After three years of college, I was finally making trouble with others, and I was very uncomfortable

True friends, it's natural to be together when you're together. A good buddy is one who smiles behind your back when you are proud, drinks with you all night when you are frustrated, listens to you and drinks all night, and goes crazy with you.

The landlord said that he found that his friends had other friends besides you, and he was a hundred times better to other friends than to you. I used to be like this, but now I analyze that I pay too much attention to my own feelings and focus on myself. Friends care for each other and take care of each other, not by the people at home.

Be open-minded, cheerful, smile more, think more from the perspective of friends, and believe that the good friends around the landlord will continue to increase!

The university will really be like this, but don't take it too seriously, there is always a fate to come together, or get along happily, that is, don't always pay stupidly by yourself, keep some eyes, the important thing is to take care of all your own things, this is the king, and the rest will share some experiences, and eat, drink and have fun with everyone. It's best to be able to juggle the clock, and that's where your relationships begin.

I'm just like you, to be honest, I couldn't have imagined that my university would be like this two years ago, I was alone in a strange big city, without any relatives and friends, and when I first arrived, I was extremely resistant to everything, and even had a few fights. But gradually I changed from loss to pessimism, and I realized that life has to be created by myself! So I started to develop more hobbies, such as learning a musical instrument, practicing street dance, and traveling during the holidays, which are really useful.

Now I don't pay attention to people I don't like when I meet them, I try to get along with people who are worth befriending, live my own little life every day, put on headphones or go to read my favorite books and immerse myself in my own little world when I don't have good friends around, everything in the world has nothing to do with me This may be the best way in college, most people in college are similar to society, you will have friends with people who have people, it's very rare to meet people like in high school when everyone has nothing and can still play very happy, People who have a common language. In fact, be optimistic, send more smiles to others, give others more help, don't worry too much about some of the things that you don't have, and be yourself. I hope that my little experience can help you and exchange any opinions.

The proportion of girls' lives and love is much greater than that of boys.

So, she basically has no money. It's just that sometimes I am coquettish to you and ask for comfort.

The love when I was a student must have been a mistake in my studies. If you don't contact for two hours, you lose your temper, which is more important than your studies.

So, communication is necessary, and learning is also necessary.

As for how to adjust, there are still two words: communication.

These two words can run through the whole of your love life, and you can have a beginning and an end.

Learn more empathy, be more tolerant, and observe more, women are idealists and need spiritual comfort!

You can't do it, you should spend the time with her on writing articles, you match her more, it's okay, if you can't do it, you will have a May Day holiday, and the overlord will bow hard.

Your emotional intelligence is too low, and it's the fault of Chinese education.

This problem is easy to solve.

You get straight to the point and ask you why they don't like you.

If you don't rely on them, you can do whatever you want.

There are things they can't do, but you do. They will learn from you like you, and it doesn't matter if they are relieved.

This is also normal, because everyone comes from all over the world, and at first, no one understands each other's temper or personality. Slowly I came back to understand that I was like this at the beginning Actually, they are not bad By the way, which school do you have? Maybe we're alumni.

First of all, it is necessary to make it clear that the university is a small society, and it is not certain that you like to make friends, the friendship of gentlemen is as light as water, and the friendship of villains is sweet, especially for girls, you must grasp the method Personal opinion is to listen more and talk less, listen more to your roommates, listen to their opinions, take more classes with them, eat, study, and go shopping, of course, you can't rely on After all, your roommates are not necessarily good girls Or be confident and independent, as long as you believe that you have your own characteristics, girls and boys will be attracted to you Come on elementary school girls.

Start by identifying your bad habits and then slowly correct them. Secondly, they will be compensated to go out to play and go shopping, and participate in more dormitory activities. Finally, buy some fruit in the dormitory and go back to the dormitory to eat it separately, when there is any happy event, such as getting a scholarship, bursary, etc.

This is to invite the people in the dormitory to go out for a meal. I feel a little better that way.

But you have done it, and you have done everything you want to do.

There are some things they can't do, and this problem is easy to solve.

You get straight to the point and ask you why they don't like you.

Don't rely on them.

Then forget it, is it angry or what?

Take a step back and open the sky, take a step back first, I believe he doesn't want to be unpleasant with his roommate.

Leave the good, after all, it's all gone!

Be kind.

If there is nothing particularly big in the conflict.

Try to tolerate humility.

In this way, you can get to know more people.

Is there any relationship between the two?

This is the first step towards collective integration into society, and there will be many such situations in the future. Find a way that is acceptable to you to blend in with everyone around you! The only way to maturity.

There must be confusion, and it is the best way to communicate with her (him) in the roommate's small habit, but if we can't change it, we can only adapt to it or ignore it. Unless his good habits seriously affect his personal life and study problems. In getting along with others, change the difference between strong and weak, and learn to make yourself happy and others comfortable.

I think this is something that can't be helped, it would be better to solve it in a friendly way, and if you think about it every day, if you don't communicate with your roommates, it will affect your mood.

It doesn't affect you, so bear with me.

You should make it clear to them and you should be integrated into them.

You know that there is a time limit to how much people love something. She's tired now, and she just won't be interested in you anymore.