Does family poverty have a big impact on children, and what are the effects of family poverty on chi

Professor Li Meijin found that criminal psychology has a great relationship with the family environment, parental education, living habits, etc. in childhood, so parents want their children to develop well in the future and be smarter.

However, with the increasing price of goods, the cost of raising a child is very huge, and even many young people choose not to have children, because they can't afford to raise them, such as children's milk powder, clothing, these necessities are a large part of the cost, and education, health needs are only a lot more, so many parents in order to save money for the family, some parents think that unnecessary things will be cut off for their children, but they don't know that once some things are broken, it will affect the child's brain development.

Li Meijin: No matter how poor the family is, these 4 things can't be broken too early, which will affect the child's brain development.

1. Milk powder. As we all know, most of the nutrition after the birth of the child is obtained through breast milk, but as the child grows older, the mother's breast milk supply may be insufficient or the child comes to breastfeed at an age, at this time milk powder is needed to replace breast milk.

However, because of the importance of milk powder and the fact that milk powder contains a large number of nutrients, its cost cannot be reduced, so the milk powder is very expensive, and the child eats very fast, if the child only drinks milk powder, he can drink a barrel a week, and a bucket of milk powder is generally three or four hundred yuan, so there are many parents who will cut off their children's milk powder in advance in order to save money, so that children eat adult food.

If you choose cheap milk powder in order to save money, it is easy to make the "big-headed doll" (referring to the illness caused by the baby's consumption of inferior milk powder) happen again.

2. Toys. Many parents will choose not to prepare toys for their children due to limited family conditions, or cut off their children's toys in advance, so as to reduce family expenses.

What does poverty mean for children?

The rich can never understand the difficulties of the poor, just as the day does not understand the darkness of the night. Poverty means to children:

1) Backward education. They lack learning resources, do not have good teachers, do not have a good learning environment, and are relatively backward in their accepted concepts.

2) Health crisis. I can't afford expensive medical bills, and seeing a doctor is a luxury. The resulting high mortality rate makes them face birth, old age, sickness and death earlier.

3) Social deficits. People are divided into groups, and children from poor families are ostracized many times. Since childhood, they have lived a relatively casual life, without too many rules and regulations in etiquette, and walking on the country road is the happiest childhood.

As a result, their social skills are often limited.

4) Fragile character. The unequal gaze from others causes a complex sense of loss, rejection, humiliation, and disidentification, resulting in low self-esteem.

5) Living in poverty. This is the most direct reflection of poverty. In the eyes of children, they don't want to dress charmingly and beautifully, they just want to be warm in winter; Don't ask for big fish and big meat, just don't go hungry. In a small tiled house, light a candle and light up a home.

Let's relive the story of "chiseling the wall and stealing the light", can you feel Kuang Heng's inner thirst for knowledge? You will say, "I won't be so poor today that I don't even have a lamp", but it is such an inconspicuous lamp, the "sun" in the eyes of countless children - they are even so poor that they have no concept of "rich life", and they pick up the burden of life prematurely, and every opportunity to study is like a life-saving straw for them, which is extremely precious.

Family poverty can have a negative impact on a child's physical and mental health and development. Here are some of the possible impacts:

1.Malnutrition: Poor families can lead to inadequate variety, quality, and quantity of food for children. This can affect your child's health and physical development.

2.Lack of access to education: Activities across economic classes and the increase in the cost of education have led to fewer educational opportunities for children from lower families. The lack of a good educational background can make it difficult for these children to pursue their career aspirations.

3.Lack of clothing and housing: Children from low-income families may lack good clothing and housing, which can affect their health and relationships.

4.No cultural interest: Children may not have access to cultural activities (e.g., **, dance, or art) due to poverty, which may lead to children in poverty developing less talent and less interest in the cultural field.

5.Mental health problems: Lack of basic material and social support can lead to mental health problems. They may feel frustrated, hopeless, and some children may even sin because they have no other way out.

In conclusion, family poverty can have a negative impact on children's physical and mental health and development. Wildlife** and society should provide support and resources to help families overcome these barriers and protect their children's welfare.

1. Low self-esteem.

Since I was a child, my family was relatively poor, or I was not really poor myself, but my parents wanted to educate them in poverty. I often say next to my child, "My family is relatively poor and I don't have much money, so I can save it", "I work so hard every day just to make money so that you can study hard" and so on, the child listens a lot and will indeed remember.

2. Short-sightedness and lack of broad-mindedness.

Because my family was poor when I was a child, I was usually used to saving, and I may be more reluctant to participate in various activities, or to travel, to see more customs, so I can only stay in my own small world. And there are some parents, Keji Bend can take their children to travel regularly, to various high-end places, children have seen a lot, and they will not be timid when encountering any situation.

3. Lack of security.

Feel. Due to the lack of money, the things that children want cannot be satisfied with their luck, whether it is the clothes they want, toys, or the way they usually travel, they will be affected. Over time, because the child is always in a state of loss, he will always be unable to get what he wants, and he will become insecure.

When you grow up like this, you will take money very seriously, and feel that only money can give you enough security.

Since I was a child, the economic conditions in my family were not very good, and as a child from a poor family, it was only when I grew up that I really realized that there were the following aspects that made me feel powerless.

First of all, for the children of poor families, there is a very classic sentence, that is, many children from poor families work hard all their lives, which is only the starting point when some people are born, and it is even far from the starting point of the birth of some children from rich families. Especially for the children of poor families, after graduating from college and stepping into the workplace, this feeling is more obvious when they work hard, and the income they get from their work can only barely maintain their basic life, and those children of rich families do not need to work hard at all to have no worries about food and clothing, and live a glamorous life, which will naturally make the children of poor families feel helpless and lost.

On the other hand, for the children of poor families, what makes them feel powerless should be some unreasonable phenomena encountered in the workplace, they work hard, cannot be recognized by their superiors, and are even criticized or even punished by their superiors for no reason, but in this case, they can only endure it, because without the current job, it is difficult for them to find a suitable job again, and it is difficult for them to survive, and for the children of rich families, this situation is encountered.

They can quit their jobs and find a job they like, even if they can't find a job they like and don't have to worry about their livelihood. But even so, for children from poor families, if they want to change this status quo, they still need their own efforts, and they need to improve their own cognition and pattern to achieve it.

We often hear our parents say to us, our family has no money, you must study hard and don't cause trouble. It is not a bad thing to truthfully inform your child about the family situation and persuade your child to study hard, but it is easy for your child to have these four sad manifestations when he grows up. Let's see if you've been hit?

1.Even if you have the ability to make money, you will subconsciously avoid high-end places when you see them.

In fact, not all luxuriously decorated places have high consumption, but some children who have been told that their families are very poor since they were young will subconsciously feel that luxuriously decorated places must be places they can't afford. Even if they grow up and have the ability to make a lot of money, they will still subconsciously avoid luxurious places, because they always feel in their hearts that such places should not be places they can afford, and this kind of avoidance will always accompany these children to grow up.

2.No matter how good you are, you can't restrain your inferiority complex.

Everyone has vanity and wants to be envied in a certain aspect, and children are no exception. But some parents, regardless of whether they have money at home or not, always like to say in front of their children that our family conditions are not good, there is no money to buy beautiful stationery for you, and there is no money to buy clothes for you, you must study hard and make money to buy for your family in the future. Regardless of the psychology of parents who say this, they should not always say such things to their children.

It is true that children should not have excessive comparison psychology, but moderately satisfying children's vanity will be more beneficial to children's growth. On the contrary, if parents have always emphasized the fact that the child is very poor, then the seeds of inferiority complex will be planted in the child's heart, and even if the child grows up excellently in the future, he will still be inferior and cowardly in his heart.

3.When you meet someone who is better off than your own family, you can't help but feel a sense of distance.

Many children who have been instilled with a very poor family will involuntarily define themselves as poor people who must work hard, and they will subconsciously think that they are not all the way to those who have a good family, no matter how pleasant the initial relationship is, they will have a sense of distance in the following interactions. In fact, whether the two parties can become friends is not directly related to each other's family conditions, but the impact of this kind of original family makes them unable to see themselves correctly in front of people with good family backgrounds, especially some girls, who will define their relationship with people with good family backgrounds in six words.

4.When doing things, you lack the courage to move forward, and you often want to do it but don't dare to do it.

If you want to keep improving, then you must challenge yourself in the next journey of life to do more things that you have never challenged. Of course, it takes a certain amount of courage to step out of your current comfort zone and challenge something new that you have never been exposed to, but most children who are overly poor lack this courage. When they struggle to a certain extent, it is difficult to convince themselves to make changes, and even if they really want to challenge, they will only imagine the challenge scene in their hearts, and they are rarely able to do what they want to do bravely.