What should I do if my boyfriend is not as good to me as he used to be?

This kind of behavior is a common phenomenon among men!

Think about it, the two of you have been in love for 3 months, and the first 3 months can be said to be the best time for your love!

You are thick and I am strong, and the two of them are in the midst of missing and enthusiasm every day!

But you also have to be sensible and considerate of the other party, if you can mention it in advance, you are so busy at work, running around to pick me up from work, I am so warm, but I don't want you to be too tired because of me!

I was very considerate of my boyfriend very naturally, and I also found a step for myself! Sometimes falling in love is a skill!

You have to have faith in yourself! Think about it, if your boyfriend really has feelings for his colleagues at work, then why does he only love you now? So, sometimes, some unnecessary misunderstandings and vexatious troubles can bring depression to your boyfriend, and most importantly, don't you notice that you have become passive?

If you want your boyfriend to be good to you, then you have to think about being better for him first!

All reasons are not reasons, think about it calmly, you can't worry your parents because of the quarrel between the two of you, you have to be a smart girl, don't love rampantly, see you make a relationship, I'm anxious for you!

I now start to wonder every day whether he is in love with their colleague: such suspicions are indeed cranky.

First of all, you should trust him. After work, maybe there is something to worry about, you should ask him and share it with him. Worked definitely not as much time and experience as before. This is normal.

Trust + Accommodation + Communication = Beautiful Love.

Is it that you are not considerate enough, maybe you are not sensible, you must know that there are many people who are comparable, if he thinks that his colleague is more considerate than you in some way, it is very likely that you will be dumped, this kind of thing is the same for everyone, you have to fight for it yourself, and it is useless to change boyfriends.

It's past the love period, and it's been like this for a long time, so let's separate it appropriately.

You only wash your own clothes, and you don't wash your boyfriend If I do, I also hate you Selfish women hate the most As for your problem, it's not as good as before That's normal It's not like you're a person in the first place, plus I've been with you for a long time, and I will naturally lose my feelings for you.

I don't think so, I've been talking to him for three years, and the two of us are still in love.

Of course it has to change! Girls are getting better little by little all their lives. The temperature in the relationship comes from hugging each other for warmth, you notice that I am not so hot, either go to add firewood to carry the flame, or often hug and pass the temperature and heat to me, of course, you can also draw salary from the bottom of the kettle!

It may be that your recent behavior or actions have caused him to have a delusion, reflect on what you have done recently, if you confirm that you have not done anything wrong, and there is nothing unusual about your attitude towards him, it can only indicate the following possibilities: 1. He is a sentimental male; 2. He loves you very, very much, so much so that he suffers from gains and losses; 3. He must have heard or seen something special; 4. You have been communicating too little recently; 5. Recently, you did something that made him unhappy; 6. He's making some kind of hint ...... to youTalk to him, ask him what he means, and tell him how you feel about him.

This must be an illusion, we know that dumplings are delicious, if you are asked to eat dumplings every day, you will find that the taste of dumplings is not as good as before, and you think it is not delicious. The same is true of the feeling of the two, even if you treat her as well as you used to every day, she still doesn't feel as good as before, this is a problem with her proprioception, everyone is the same. Then you reply to her, your senses are numb, your senses are dull.

Your boyfriend says that you don't give him a sense of existence again, which means that he has no status in your heart Is it that you really think that he is not important in your heart, or does he think too much You have to tell him the truth If he loves him, you tell him the truth If you want him to have a shadow in your heart, love is true, transparent, and you say yes or no.

Then the two of you can have a deep **, because many times the emotional rupture also starts from small and medium-sized details, so we need to focus more on clearly pointing out some corresponding communication problems, so that there will be no gaps.

Your boyfriend says that you don't give him a sense of existence again, which means that he has no status in your heart Is it that you really think that he is not important in your heart, or does he think too much You have to tell him the truth If he loves him, you tell him the truth If you want him to have a shadow in your heart, love is true, transparent, and you say yes or no.

My boyfriend said I wasn't as good to him as I used to be, how do I recover? I think you can say that I haven't been in touch with you lately because I've been busy.

You should take the initiative to communicate with your boyfriend, ask him why he did it, and if it is your own reason, promise the other person to correct it, and communicate with your boyfriend more often.

You can find a chance to talk to your boyfriend and see what he thinks, and if he thinks so himself, then you can break up.

I think I should go on a trip with my boyfriend, something that the two of us haven't done before, so that we can go back to the way before.

First of all, the first thing you have to do, you have to think about it yourself, you have to find out the reason, why he didn't treat you as well as he used to? The question is on which person? It's something that causes him not to be as good to you as he used to be.

Second, if he doesn't treat you as well as he used to, will you still like him? You have to tell whether you like him as a person or how he feels good about you. Because if you like him as a person, then you will accept that he is not as good to you as before, and you will slowly adapt to his changes, but if you envy the feeling that you like him to be good to you, then you will not be able to accept his changes before and after, but you must also face this situation rationally.

Thirdly, whether you can accept that he is not as good to you as he used to be, you must face it rationally and accept it calmly. Don't argue with him, quarrel with him. Because there is still affection between the two of you, feelings are very precious, don't wear out this precious affection little by little because of the quarrel between you.

Even if he treats you badly now, or if you don't have the same feelings as before, you have to be as rational as possible and don't quarrel with him.

Finally, when you find out that he is not as good to you as he used to be, you have to understand that any relationship will have a lull period. Feelings are a matter between two people, when you have a good feeling about you before, you have to take the initiative to talk to him and communicate the situation. And if you can live like a fish in water in this situation, then congratulations, the relationship between you has not faded, but his kindness to you and his sweet words have turned into bits and pieces in life.

Every relationship has a period of passionate love.

In the quiet period, whether a relationship can last for a long time does not lie in the intense giving and giving, but after a period of intense time, the dullness left behind. Whether you can survive the dullness smoothly is the most important thing.

I will ask him why, if he doesn't love him, then break up decisively, because it's not particularly good for both of you.

Then I may take the initiative to say these things, and then I will tell the other person what to do, and hope that the other person can improve the situation.

I would have chosen to break up with him, he may have liked someone else, changed his mind, and no longer loved me so much.

You can have a good talk with your boyfriend, tell your boyfriend what is in your heart, and you should ask your boyfriend to make some changes. You also have to give your boyfriend some freshness and create some surprises for your boyfriend to get back in love.

Stop losses in time. If he doesn't love it, he doesn't love it, and instead of forcing it, it's better to break up as soon as possible. Long pain is better than short pain, let each other go.

You must calm your mind, don't be too careful, you must constantly improve your strength, and you must become very attractive, so that you can change the status quo.

You should choose to break up, because only in this way can you live the life you want and avoid being wronged in this relationship.

When you travel, you find that your boyfriend is not gentle and considerate to you, and it is not as good as usual, probably because you are tired from traveling, so you ignore your feelings, you can take the initiative to communicate with your boyfriend, to communicate, and you can never break up with him because of this matter.

Love is managed by two people, this is actually not a problem, whether to continue to go on, is related to their attitude towards this relationship, if you really pay the feelings, how to be willing to let go easily, the relationship between two people is deep enough, distance is really not a problem.

How to keep the relationship fresh in a long-distance relationship.

Everyone's fear of long-distance relationships is nothing more than that they can't see each other often because of distance, and they are afraid that the relationship will become weaker and weaker. I think that as long as both parties keep their relationship fresh enough, the two of them will definitely go on until they get married and have children.

So how do you do that? Two people can plan for the future, such as setting a goal, both parties promise to meet every once in a while, no matter how busy they are, they will get married in a few years after their jobs are stable, and they often look forward to their married life when chatting, and the two of them work together for this goal.

Trust each other and don't be suspicious.

Long-distance relationships are sometimes cranky because the other party does not pick up their ** in time and reply to their own messages. Especially girls, who are more delicate and think more.