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There are many aspects, on the one hand, I am not too sensitive, I always think of myself as important when I am studying, as if everything is aimed at me, and I will be very disappointed when I see others being praised, and I will wonder if I am not good enough to stand the attention of the teacher. Actually, it's thinking too much. The second aspect is that you have not yet integrated into the class, communicate more with the classmates around you, what is wrong with the day student, don't be preconceived and position yourself in the position of the day student.
People are equal, you don't have this idea of inferiority!
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How sarcastic he is with you, I'm just as woo-woo as you....I've finally found my kind.
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。。I think you're one of the most perfectionist people.,Positive.。。 But I also think you're too self-centered.
What you are doing is right, but it is a bit too much, be yourself, let them have their own way of life, and don't let others affect your own cultivation too much. Maybe it'll be fine in a few days, you don't always think about those unhappy things, relax your mood, study well, and improve your grades is your own business, and then they won't think so much about studying more and more nervously in the future, and put all their energy on studying. I wouldn't do anything like that.
You will also have a lot of fun living and learning. Don't you have any friends?,Confide in your friends.,Or report to the teacher.,It's also for the good of the class.。。
Have fun!!
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In fact, you have found a lot of bad class atmosphere, so your view of the class gradually becomes negative, in fact, you can try to find a little good, it is impossible to say that you have no smile at all in the class. And first of all, you have to do a good job of yourself, how to put others aside first, after a long time, you will affect the people around you, and slowly you may form a good class style.
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In the past few days, I have been studying a sentence, 'Dissatisfaction with others is due to my own lack of cultivation'...We all need to think about it.
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Wasn't there a very popular saying on the Internet before: "It's the first time to be a person, why should I let you?" Simple and rude, it is to tell us, don't be afraid, scold him.
Now that you feel that this is sarcasm, you don't have to think about "whether he is joking, whether I am too sensitive". What you have to do is to tell him directly and seriously, "I will be sad if you say this, don't do it next time", give him a chance, if you say this, he still pretends not to understand your sadness, and continue to say the same type of words next time, then there is no need for such a classmate to maintain friendship, and directly fight back against him.
You always have to remember that you have to be funny if you make a joke. If you are only embarrassed to make a joke about you, then there is no need for the joke to continue. When I was in high school, I was often hacked, and at first it was a joke between good friends, which I could accept, but later everyone laughed and laughed when they saw me, and they all liked to joke about me, including some classmates who didn't know each other well.
I've always been a good person for 10,000 years, and I haven't had a conflict with anyone for so many years, so sometimes I comfort myself with "you have a good personality and good popularity, so everyone makes fun of you", but then I found out, fart, some people just owe it, you think they joke with you to show that you have a good relationship, but in fact, they are the same as everyone.
Don't try to maintain a friendly relationship with everyone, you are too tired and you don't have that much energy, just have a few good friends who know your pain points and will never joke about your pain points. If you feel that you can't even maintain a normal classmate relationship, then ask him to stay cool as soon as possible. Don't force yourself, you feel that you will be gone after persevering for this year, a life is so short, of course, you have to play with interesting people.
So, don't be afraid of conflict, don't be afraid of embarrassing scenes, they are all embarrassed to say those harsh words, what are you worried about. But although I said this, at the critical moment, my mouth was still stupid to death, and I held back a "You... You..
You're insane", and it's also embarrassing. If you don't know how to scare people, then you can go and watch "Wonderful Sayings", a debate show, which can also teach us a lot of scaremongering golden sentences in the war of words. There is also a way to watch some live broadcasts of young ladies from the Northeast, who are sharp and very tough, and after reading it, take a small notebook and remember it, and think about how people face these unfriendly.
Finally, I hope you are getting cooler and cooler, and in the face of malice, you can choose to be tolerant, but you don't forget your bottom line and principles, you have the ability to go back, and you also have a relieved mind.
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In fact, sometimes they sarcastically mock me once in a while, maybe it's just that they are unintentional, and they will only say it when the words are rushed, I don't think it's okay, but my high school classmate and roommate often sarcastically mocks me, and I think there is something wrong with her.
Another time I was very impressed, because I was a liberal arts student, there were many books that Wen Zong needed to memorize, but a good memory is not as good as a bad pen, so I copied all the knowledge points in the book to deepen my impression, but after she saw it, she said that what I did was useless and a waste of time, and said that the most important thing for the exam was to play on the spot. After hearing this, I was really curious about what her brain circuits were, and then I went back, I really couldn't tolerate her. There are many other things she satirizes about me, and these are just two of them, I really wonder why she always likes to sarcastically mock me, does she think she is superior to me?
I also have a male classmate in high school, he is also like this, he always likes to sarcastically beat me, once when I graduated from the college entrance examination, he asked me how much I did, I told him that he actually mocked me and said that I actually took more exams than him. Oh my God, I don't know how much he looks down on me, so I fought back and said he couldn't do it anyway if he didn't have as much as me.
I really don't understand the mentality of people who love to be sarcastic about others, and feel as if they can't live if they don't be sarcastic, which is really hateful and pathetic.
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Are you an introvert? Try to communicate with your classmates, and you will find that things are far from being as bad as you think. Learn to adjust your mentality, don't always think about those unpleasant things, there are many beautiful things in the world, look at the blue sky and white clouds, look at the distant mountains and green trees, listen to **, read a good book, scribble early can also be good, you can also shout loudly, vent your inner depression, every adolescent child will encounter all kinds of problems, as long as you take it seriously, it can be solved, you see that others seem to be happier than you, but everyone actually has a lot of troubles, It's just that some people show it and some don't.
You just have to think, I am not worse than others, I must be better than others in some aspects, this is your advantage, you have to give full play to your advantages, so that the students can see the number of sails, feel it, you will win the love of the students! If you don't turn a blind eye, you can do irrational and stupid things, which will not only not solve any problems, but will cause great harm to people and others. When you can't handle many things by yourself, you can talk to the teacher and talk to your parents, I believe that any teacher and parents will help you overcome these difficulties and get through this difficulty.
Maybe it's just your delusion, I used to talk very little in the class, always alone, at that time I felt that my classmates didn't like me, and then through a friend opened a breakthrough, and the relationship with my classmates also improved. Later, a classmate told me that I didn't speak before and had a serious face, and everyone was a little afraid that I wouldn't dare to talk to me, so are you usually a little cold? Maybe people just don't know you, you can try to get closer to them first.
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