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People just want to live happily, no matter what attitude their friends have towards themselves, they don't have to care, they don't have to care, they just try to do their best, life is short, and they live every day happily to be worthy of themselves.

I think you can try to accept things that don't interest you, so that you will definitely have some common language and they will naturally be friends with you! Then you may ask why you have to accept other things that you are interested in, yes, you can not accept it, you can also try to say your heart, exchange your heart for other people's hearts, and talk to him about your own heart when others will definitely feel you, and treat him as their own bosom friend, they will naturally be friends with you! You say you want to change your introverted personality, how can you do it?

It's very simple, look at everything, don't care too much about what others think of you, know that you are the most important. I think you have to be confident first of all, if you can't do it yourself, others will not be much better. Then, communicate more with some familiar friends in the group, and through them to meet the people you want to know, or the people you like, and over time you will find the sweetness of interacting with people.

And the more you want to attract the attention of others, the more you always don't want others to ignore it, this is a very simple truth, others will think that you are too contrived. (A bit too much) come on! Good luck with the many friends you make!

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Sorry, let me tell you my question. I feel that I am easily ignored in a bunch of friends, I feel that I am not valued, and I am easy to give up on the affairs of three people, and I often wonder if it is because I am too joking, so my friends have been looking for where my bottom line is, because I am too joking, so I can do anything.

It's that you ask too much, if your attention to your friends is just to get back their attention to you, then it's just a transaction, but you know, the transaction will inevitably suffer, if you pay attention to your friends because of your own inner feelings, your feelings are exhausted, what is there to regret.

A person who can take his feelings very seriously, I think he will manage his feelings well and be very kind in his heart! But you said that you felt neglected, and you didn't call ...... on your birthdayDidn't say hello ...... when I went abroadI doubt that you have "heavy feelings", whether you are sincere to your friend, if you answer yes, then it is your so-called friend's problem, since you are sincere to them, and they respond like this, this friend has no ......Who is good to yourself, who is a true friend, you know best in your heart!! Truly go to a friend who understands you.

In fact, you don't have to think like this, because as we grow older, our circle of friends will get bigger and bigger, if they are your best friends, they will not forget you, since they are friends, don't care about these, happy, you will definitely meet a confidant who shares your heart.

Sometimes you can't be too careful, too sensitive, maybe they don't care about their behavior to bring you a lot of trouble, but you yourself are trapped in it, can't extricate yourself, how worthless, many people are just passers-by in your life, care about a little bit of sincerity to your friends.

If you have a lot of friends, it means that your person is good, but it is difficult for a person to make good friends, and good friends must be heart-to-heart.

You may not have a particularly good bosom friend, you have a lot of so-called friends, but fighting with you is not the best, I suggest you make a special friend, when you are unhappy or lonely, only he can comfort you, so that you don't feel lonely. Ignore your friends.

Be cheerful, try to find something that everyone likes to talk about, and sometimes be humorous, in fact, it is also possible that you think so, and most of your friends should care about you.

In the same way, there are two possibilities, one is that things will not be ignored if they gather like like, and the other is that you are not sincere to others. I think I'm easy to be ignored because I personally don't like to follow others in everything, so, I don't like the leader to revolve around them, so I will always be ignored.

Some people, just like me, I think I'm the kind of person who can't have too many friends, I care about the friendship between friends, but I really have never had, my real good friends, until now, there are no 3 people, I don't know if they feel that I don't need friends, or I'm really so difficult to contact, but I believe that friends are not more, as long as there are one or two are sincere, maybe your real good friends you haven't found yet, You are both still looking for each other ...

It doesn't have to be all your friend's fault! Sometimes one's own character flaws are the reason why there are many friends, but they are not close! Of course, if all your friends are like this, this friend might as well not do it!

Sometimes, keep friends in your heart. It's not as simple as lip service. Although you long for friendship, but you don't have the right way to seek it, how can you find true friends in the vast sea of people?

Like you, I feel the same way all the time. There are many unbearable lightness in life, and I sometimes can't allow my friends to ignore them, but everyone is an individual, let alone a friend, and there are many opposites between relatives. It's good to be yourself, and do your part as a friend.

Be kind to yourself and always remember that. Calm the bowl of water in your heart, no matter who it is for.

Honestly, I don't understand if it's the way you get along with each other or if they really don't care about you. If you want to be good, then the birthday is not a question of whether to call or not, but a question of what you want to do together, is it just for you, or is this how they communicate with each other?

There are too many passers-by in life, some are just a moment, some will appear all the time, we can't choose what others think, but we know what we have done, and there is a kind of giving that is not reciprocated, isn't it? Don't be distressed, because it's important to be happy! When you go abroad, you have to take good care of yourself, because there are people who care about us besides us! Hehe!

With the change of the environment in life, different people will appear around you, what kind of people are worthy of your deep friendship, and which people just nod and say hello to friends, it all depends on you. Choose good people and make friends, often think about their own faults, people's hearts, and no desire is wide. You don't have to deliberately pursue any result in doing things, just seek to be worthy and have no regrets.

When people walk in the world, do more good deeds, accumulate more virtues, and good fortune will naturally come.

I wish you the best of luck soon, hehe.

Focus on yourself and take care of yourself.

Judging by what you've described, most of it should be your own problem, you're a bit sensitive, introverted, a little extreme, and care too much about what others think of you. Usually you may communicate less with others, most of them are immersed in their own world, communicate with others more in the future, participate in some group activities, say what you think directly, don't always be suspicious, this is not good for you and others, do what you think is right, don't care what others think of you, because many things stand from different angles, and the views will be different. I wish you a cheerful and happy life.

I don't know if it's right or not, but I feel that the subject is a bit introverted, lonely, and lacks attention, so I kind of want to do something to attract the attention of others.

In this case, you just have fewer friends, try to change yourself and make more friends.

Yes, sometimes it doesn't matter on the surface, but when you encounter something and have a disagreement with your friends, you always think about the feelings of others. I often think that it's all small things, and it's not necessary, and then I endure it myself. Hehe, I'm the same way, saying that many times, I often get hurt.

It is recommended that you take into account your own feelings a little when you take care of others in the future

If people are too good to others and wronged themselves, they are not honest, but fools!

Everyone is an individual, and we all live for ourselves, not in someone else's world!

I feel like trying to be my best and being the best I can be. The most important thing is not to care about other people's eyes and opinions.

Others ignore themselves, ignore this kind of trouble, and should respond in time.

You still have to work hard to be yourself, others ignore you many times because you are not good enough. Of course, if you are excellent, why should you care about his feelings?

It's just a feeling, don't be entangled in this feeling, if you want to change this situation, you must take the initiative to get along with others, and treat friends with sincerity.

If others ignore themselves, if they don't want to be ignored by others, they must increase their sense of existence, whether it is from all aspects of their work, they can take on their own responsibilities.

If you don't want to say what I should do about this self-troubled thought, then you should just be lively and open your mind.

Then be still and do your own thing.

Don't be distracted by outside vision.

If you have time, exercise a lot and read a lot of books.

aqui te amo。

It's normal to be ignored by others, after all, we still have to face the world alone.

I think you're taking yourself too seriously, and you're too sensitive, and there's no standard.

In fact, you have to figure out a question, do you care about your presence among others. If that's the case, then you can never get yourself out of it. In fact, everyone we meet now, the final result will still be separated from us, even if it is your parents, they are the ones who gave birth to you and raised you, but it is only a period of time with you, not to mention any relatives, classmates, friends, colleagues, the road of life is always your own walk, that is, a lonely walk.

You came alone when you were born, and you will leave alone when you will leave in the future. If you can understand these things, you will feel that you are not too important in the eyes of others. Indeed, is there any existence of you, and people are not the same life?

From another point of view, with or without the existence of other people, you still have to live the same life. So there's no need to care about your presence among others, it doesn't mean that you become an introvert and don't communicate with other people, because if you don't do that, people will think you're abnormal. It's just that you have to understand a truth, when everyone laughs and cheers together, you have to laugh together, but in the bottom of your heart, you have to leave a little lonely place for yourself, this is for yourself, because this is the most real.

If you always feel that others are ignoring you, then you ignore others and you will not be troubled.

As human beings living in this world, we all have more or less some understanding of ourselves, as well as some understanding of others. But there are still some people in this world who are very unaware of themselves.

A person who lacks an understanding of themselves is often very nonexistent, and they may often fall into a state of emptiness, emptiness, and confusion, something like "I don't know what I want".

Explain that you care about him very much You have to remember that you are unique People have their own advantages It is strange to take everything seriously and not to die I hope that I will be self-oriented in my future life Sometimes women have to be willing to give up to have something to gain Will control their emotions.

I don't feel anything about this.

You should get out of this state of mind as soon as possible, and many people will encounter situations that are more or less neglected. Sometimes you want to talk to others, they ignore or skip you directly, don't want to pay attention to you, and are always talking about their own things, feeling that they can't fit in, and over time they habitually don't speak in the group and remain silent.

Your friends go to the cafeteria together to eat, and you're awkwardly sitting alone in your seat. Suddenly, one of them finds you sitting in the classroom and says, "Hey, you're there, let's go together." "You don't know anything about their plans, then you refuse, and they go.

You alone find an empty seat to eat, surrounded by strangers who sit table after table, chatting and playing with each other. You habitually take out your phone and look at it without knowing what you're looking at.

Your classmates come in a group, see you, and greet you with a smile: "Eating alone." "Well, yes, do you want to be together.

You say, gesturing to the other three empty seats. "No, there is another classmate later, and I can't sit here. He said.

Then, they walked to another table and sat down. At this moment, the embarrassment that had been reduced gradually reappeared.

Lots of friends, but always alone. There are many times like this, going to the cafeteria alone, going to the library alone, and no longer feeling embarrassed and embarrassed to be left behind by friends, the following situations can help you break through this state of mind.

It may be that we just treat each other as friends, and you have no place in each other's hearts, so there will be a gap between the two people who pay unequally. When there is something to find you, they are more enthusiastic, and when they have nothing to find you, they are cold, this kind of person must not have deep friendships, such people completely use you as a tool.

If a friend is in this state of hot and cold for a long time, it may be just because we can help them do something, which may make us very conflicted, so don't be taken advantage of.

The so-called friend is to be able to think for you when encountering things, and to be able to think from your standpoint, so there is no need to continue this friendship without thinking about others, but only thinking about yourself.

Please try to be cheerful and optimistic to improve your self-confidence. It may be because I am not good at communicating with others, or I can say that I have a little low self-esteem and dare not talk to others more, which has caused a phenomenon of coldness.