Why is my dad so stingy? Am I being too stingy or is it my family s fault?

Is it because your financial management ability is very poor, or your family conditions are not very good, he has to think about your future life, such as buying a house, getting married...

Or your own habits.

Anyway, this money will definitely be used on you in the end, don't be angry with him, he must be making long-term plans for you.

If your own lifestyle is like this, you can tell him that the current price of goods is not as good as it is for a few years by shopping together or by the things of people around you, so that he can realize that some expenses are necessary.

Besides, finding a girlfriend itself costs a lot more than when you are alone, so you have to ask him to understand you and tell him for example.

When I was in love with my husband, it was also his mother who controlled him to 500 a month, although I also thought he was stingy and couldn't understand, but he had a very good way to take me to eat that kind of special snacks every once in a while, affordable and not expensive, but it made people feel very comfortable. Most of the time, they take me to eat at home, and the meals are very rich, no worse than outside, on the contrary, they can also increase the relationship with their families.

Learn to make the most of it

Brother, don't blame your father, do you know, my father is a psychopath, I have seen him no more than 10 times since I was a child, and I still want to wait for me to graduate in two years, so that I can support him, and as a result... He passed away last year... Do you know the pain of losing a loved one in the world?

Do you know this great regret? "The tree wants to be quiet but the wind does not stop, and the child wants to raise but does not wait. "You have to understand your father's hard work, don't live up to your father's expectations of you, you are his son, he can't hurt you.

Even my father, he kept the title deed well before he died, because he knew he had a son... Brother, you are content, and your father is caring for you, find a chance to talk to your father, how can there be a father and son in this world who can't wipe their faces, what is the quarrel... While you are able now, treat your parents well and let them worry less.

Alas...

Did you just come out to work? That's definitely the way it looks.

Your father spent a lot of money for your school and work, and now he is very tight on hand, there is no extra money, you can only understand and accept, there is no need to force it.

You have to believe that it is your father who loves you the most, and it is your father who will always support you behind.

Your father is stingy with you because he is a very calculating person, and he also saves money, so he wants you to learn this spirit from him.

Don't waste every penny of hard-earned money, because it's really not easy, if you want to be able to live, buy what you should buy, don't buy the strength that shouldn't be bought, it's not that he's stingy, but he has high hopes for you, and every penny now should be spent on the blade in the future.

There is no father in the world who will be stingy with his daughter, it can only be said that he has some unspeakable secrets, you have to understand him, you can't say that your father is stingy because of this incident.

Your dad probably wants you to develop a good habit of saving from an early age.

When you think about it, it's a good sign.

Able to gradually develop their own planning ability.

Society is built up of money.

How to make more money and how to spend your hard-earned money is a big deal.

It's not that Dad is stingy with you, it should be that he thinks that some things should be strict.

If you think so, because your father thinks that you have grown up and participated in the work, invite him to dinner, what's wrong? He's raised you so big.

Hahaha. Your dad may really run out of money.

It is better to rely on no one than on yourself.

Can you baba daddy, you, you, you.

Maybe I'm really stingy, and I don't feel anything else.

Some time ago, chatting with a friend, he accompanied a younger brother on a trip in Hokkaido. I asked him if he was having fun. He told me that he and his brother were not all the way, so the journey was not very pleasant.

He told me in detail that my brother was pestering his parents to go to Japan to play, and his mother was not at ease, so he invited my friend to follow my brother over.

His younger brother is not from a wealthy family, and he has just entered college and has no ability to make money on his own, but he has the ability to spend money. Let's take a small thing, the price in Japan is very expensive, and a piece of cantaloupe costs about 30 yuan.

A friend asked me, "Can you agree that a child who can't earn money yet, who doesn't blink at home, who doesn't blink just because he's thirsty, refuses to buy water, but eats three slices of cantaloupe in one go?" "This kid, I think of a very impressive sentence:

Your parents are still in the middle of nowhere, but you are showing off your poetry and the distance. There are a lot of people like this around me. Another friend of mine has a very average family condition, but he lives a very "high-class" life.

She thinks the unit lunch is unpalatable, so she goes out to the restaurant at noon every day, and she must order a cup of milk tea for more than ten yuan in the afternoon. When I go out shopping with her, she will always pull me to eat very popular and expensive restaurants. Traveling with her, she has always bought and bought all kinds of food and souvenirs with inflated prices in the scenic spot, and spent money like running water.

The stinky tofu wasn't good, she tasted a piece, spit it out, frowned in disgust, and threw it away.

I didn't dare to persuade her to spend money and not to be too lavish. Every time she tried to persuade her, she squinted unconvinced, brought out two of her famous quotes, and opened her mouth with confidence.

The first sentence, "Girl, be rich", and the second sentence, "When you come out to play, you must be happy, don't care too much about money", it seems that if I persuade her to save appropriately, it seems that I am too stingy and stingy. I thought she must have a good family, until I went to her house one time. She lived in a house on the outskirts of the city, old, damp, narrow and small, and had to climb up a very steep staircase from the first floor to the second floor.

Her grandmother sat at home picking up vegetables in her high school uniform jacket. She asked her grandmother why she didn't go to play cards, and the old man said: I lost dozens of dollars in the past two days, and I am not happy to go today.

I borrowed their bathroom, and my grandmother didn't forget to tell me to use the water in the bucket to wash the mop, don't press the button, the water will be flushed, and it will be a waste of money.

It is such a thrifty old man who gives all the savings he has saved by selling vegetables to his granddaughter and lets her squander it. Having dinner with her parents at noon, her father said that he didn't expect her to make money to support the family, and the little salary she earned would be good for herself to eat and wear.

My dad will never think I'm stingy, he will only give, not take.

Experience only you know, otherwise you are lacking in heart!

Daddy's deformation is rich, and Dad likes this, and he likes to be eccentric, so this is what makes me stingy.

Are you male or female? The man is the father's former enemy, and the female is the lover of the past life.

He's certainly not a good father, and parents are usually very content, and I won't be too little if you give it to me, and it will feel like you've grown up.

Generally, fathers will not dislike their children for being stingy, you can change yourself if you are really stingy.

Parents rarely think their children are stingy, and it is generally a joke to say it once in a while, treat parents well, and don't worry about the elderly.

Don't you even have a hundred dollars?

Break it off with your sister commercially (including secrets)! Emotionally as if nothing had happened! Remember, there are no permanent friends in the mall, only eternal interests!

Someone like your sister who can't keep a secret, are you willing to tell her your secret? Also, this matter cannot be mentioned again in the future! Later, your parents told you why they didn't want your sister to help?

You say that helping is to help, not to help outsiders and give up their own jobs!

Relax appropriately. Maybe you're too busy taking care of the family and don't communicate with your family too much for them to misunderstand you. Or maybe they think you're too busy and don't spend time with them.

So thought of this way to respond to your busyness ... The suggestion is to communicate more with your family. The days will be very happy ...

Sister, I comfort and comfort you, don't be too anxious, maybe you can talk to your family calmly, although your sister is at fault, but you can't always blame her, after all, it's all a family, sister, I'm not as big as you, I don't know as much as you, I can only say this, the real solution can only be done by yourself, right, okay, don't be angry, angry is not good for your health, the family still needs you very much, don't hurt your feelings because of this matter, it's not worth it, right.

Since they do this to you, you can get married.

Don't wait for him to buy you something, what you want to eat, what you want, or what gifts you want for the holidays, just buy it. I was at the supermarket today, took a pack of chicken tenders, and wanted to go back and fry them. He saw it directly and put it back:

I don't like to eat, what are you buying this for, waste. I took it back: I like it.

He put it back again: I don't like to eat this, waste. I took it back again, and expected to be tough :

I just want to eat. I bought it. I asked him again what he had for lunch today, and he said that you didn't buy chicken tenders.

You don't like what you buy me. Then buy something without a bag, because the bag charges 3 cents, buy flowers and gifts to surprise these, it's best not to even think about it, there is no hope and no disappointment. Buy what you want.

Once I was sick and had an infusion in a small clinic, my dad asked me by the way if I had a ** disease on my face that could be cured, and the doctor said that he had a medicine there that could be used and asked me if I wanted it, but my dad didn't speak, and I said that it was still incurable. The number of times the whole family goes out to eat together can be counted on one hand, except for the banquet. So one time I couldn't cook at noon, my dad said let's go to a restaurant to eat, at that time I always thought that the restaurant was very expensive, so he said I wanted to eat instant noodles, but my dad thought I was willful, and dragged me to the restaurant, and finally I couldn't stand crying and was kicked.

In addition to the breakfast money, I didn't give pocket money, and the breakfast in elementary school was a box of braised beef noodles, which is strange that I still love to eat. When I was in high school, clothes were never too expensive, I remember once I took a fancy to a 185 dress, I looked at it twice and felt like it but didn't dare to ask for it, my mother was in the store and the waiter played a round and said that we were generally dressed, and we didn't buy it in the end, and after a few days I saw someone else wearing that dress on the road and wanted to cry.

Coordinates Tianjin, my parents have a monthly income of 5,000 yuan each. I'm at home during the holidays, he doesn't buy vegetables, if he does, he buys vegetarian dishes, cooks vegetarian dishes. I haven't eaten meat in a long time.

Even if the three of them are at home, they eat steamed buns in the morning, a vegetarian dish at noon, and no meals at night. Give me 100 a month for my living expenses, yes, they don't care about my lunch. When other girls have nice clothes to wear, I can only wear them, and I have been wearing sportswear for several years.

It feels so pathetic.

Not only to himself, but also to me, asking for money is the same as collecting debts, I am growing my body, eating meat, as if I want his life.

When I asked him to pay the tuition, he could get (my fitness card, my New Oriental course, my extracurricular class) and scolded me for having no future, saying that I couldn't be promising, and he could get here, and I was too.