Emotional problems for junior high school graduates are headaches

Updated on educate 2024-07-09
36 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Haha, it's very similar to mine. I'll tell you how I do it.

    First of all, don't worry too much. Since I was already studying well, I tried to change my personality and mingle with my classmates. Be a classmate's pistachio.

    Make everyone like you. This will not be too difficult, because if you have good grades, you will definitely be a class leader, and you will have a lot of contact with your classmates. It's easy to laugh more and help others more.

    Then, they didn't pester him much, as if none of these things had happened. Greet him politely when they meet, and don't talk to anyone about him. Others pretend to be angry when they joke.

    Finally, when he no longer resents you (you should be able to feel it. Through a few small things. For example, tell him to solve a question (pass a note), bring an extra umbrella when it rains, and other small things, and it doesn't require too much language contact, at least let him know that you still like him.

    That's it, it should change his opinion of you now, at least be friends.

    My sister is very slow to type, and it took a long time to type these. I hope it helps

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Girl, you have to think about it.

    You are now in a stressful time of studying.

    is about to face the high school entrance examination, although it is not as popular as the college entrance examination.

    But the threshold of the high school entrance examination is more important.

    It's normal for you to have such a psychological reaction at your age.

    Maybe you think it's like, but you don't think so.

    It is accurate to say "admire" something about him.

    Such as: dress, personality, taste, and friendship can make you treat him.

    Generate goodwill. So you don't have to worry too much now when it's time for class or school.

    Two people have a good talk.

    You don't need to deliberately find a topic to talk about, just talk about trivial things in study and life.

    In this way, the already stressful pressure of studying will also become a motivation.

    Slowly, the appreciation in your heart will gradually become a habit.

    The most important thing is to focus on learning!!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    You pestered him for a while and then ignored him for a while

    You spend time pestering him to help him when he needs help (to show him how nice you are to him)...You can also send messages and chat with him. When he gets used to the fact that you are looking for him often. Just let it go for a while...See if he takes the initiative to find you...

    If it doesn't work, keep it for a little longer and ignore him again. ~

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    You're brave!o( o is much better than I was back then, and I didn't dare to confess it at the time, because he was so bad.

    But after all, it's the third year of junior high school!

    Learn what to take care of. It's better to have something in your heart, but since you say it, don't think too much about it, just let it be!

    I think boys might have concerns too.

    Since you like him, don't embarrass him.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    The student's task is to learn;Don't overthink it;There aren't necessarily any good solutions at your age;It's better to study hard, and let the rest take its course, and don't let yourself be too annoyed;Do you say okay?

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    It can be seen. She doesn't like you.

    But it's still not particularly repulsive to you.

    Maybe it's because you had a good relationship with her before you confessed.

    Since she doesn't love you.

    You have no fate.

    Don't force it.

    I've been through a similar story to you.

    It doesn't matter how much you pay.

    She doesn't like you.

    It's a fact.

    So. Twisted melons are not sweet.

    I wish you happiness. Find your true love soon!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    It's better to give up, it's not going to end well for people your age.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    A not-so-handsome boy who doesn't have good grades and is disgusting in the eyes of others".

    You've said it yourself, so what do you like about him, and he doesn't care about you.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Don't talk about relationship issues at this time, unless you want to sink down, how many people have learned from the past, and of course I am one of them.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    He's just stressed.

    You've become public figures.

    I know best about personal matters.

    He's an eyesore.

    I went to see School Day.

    Good luck with the reverse chase - b

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    There is no cow dung at the end of the world, why bother to love a piece of.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    If she feels the same way about you, she should find time to spend time with you, so you should give her some space.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Then you will work hard for your future I know a senior brother who couldn't get into a key high school But he studied hard for the people he liked, and his grades were 2 points worse than her. There's nothing you can't do, it's just a question of whether you want to or not, so work hard!!

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    If you like her, don't bother her.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    I suggest that you should be on the same level as her or surpass her, such as studying hard to prove that you are actually very good...

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    At this age, I believe in this sentence: if you like her, don't bother her.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    The feeling of first love, very young, at that time actually had this feeling, but everyone didn't pick it out, I think it's important to study, even if you talk about it, can you decide that she is the other half of your marriage certificate, of course, I think it's good to pick it out (because I didn't pick it out at the time, and now I regret it), but I can't go deep and can't extricate myself, this degree is not easy to grasp, the little boys and girls who love for the first time will generally delay their studies, if they just want to confess, often ask her to play, find a secluded place to chat, Then confess, step by step.

    In addition, why are all the answers to you dissuaded you, because everyone came from that time and knew that there was no result, so the study was important, and the rest was a floating cloud, but the young heart could not stop it, and the process that people had to go through, if it was good, it would not affect the future, and if it was bad, the serious consequences would have to be borne by themselves.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    You are still young, and this hazy feeling can only be said to be a good impression of the opposite sex, and your studies are important.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    We're going to fly away, you're incoherent, and it sounds like you're going to elope.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Later you will understand, this is too naïve. If a girl is really interesting, love is a matter of course. She may understand that she will be separated in the future, and it is unlikely that she will be with you, so if you confess, it will only embarrass you and her, so it is better to maintain the current relationship and see her as a friend from the heart.

    If you are fated, you can chase her in the future.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    I'm a college student, and I don't know if I can help you, but I want to tell you what I think. Our generation, the post-90s generation, is under great pressure to go on to higher education, so I often feel that I have a bad mentality when I study. I used to be very distressed by this.

    Grades are not the only criterion for judging a person, but we can strive to be the best at this and have the least regrets. Looking back now, I always feel like I'm not good enough. That's why I got to such a university.

    Having said so much, I want to tell you, don't think about the result, live in the moment, seize the time to study now, don't think about the rest, maybe many people have a worse mentality than you, but they don't show it in front of you. You have to make yourself happy in your studies so that you can learn better. So don't push yourself too hard, but don't push yourself too hard either.

    Set yourself a goal that you can achieve on tiptoe, one step at a time, and by the end of the day, you will find that you have reached the height you were able to reach by jumping before. Finally, I want to tell you, don't be discouraged, where there is a will, there is a way, and you are the best yourself. You can, because you are unique, come on, the world is already so stressed, why do you still oppress yourself?

    Happiness is the best way to study and live! Good luck!

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    You have to work hard, and since you have chosen to repeat your studies, I think you still hope to get good grades! You don't want to live this life doing nothing, do you? As long as you pay attention to the following points, I am sure you will achieve good results!

    1.Communicate more with your classmates and teachers, don't study alone, after all, this year is not good, there are classmates and teachers to help you cheer you up, so that progress is fast. Of course, you can't just focus on communication, reading is the main topic.

    3.This is the most important point, that is, to calm down, not to think about how comfortable the former classmates are now, but to think about how they should catch up now, but not too much pressure, appropriate pressure is the motivation, but too much pressure will become a counterforce, which will only make the situation worse.

    4.Figure out what is the difference between the 10th college entrance examination policy and the 09 year, what are the changes in the scope of the exam, and know that the other side can not be defeated. (When it comes to the college entrance examination, the exam syllabus will be released, so it is best to do the sample questions again).

    5.Finding a study method that works for you will make you more effective with less!

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Don't be upset, the environment of repeating is also a kind of social training, we are not learning for the sake of learning, now this social diploma is not necessary, the key is to practice personal ability, you can now consider the path that suits you in the future, whether to learn a skill or continue to study to university, or choose to contact more society and make more friends to do business in the future.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    So let's find friends to play, talk to my friends, have fun, and then study hard. If it's annoying because of the grades, there's still a chance anyway, just work hard.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    There are three possibilities, one is that you don't usually get enough rest, and your brain is in a state of tension for a long time. It may be a migraine factor. Second, according to traditional Chinese medicine, there is an evil wind blowing to the head, and not resting enough causes bone fire, and the false fire rises to the point that you are in such a state.

    Three, there may be some kind of brain disease that makes you have a fever when you have a headache. It is best to go to the hospital for a detailed examination.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    When I went to school, I didn't eat in the morning, I was hungry during the exercise, and in the first class in the afternoon, I was so sleepy that I couldn't do it, and I was hungry when I was about to get out of school. That's because the study pressure is high, and the fulfillment can't keep up. You'd better eat something blood-replenishing.

    Poor kid, don't put too much pressure on yourself. As long as you work hard, you will accept the results calmly. Finally, I would like to give you a sincere message:

    If you don't make a sound, it's a blockbuster. The cold window is here from time to time, and now it is a brilliant development!

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Hunger is due to too much mental activity, which consumes a lot of energy, so bring some snacks with you, candies and chocolates can quickly replenish and reduce hunger. Headache is also a problem of continuous study, do you continue to do questions and read books, rarely walk around between classes? If so, you should relax after class, walk and talk, and it's best not to stay up late to sleep, otherwise your head will be very congested and you will have a headache.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    It's stressful. If the study efficiency can't go up, take a good rest, and don't go to bed too late if you study at night.

    I don't want to think about it because I'm always bored in the classroom, so it's good to go out and run a few laps.

    Anyway, if you're hungry, bring something to eat to replenish your energy.

    In short, adjust your schedule and exercise more.

    If you want to take the physical education exam in the third year of junior high school, you should exercise regularly.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Adjust your mindset - eat early in the morning and take a nap at noon.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    The third year of junior high school is very relaxed, okay? When you get to the third year of high school, you won't feel that junior high school is miserable, bring something to school with food, and have some snacks in the afternoon.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Have a good night's rest, proper school. Don't overwork, this can only be harmful and not beneficial".<

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Giving up your studies for him will be the thing you regret the most! The road is your own choice, the partner you are looking for must at least be consistent with your route, looking for a partner is not looking for feelings, some people you appreciate now, but not for you! And a man, who is willing to fall in an ordinary class, is not worth your effort, let alone making you happier!

    Character is not good.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Love is coming, you are only in the third year of junior high school, and you are precocious! But it depends on you to grasp this scale, your task now is to study, wait for you to do a good job in your studies, wait for you to achieve the goal in your heart and then consider your emotional problems, maybe when you grow up, you will re-understand some things, there will be some other ideas and views, so at present you have to make yourself clearly aware of your goals, your own tasks!

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Like and love one person doesn't have to be glued together every day, you will get tired of being together every day, there is a kind of love that does not ask for anything in return, and it really depends on how you look at it.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    What diverts attention from singing or whatever's is nonsense can be useful.

    In my opinion, the emotional aspect is actually not to let go of the can't let go Now your love Maybe you will feel very real, very pure, very love, you will grow up when you grow up, it is not all love, including many things, such as unwillingness, loneliness, caused by the desire to fall in love, vanity == all Now what you have to do is not to let go How to transfer What you have to do is to let go and love as if you are already an old husband and wife Then you won't feel how to think about this and that for yourself to experience it = You will slowly fade after a break in time Put down the letter I wish you a good high school.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Confess to him in the diary and work together. It's kind of comforting yourself, writing it in your diary is equivalent to saying it, and then spending your mind on the stacks of books, thinking that you can do anything when you graduate.

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