I m confused and don t communicate well with different people 20

There are a lot of topics to talk about, but I really can't remember what to talk about?

It's impossible, ask people about their work, family, on the one hand, they care about people, on the other hand, you can understand the recent situation of others, if you can't think of what to talk about, just listen to people first, you can joke in the middle, sitting together to eat is the best time to get closer to the feelings, toast people's wine, people pay respect, come and go, the relationship is not good, and at the same time you can talk to them about your study life, the customs of the place where you are studying, a lot of topics. And you grew up playing together when you were young, talk about the anecdotes of the past, and when you were young, you played together in the scene, and it was easy to get closer to the relationship.

Genuinely will make friends.

People are like that

Every confidant has a thousand cups, and the words are not speculative.

Things are gathered by like, and people are grouped.

Sorry for me.

A raccoon dog is embarrassed, and the smell is similar.

If you can't get along, stay away, don't stir together.

I'm about the same as you, I've been working for 8 years, not including studying, I've been in contact with them to play ** or something, you think about who you played best with in your early years!! Just talk to him about society, family, or something. When you go back to the village, invite them to drink and eat, and remember not to cut off contact!!

I used to be in the same situation as you.

It's normal, you don't have to worry about it.

There is no need to deliberately, the Tao is different, and things gather like each other.

If you have the ability, you can go outside to create a career, have your own world, and then they will find a topic to contact you, and people are very realistic.

I don't get along with people who don't have a common language, and that's okay, they're just at different levels

Specific traffic is analyzed and different things are said to different people!

Remember, Fei is the first sentence of a relationship!!

These feelings of yours show that you are growing up slowly, growing up is painful, this is a necessary experience for growth, really for you.

First of all, let's find fault with ourselves.

Maybe it's a character problem.

I've been in this situation before. I think first of all, you have to think about their friendly expression, after all, they don't often get together, there will be a sense of unsociability, you have to let them know that you are their companion, but the environment is different; Secondly, you should empathize, think about how they see you, find out your own shortcomings, and correct them, and the problem will be solved.

Be sure to put yourself in their shoes.

Think more for others.

I was unconsciously recognized by others.

The people you're chatting with feel good about each other.

This reason is very simple, because everyone's personality and the number of things to the number of simple views and experiences are different, in many cases, we will have a certain degree of prejudgment for the first time to meet the chat object, if we think that the object and our own very compatible, and the personality and thought of many similar, then the two will feel better in communication, if the two people's personality and thinking values are different, even in the communication will feel pain.

There is a common topic of communication.

In the chat, the aimless chat is actually very time-consuming and energy-consuming for both parties, because it will make both parties have no goal and direction in the communication. Mutual interest in this kind of communication will be very low, so if there is a common communication topic, it will be more helpful for both parties to have a pleasant chat in the chat, and it will also help each other to express their opinions on some things.

Each other has their own opinions, and communication can make both parties feel growth and progress.

In many cases, in my personal chat experience, if I communicate with the other person, the other party will only like and I will feel that the communication is very boring, because the other party does not give me effective feedback. I hope that when communicating, we can not only stimulate the desire I want to express and my opinions on certain fields, but also let the other party output their own potato pants, so that both parties have a deeper understanding and cognitive bend of a matter in communication.

Cherish everyone around you who can communicate with you, because it is easy to communicate between people, but it is difficult to operate. Because when people are faced with differences and differences, they inevitably have a problem in their hearts, which will make people sensitive, which will lead to more misunderstandings. Therefore, in today's society, communication only exists in the fit of the souls of both parties and the objective interests of the needs, otherwise communication will not only have a positive effect, but will also have more negative effects.

Your question is very good, [communication is complex and difficult] The main reason is that [the purpose of communication is to reach an agreement,] due to disagreement, two people want to communicate and coordinate to achieve a unified purpose. However, the selfish hearts of two people are different, the ideas are different, the two people have different views on interests, each has its own reason, does not give in to each other, each has its own reason, and it sounds like everyone is right. In fact, if you calm down and take a long-term perspective, there may be one person who is right, another person who is selfish, or there may be someone who says that it is just to relieve the pressure at that time, and it is not really the right solution.

It is also possible that both people are selfish, and only a third person [a smart, wise person] can see the truth of the problem.

If you want to communicate smoothly, either you accommodate me, or I accommodate you, that is, understanding, tolerance, magnanimity, and let people be lenient. Tolerate people, and tolerate people. This is the only way to communicate smoothly. I don't know whether it's right or not, learn from each other. Happy to you.

If you have other questions, you can also add it at any time

Hello, first, become cheerful, learn to speak boldly and actively with others, don't lose face, can mess around, others will not care, just afraid that you are silent, very strange, it is better to say it than not to say, say it a few times naturally do not have to be afraid. II

Participate in more outdoor activities, so that you can communicate with people more, and your personality will naturally become cheerful and enrich your experience. 3. Make yourself humorous: 1 When you narrate an interesting story, don't rush to show the result, you should calm down, show the power of humor with a unique tone and dramatic plot, and create a kind of suspense for the audience before the most crucial sentence is spoken.

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Ask questions to broaden the content and explain the intention.

Ask questions about the communication process, how to avoid blindly preaching.

And the answer. Normally, communication is a two-way thing, but trying to keep a low profile will help things get things done. Communication needs to express sufficient intent, so grasping the key content is the most fundamental need of communication, which cannot be ignored. When communicating, try to show your sincerity and let the other person feel our sincerity so that things go smoothly.

Pay attention to listen to the other person's opinions in communication, the purpose of communication is to understand the other person's ideas, and then research new things. Pay attention to the feedback of communication, if you give more feedback when communicating, it will make the other party feel good and communicate easily.

Relationships are an indispensable resource in life, and you can get all kinds of different things from different people. Wealth, knowledge, experience, joy, sorrow, and so on. And in the mall, interpersonal relationships are very important.

How does a businessman get the information he needs for his job?

The most effective methods we know are: 1. Read the newspaper often; 2. Establish good relationships with people; 3. Develop the habit of reading. In other words, the most important information of a businessman is "people", and for them, "human information" is undoubtedly much more important than "lead information".

Top-notch management personnel value this kind of "human intelligence".

The most important thing in communicating with people is sincerity. It's only when people feel that you're thinking about them that they're receptive to your opinion. When we can communicate with others sincerely, it is easier to get real returns.

When doing direct marketing, you're mostly selling to your friends and acquaintances. As long as you communicate with others sincerely, no matter whether the business can be done or not, at least one more friend. And the key to direct selling is to rely on friends, so even if he doesn't accept the first time you sell to him, but you make this friend, you can still sell to him in the future.

Communicate with others, regardless of whether the sales pitch is successful or not, as a direct seller, the first thing you should do is to make friends with customers.

Communication with people is very important, and the ability to communicate with people is a very important ability in people's life and work.

Communication skills are improved in continuous interaction with people, and some people are very good at communicating with people, and they can talk to everyone and everyone. There are also some people who can't find a topic to communicate with, and don't know how to say it when they find a topic, and they have nothing to say in a few words. There are also people who are afraid to talk to people and communicate with people, and avoid people when they see and come, so that they often come down, they dare not communicate with people, forming social phobia, blushing when talking to people, and talking incoherently, the more so, the more they dare not communicate with people, and the more difficult it is to communicate with people.

In order to solve the problems of not being good at communicating with others, not daring to communicate with others, and having difficulty communicating with others, it is necessary to work hard in the following aspects.

1.Improve your self-confidence and overcome your fear of communicating with others. You can't think that you are inferior to others in that aspect, you have an inferiority complex, you must believe that people are equal, people have their own strengths and advantages, people also have their own shortcomings and deficiencies, they have their own characteristics, specialties, quality people will not laugh at and look down on others, people without quality are not worthy of communicating with him, they have confidence, they will feel equal to others, there is no need to be afraid of communicating with others.

It's easy and enjoyable to communicate with people.

2.It is necessary to broaden your horizons, increase your knowledge and insight, understand other people's cognitions and thoughts, and care about some things and things in life, so that you can find common topics in your communication with others and communicate with them easily.

3.It is necessary to learn some ways and means of communicating with others, participate in more social activities, learn other people's communication languages, communication methods and methods in the activities, and communicate with others bravely.

4.There are institutions that specialize in cultivating communication skills, you can sign up to study, and there are books and magazines related to communication, such as "Communication and Eloquence", etc., you can see, learn, and improve your communication skills.

That means that your emotional intelligence is not high, and you need to have a little emotional intelligence to communicate with others. When communication is not smooth, if you want to think of something else, you can use a roundabout way to solve the problem. Let's talk about something else, and then slowly move on to it.

It's possible that you're not communicating with people in the right way. I should explain the problem in detail, and I need to be simplistic, not so complicated.

Then choose to change the way you communicate with others, so make a change to yourself if you can.

It's a little hard to communicate with others.

Don't worry.

You should still communicate more with others.

This will slowly become easier.

It is difficult to communicate with others because you want others to act according to your ideas, communicate from the other person's point of view, and be willing to listen, maybe the communication will be smoother.

If you can't communicate with someone, you can change the way you can find someone else to communicate with him, which may be better.

It's normal to have a little difficulty communicating with others, and not everyone can communicate with people satisfactorily every time. This is not your business alone, poor communication may be your problem, or it may be the problem of others, the root of which is caused by factors such as the concept and experience environment of both parties. No matter who the reason is, when you can't communicate, it is recommended to stop communication, wait for both parties to calm down, reflect on their own views, and then re-examine each other's views, and then look for opportunities to continue communication after you have a clear answer in your heart.

Just like the Sino-US negotiations, this kind of large-scale communication is when the talks can't continue, both sides agree to stop, and the two sides find more convincing data before entering the next round of communication and negotiations, maybe this can get a result acceptable to both sides.

I think in this case, you can change your thinking and think about the problem from the other person's point of view, so that you can think of a piece.

It is a little difficult to communicate with others, which proves that your language communication skills are lacking, you can listen to more social courses to further improve your communication skills.

It's a little difficult to communicate with others, what can I do at this time? Learn to communicate with people.

What do you do when it's a little hard to communicate with others? At this time, it is either to end the conversation and find a reason to leave, or to introduce your humorous deeds and open up the awkward atmosphere.