize one's own motivations and attitudes.

    6.Lack of trust in others, always reporting the idea that "others are always vicious enemies", and the impulse to attack from the inside, so the relationship with others is not good. 7.

    Some patients develop the disease due to special circumstances, such as being in a different place. 8.In addition to personal factors, delusional content is also affected by social and cultural factors.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Don't do bad things, don't be afraid of ghosts knocking on the door.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Thinking too much about watching too much TV.

    Easy to connect with life.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    1. Remind you not to forget the pain after the scar is good, and don't make past mistakes.

    2. Remind you to be an upright person and not be like that friend.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Good things come and some things pass.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Zhou Gong interprets dreams:

    Dreaming of your menstruation is a good sign that it is a sign of the beginning of a new life.

    The patient dreams that he is menstruating, and the body will soon be **.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I dreamed that menstruation came, and it didn't take two minutes for a while, and it was dark, and after a few minutes, there was a lot of menstruation.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Harbinger of maturity! You've grown up!

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Hello, you should buy a pack of sanitary napkins to solve.

  13. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I don't know, it's a coincidence, I have dreams of everything.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Sometimes people are like this, maybe you have something sad in your heart that you haven't vented.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Dreams are only affected by life, so for people who are troubled by dreams, I recommend walking before going to bed to relax your nerves.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Thinking about it day and dreaming at night. You don't have that much burden on your mind, it's normal to dream less, you don't have to worry so much.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    It's that you can't remember what you're dreaming, and you can't say you don't dream.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    It is a kind of spiritual sustenance for temporary loneliness. Some people, when they are lonely, have no one to talk to, and they will fantasize about a person with whom they have a great relationship, and who will talk about everything and thoughts. I think it's normal for you to do this, because you don't think about talking to the person you fantasize about when you're more successful in your real life interactions.

    However, this kind of behavior is better when you are alone, otherwise others who don't understand will mistakenly think that you have any symptoms. Communicate more with real people, so that you will not be lonely, and you can also find the people you fantasize about when you are bored.

    I wish you a happy day.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Fantasy is normal Everyone has dreams in their hearts But action is more important If you have been for a long time, just find a psychological counselor to solve your doubts You can find me, I have an address in my personal center information.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Autism precursors....The more friends there are, the easier way to go...That's all there is to say.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    This has something to do with the environment in which you grew up, for example, when you were very young, you often came into contact with girls, at that time, you didn't know that there was a difference between men and women, after a long time, you loved to do some girl's things, and you were not used to the life of a boy, and now that you have grown up and come into contact with society, you may not be so convenient to contact girls when you were a child, so you have a wish, always want to do some girl's things, and always fantasize that you are a beautiful girl.

    In the same way, there are girls who are often in the same league as boys, and there are characteristics that are in the same way as boys, and we will call these girls "tomboys".

    Now you don't have to be too nervous, it doesn't matter, you have to participate in men's activities in the future and turn yourself into a real man.

    Li Yugang knows it, he is also this kind of person, isn't he also successful in his career.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Because in the past, some people may say that you are like a girl, and get your psychological acquiescence, or envy the life of a girl, thinking that it would be good if you were a girl, these views will have a subtle impact on you over time, causing you to have a thought.

    It is necessary to recognize the facts and be a real man.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Dude is single, right?,Miss a girlfriend.,Is the girl you like to imagine?。

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    For psychological problems, it is advisable to see a psychiatrist.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Well, under what circumstances?

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