Something in my heart, something in my heart?

After reading such a big article you wrote, the feeling is: the first is that my eyes are dazzled, and the second is that you are repeating your feelings over and over again, to sum it up, you are confused, you are in pain, you don't know what you want to do, and your heart should be very empty! I don't know if I'm wrong?

I sometimes think like you do a lot, and I don't even know what I'm doing. But not to the point where you think too much. Even thinking about life and thinking yourself is not such a way of thinking, the range of things you think about is too wide, so wide that you are thinking about this at this moment, and the next second immediately thinks of other things, causing you to think about nothing, investing in nothing, and thinking about the result, but repeating and repeating every day to make yourself troubled, painful and uneasy!

Why be so tired? You are now yourself, and you are shackling yourself to your own troubles!

Everyone has shortcomings, and everyone can't be perfect, sometimes we want to change ourselves but we don't have to do everything to achieve the perfect effect in our hearts. You may say that I don't have high requirements for myself, but if you may one day shape your character perfectly, then you will also lose a lot of things, there will be gains and losses, and there will be gains and losses! If there was harm to others before, it was already a thing of the past, and others have forgotten it, so let it pass in the past, there is no possibility of going back in this world!

Also, you feel that you are empty inside, but how many people in this world do not feel empty? You're not alone, so don't feel how sad it is! It is recommended that the next time you want to think about a problem, you should think about the problem a little smaller, and then think about a result, and then write the result on a piece of paper, then the problem is over, and it is decided, and next time you will not repeat and repeat and continue to think, because repeated thinking about a problem will only make you more and more unable to find the direction.

Don't rely on gluttony to let you vent the depression in your heart, this will not solve the problem, if you can solve the problem, you will not say that the doctor's heart is not good! When you decide to solve the problem you are facing by one thing, don't use this method unless it can really be solved, and if it can't be solved, it will lead to more problems. If I feel depressed, I can find a place to vent, or cry, but I must tell myself that the things I am doing for this problem today must be worth it, and then I should not feel painful and troubled about this next time!

Your annoyance is that you don't handle your emotional affairs well!That's such despair, isn't it? Cheer up!How many times can you have a game in life, and how many times can you count a few times!

Isn't it overwritten??

In your words!

Isn't that God testing you?

People can only grow after difficulties!

If you can't take possession of overcoming difficulties, how will you face God in the future?

There is harmony and sorrow, and you feel very sad. Do you feel pathetic? Then let me ask you, do you think there is anyone in the world more pitiful than you? Again your question.

Although I can see ten lines at a glance, I still haven't finished reading them.

There is destined to be another person in life, yawning together, and living a good life.

Actually, there are a lot of other options, this is me:

Let's get through it together!

I'm done venting, and for the sake of the points I'm so tired of watching, give them to me.

Boss After reading it, I have a feeling, and I decided to share it with you.

I'm really, really

Eye pain

My eyes hurt when I watched it, so I didn't finish it

Recently, because of some things at home, I feel a little uncomfortable.

I didn't pay much attention to a lot of things.,But lately, it's been a little worrying because of some miscellaneous things.。

In fact, my heart has always been empty, and I don't know what I care about the most. Sometimes I don't know what I really want, and I can't say it clearly.

It's just that I don't have any goals. Of course, in the final analysis, it is your own small family that is the most important, taking care of your wife and children is the most important, and nothing else matters.

It's just that there are some things that I don't know who to talk to, or maybe that's a little bit of a man's trouble. Especially after the year of establishment, I still feel that I have not achieved anything, and I am still short of money, and the pressure is still quite high.

In addition, the work is not very smooth, and the overall market economy is not very good, so many things cannot be advanced. As a result, the business cannot be carried out, which is indeed worrying.

Recently, because of some things at home, I feel a little uncomfortable.

I didn't pay much attention to a lot of things.,But lately, it's been a little worrying because of some miscellaneous things.。

In fact, my heart has always been empty, and I don't know what I care about the most. Sometimes I don't know what I really want, and I can't say it clearly.

It's just that I don't have any goals. Of course, in the final analysis, it is your own small family that is the most important, taking care of your wife and children is the most important, and nothing else matters.

It's just that there are some things that I don't know who to talk to, or maybe that's a little bit of a man's trouble. Especially after the year of establishment, I still feel that I have not achieved anything, and I am still short of money, and the pressure is still quite high.

In addition, the work is not very smooth, and the overall market economy is not very good, so many things cannot be advanced. As a result, the business cannot be carried out, which is indeed worrying.

Maupassant once wrote in "One Life".

Life can't be as good as you think.

But it's not as bad as you think.

In fact, people are fragile and strong.

It's beyond your imagination.

Sometimes you can be so fragile that you burst into tears at a single sentence.

Sometimes I find myself gritting my teeth and walking a long way.

Not all things are worth remembering, some people just need to see clearly, they don't have to turn their faces, some things can be understood in their hearts, they don't have to dig deeper, let their hearts be relieved, and they learn to turn."

1. When you feel uncomfortable, you should cry out loud.

Crying is a great way to temporarily relieve emotional stress. Crying out loud when you feel uncomfortable is a natural reaction to grief and a very natural and necessary first step in repairing your mind, don't ignore or skip it.

2. When you feel uncomfortable, don't carry it alone.

When you feel bad, tell your loved ones how you feel and find a warm embrace or a strong arm. Or find a close friend and pour out your inner troubles. Even if you choke up and can't speak, it is comforting to let him or her be by your side quietly.

In the process of telling, you will also get a kind of catharsis.

3. You can choose to divert your attention when you are psychologically uncomfortable.

If something gets sadter the more you think about it, then try not to think about it, keep yourself busy, and let yourself have no time to think about it. You focus your attention on everyday things like swimming, shopping, listening, watching TV, etc. You can also choose a place with fresh air, quiet surroundings, and undisturbed, take a position where you feel more comfortable, stand, sit or lie down, and imagine something quiet and beautiful.

Or move some of the body's big joints and muscles and do some simple exercises.

Fourth, the ultimate way to deal with psychological discomfort: peek into the depths of your heart.

There is a saying: there must be a reason for everything. Psychological discomfort may be caused by certain events in life, or after an emotional problem has been hit, negative emotions such as sadness, loneliness, and emptiness linger in the heart.

To fundamentally solve the problem of psychological discomfort, we must start with its causes. Peek deep inside and see what is swaying your heart. Try to use rational thinking to cause your discomfort in your heart, and change the event completely.

5. What to do if you are psychologically uncomfortable: look at the world with another eye.

Rational emotion** says: The cause of the discomfort in the heart is not the event itself, but the person's thoughts. So even after you look for life events that trigger discomfort in our hearts, we can free our minds by changing our perceptions.

Not everyone in this world is going well, just look at how you solve it, and be optimistic about anything you encounter and keep a normal heart. Just remember: don't give up this second, there will be a miracle in the next second, life will inevitably fall and wait to be brave to look up, the sun is always after the wind and rain!

Life is indeed not easy, and there are still many people in this society who are similar to you, but they are all living happily. As long as you work hard to take everything and take life seriously, as long as you take every day seriously, no matter what your life is, I believe that no matter how uncomfortable your heart is, you can get through it well.

I am happy when I think about it, and whenever I see my diary, I think of the time when my teacher praised me, which is very happy. Because some of the diaries I wrote were praised by the teacher in the class. Some of them are still reading aloud in front of everyone in the class.

Once, during class, the teacher had some diaries. Then I started talking about who wrote it well, and when I heard it, I already had a lot of classmates' names. I think:

There's no way I'm going to be named. Immediately, the teacher called my name, and my heart jumped with excitement. After the teacher clicked on the name, he began to comment on the diary.

The first teacher picked up my diary and said, "This time Feng Yuan wrote the best diary, especially this one about the scene of the sandstorm that day, Feng Yuan can already write a diary from the things around him." After that, the teacher asked me to come to the podium and let me read aloud.

After reading it, the teacher praised me again and said, "I now find that Feng Yuan's diary is getting better and better, and everyone should learn from Feng Yuan when writing diaries in the future." When I heard this from the teacher, I was very proud.

After class, some of my classmates came to my seat to read my diary. I am very proud to see this scene. Immediately jumped up and down to play with his classmates.

When I was playing, some of my classmates also asked me for advice. I was very happy at this time, just like a little teacher, and there were many students who came to learn how I kept a diary. I was very happy on this day.

Whenever I think about it, it's as beautiful as if I had eaten sugar. When I think about it now, I still feel so accomplished. So when I saw the diary, I was very excited because it was my grade.

You can also write an essay!!

Everyone has something on their minds, and there is no one who doesn't have them! Man is the soul of all things, and the spirit has something on his mind! The essence of the mind is the reflection in the mind of the relationship between one's existence and the conditions of existence. Most heart diseases are multi-faceted, mostly due to interaction and imitation of lead.

We start with our hearts.

The term "mind" is not a formal concept in psychology. You can look up the books on psychology. There is no "mind" in psychology.

But the common people have something on their minds. Ladies and gentlemen, I will do an on-site investigation, and if you think you have something on your mind at this moment, please raise your hand. (As a result, all hands were raised).

Everybody's raised their hand, right? Everyone has something on their minds, and there is no one who has no worries! Excuse me, I think it can be redefined. What is a person? Man is an animal with a heart! Man is the soul of all things, and the spirit has something on his mind!

What is the nature of the mind? When preparing for this lecture, I pondered for a long time, and I came up with this sentence: The mind is a reflection of the relationship between one's existence and the conditions of existence.

None of us here are studying philosophy, don't laugh at me, it's like a philosopher's words! Isn't that right? We live to exist.

The existence of you and me, the life of you and me, depends on some conditions, and you cannot live unconditionally. Do any of us dare to say that we can live unconditionally? Can you survive without oxygen?

Oxygen is what we live by.

Whether it is our body or our psyche, it is the conditions to live. My existence depends on those conditions that support my existence. Are we passive conditioned beings?

No, man has a very clever mind, and my mind knows what I need to exist, and what it is that satisfies my needs. When I have a hunch that my existential needs will not be easily satisfied, I will have a thought, and I will think about it, and I will think about it, and I will think about what to do with it. Isn't that what matters on the mind?

So, what is the mind? The essence of the mind is the reflection in my mind of the relationship between personal existence and the conditions of existence.

After going around for a long time, I actually want to say something: heart things are inevitable, and there are heart things when you are alive!