Try to control yourself from thinking about him

Actually, you really don't have to think about him all the time.

If you really like him, confess it to him.

If you don't dare to say it in person, just say it on the Internet, maybe you will feel better.

In fact, I have a similar situation to you, after we reach puberty, we will naturally like or like the performance of a certain classmate.

This is normal and you don't have to worry too much about it.

If you really like him and can't lose him, I still hope that you can get along with him peacefully and amicably, instead of always thinking in your heart, and learn to express it correctly!

I'm sure he's more than willing to be your friend, too. Is that right?

You have to have courage yourself first, don't always guess on your own.

I don't think anyone else will deliberately refuse your kindness. Is that right?

If you have these thoughts, you can take the initiative to ask him, and you guess that it is impossible for you to guess what others think, so you are still so unhappy, how worthwhile it is.

I just hope you'll be a little more bold enough to socialize with your classmates.

In the future, not only classmates, but also all kinds of people in the society will have to socialize, and I hope you can be brave enough to exercise your courage, overcome your fears, socialize with others normally, and live happily!

I'm in the same situation as you, I'm also a third party, and he's also a person with a girlfriend, and the beginning was what he asked me to like, and I liked him, and I knew he had a girlfriend from the beginning, and he never hid it, I thought that I wouldn't be tired when I started a relationship that knew the dismissal, but unfortunately I was wrong, and I found that I was missing something as long as I couldn't get his ** for a day, and I didn't get his care until now, and I didn't leave him My friend persuaded me to leave, in fact, I also knew what our final result would be, but I was a little reluctant.

I know very well that if you want to leave him, you can only be a little cold to him first, or find a real boyfriend and forget him with busyness, and if you fade a little bit, his feelings for you will naturally fade.

The third one is hateful! If you think you are his wife, you will feel sorry for her, give up.

Why be a third party? You just need to love him silently, care for him, and at the same time tell him that you love him and will always wait for him. I believe that one day he will be moved and choose you.

Time will slowly settle, and some people will slowly blur in your heart. Learn to let go, your happiness needs its own fulfillment....

I can put it this way: A jar of muddy water that has been disturbed, and if you want it to clear quickly, you have to wait. And when the jar of water just stopped stirring, it was actually still spinning violently.

So even though we were separated, I still miss him, I know I don't love him very much, and I tried to get that in my head, but it backfired.

Of course, it backfired! Because the landlord is stirring the water that has just stopped in this jar. The more you don't think about it, the more you think about it, and that's why the landlord wants to control the water, but it doesn't get muddy.

The landlord asked when he would forget him. Only when the water is slowly clarified, if you can't see him, you won't think about it.

But it's normal to have his influence in the heart of the landlord now. Please understand Don't worry, be brave enough to admit its existence, don't avoid it, let it come, let it happen. Don't shut yourself off, do what you have to do and do something, if you miss it, just know that he's coming, and then focus on your work life.

It's just that he will often repeat and think about him, so he must always be aware of himself and often draw his attention. In work and life, you must be in place every step of the way, and you must know what you are doing again.

Calm down! Time will make you forget, get in touch with new people and things!

Maybe he's thinking about you if you have something to say, let's say it to your face, hiding is not a way.

Friend, you don't have to envy others, just keep yourself. When you really become like that, you will understand that it is a happy thing to really face life calmly and not be harsh.

I am a child who grew up in hardship, and the hard life of my childhood made me more precocious, and also made me understand the meaning of life earlier than other children. Because I am unwilling to be arranged by fate, because I am so strong, I have learned the kind of life attitude you said since I was a child. However, with the continuous enrichment of life experience, although I seem to be very strong in the eyes of others, I am actually very lonely and depressed in my heart, because few people can understand your true vulnerability.

In fact, every Penghui person has a time of vulnerability, and there are times of sadness, and everyone also needs the care and understanding of others, so there is no need to deliberately hide the true self, and living the true self is a kind of happiness.

Nowadays, social relationships are becoming more and more complicated, and if you deliberately live, you will often lose yourself. So friends, you don't have to deliberately want to change yourself, everyone has their own unique way of life and their own attitude to life. Character is shaped by life experience, as you grow older and have more experience, you will form your own set of ways to deal with others.

As long as you adjust your mentality to be optimistic and positive, then you will be very comfortable living.

Friends, bless you, it's a joy to live your true self!

I'll teach you the middle limb method, but if you have to do it, two weeks, at most you can forget it.

First of all, spend two days, don't do anything else, just think about the rights and wrongs between you, think about how he treated you badly, think about why you broke up, what is wrong, the heart will hurt, the more painful it is, the more you think. It's okay if you can't sleep, think about being sleepy and sleeping.

And then it begins...

Don't mention it. The action does not disturb.

Don't mention all the things, people, things, and things about him, no longer raise your thoughts, and no one else can mention them.

Find a friend of the opposite sex, netizens are a good choice, it will not hurt others, and it can also help yourself. Talk to him every day, and when you go to bed, think about what you said during the day and guess what he's doing now. Treat him as his current lover. Have fun.

It's also a good choice to chat with a friend of the opposite sex, remember, you can't mention everything about him.

This method is very clever, you try it, and you must forget it in two weeks at most. Beg.