Why does my heart hurt when I hear my friend she s going to have a boyfriend?

Updated on psychology 2024-07-09
34 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    You may like her, confess to her. Be brave and give it a try. In fact, she said that she wants to have a boyfriend, does it imply that she wants you to be her boyfriend?

    In fact, ordinary friends really have nothing to last. Let's try to break through. You will be hurt when you fail to confess, but as creatures, we all have to deal with the pain of hurt.

    If she refuses, you don't have to insist on it, there is a kind of love called letting go. If she accepts it, do your best to love her with all your heart. The future is unknown, it is enough to divide and merge, and when you love, you love with sincerity and with all your might.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    In fact, this is a habit, and people are always very strange. When you're often with someone, of course the opposite sex is a very obvious characteristic, and suddenly you're not in touch, and there's a kind of affection between you, so there's an ancient idiom of wanting to get away with it, I don't approve of the upstairs, you can't confess recklessly, you have to stay by yourself for two days, consider whether you and her can make up for your personality, and whether you can really tolerate the usual ordinary and other things that are not special. If you could, I'm so happy for you, you'd be happy together, if not.

    And I'm sure you have more things to do, like studying, like fighting for your career. When I feel sad, find more friends around me and have fun. I wish you a happy and happy soon.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Because you feel like you're going to be alone.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    If love doesn't make people feel heartache, then it's not love.

    What can I do, after a long time, I will be numb one day.

    Now that I know how to love her, cherish her if a good girl appears in the future.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    It's normal. Maybe you still love him. It's just that you don't know. Or that sense of dependence and possessiveness in the long run. I don't want him to like anyone. Hehe, hope it helps.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    You can't tell the reason for really loving someone, you only know that no matter when and where, whether you are in a good or bad mood, you want this person to accompany you, the real feeling is that the two can stay together in the most difficult situation, that is, there is no requirement that the relationship is to give, not just want to get.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Only when you lose do you know how to cherish! But because of this, you understand your feelings and want her to be honest about your feelings

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Sit down and talk about it.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Since you choose to give up, don't take it personally.

    She's been with someone else, and this pain I can understand.

    But there is nothing I can do.

    But what you have to do is study hard.

    Let's look to the future.

    This time can be very painful, just get used to it.

    Let's shift our energy to studying.

    Listen to more songs. Writing a diary or something is not written every day.

    When you're in a bad mood, write when you're in a bad mood.

    It's good for you to change your mood.

    The third year of high school hopes you can grasp it.

    In fact, you can also go to a good senior year of high school in love.

    Everything is balancing on its own.

    I wish you success in your college entrance examination next year.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    The landlord seems to be about the same as us, haha My experience is almost the same as yours.

    I'm also very introverted and not proactive. The reason for the separation was because he was in love with my good friend.

    It's been 2 years, and I've almost forgotten it.

    Why not let it go, landlord.

    Don't try to forget her, it will only make you miss her more.

    Play ball with good buddies every day, and fight for youth with good friends. Why not?

    Good love is always next time, don't give the same person 2 chances to hurt you.

    I wish you eternal happiness.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Break up because of learning ... I'm dizzy、What is the reason for this!

    You can't break up just because you're studying!! You'll regret your death!!

    Now she has a boyfriend too... It's impossible to redeem ...

    Then you'll find another one...

    Or refusing to know about her, so that it can reduce the pain points.

    You know, some people miss it for a lifetime ......

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    In fact, life is not all about love.

    Now that you have chosen to let go first, don't blindly linger.

    Also, since she can be with others quickly, then you have to think about whether she is worth it for you, so you should learn well now.

    In this way, you will not live up to yourself at that time.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    It's only the third year of high school, your road is still long, I don't know what kind of road to go after going to college, it's a little early to fall in love in high school, which means that you haven't found the right person, it's a good thing that you haven't found the right person, really, you have a lot of time to deal with this kind of thing in college, and there are a lot of excellent people, now you don't always think about emotional thingsAfter all, you have to take the college entrance examination, and your heart is relaxed. When you are admitted to a good school, there are more excellent girls, and college is a good environment for you to fall in love

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    First love is very sweet, first love generally will not be successful, always regret, because we used to have too many expectations for love, these are related to your first love, so it will be sad from time to time, even when it rains, it will be sad, it is recommended that you turn your energy to study.

    In the past, we would work hard because of love, but now we have to forget ...... by studying hardIt's very helpless.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Time, time is the best medicine. If not, then use this energy to study, what kind of good girl can't be found after college

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Men are like this, they don't get it and don't want others to get it, what they can't get is the best, and they won't cherish it if they get it. By the time you find another girlfriend, you won't have that kind of thought, mainly because you've just lost it now and feel empty to think about it so much.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    The fruit that has just borne is fresh and tender, but it is green, after all, we have also paid attention to it and poured it in, can we not be heartbroken, then we will have time to read more books, study, and you will be cheerful as time goes by

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Maybe you still can't let go of her, but since you have given up for studying, she has to give up to the end, as for her relationship with the man in your dormitory, in order not to see or hear more sad words, or see embarrassment, I advise you to change the dormitory or rent a house next to the school. Try to avoid those topics and people as much as possible. Waiting for time to dilute the feeling will not be like this.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Or maybe she's deliberately angry with you.,That's why she talked to your friends in the dormitory... Your heartache is because you still love her, and you were only forced to divide it so as not to delay your studies. Of course it hurts.

    Boys should take the initiative.,What girl doesn't like romance and surprises.。。 Who would find a lump of wood to fall in love with? Since she can't study hard, let's talk to her, I think she should turn back.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Let's open it. Since they all said that they broke up because of study.

    Then shift the focus of your life to your studies.

    Don't always think about the two of you together.

    I believe that time will dilute everything.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Academics are the most important thing for good girls to do in the future, as long as they have a career.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Perhaps, you really love her...I became dependent on her, and I couldn't let go of her in my heart, and it was not easy to meet an Aile person, so you let it go, but it's a pity, I'm also the same as you, for my boyfriend, I gave up my studies, and I believe in the path I chose.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    The pain of a relationship can only be washed away by a new relationship.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Do you think that the person in the dormitory can have a good mentality?

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Because he hurt you, you love him more than he loves you!

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Because you love him deeply, deeply! But you weren't together or he hurt you.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Is it that you like him? Or did he hurt you!

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Because I like it. Or because of injury.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    There are two reasons, one is that you don't have a girlfriend yourself, so you will be sad to see others in pairs, and you will feel so lonely in an instant, and the second is the most common, you like her, and you hear that the person you want has an object, not yourself, so you are sad, even if her object is better than herself, but you still can't bless her in your heart.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    That's ...... crushIf possible, get to know her and see if she has feelings for you, and if so, develop them. If that's not possible, forget about her as soon as possible, it's good for you and for her.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    It's better to tell her directly if it's stuffy in your heart, it's better!

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Silly yes, so simple, hehe.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Of course. You like her, but you don't know if she likes you or not.

    I just confessed that in exchange, I almost promised you, but is this really good for you.

    So, if you really like her, please be bold and chase after her and don't give up.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    This is love, I can't say clearly, this is love, it's confused and confused

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