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There are many 23 or 4-year-old girls in my unit who get married and have children. Getting married as soon as you graduate: When you just graduated, you were satisfied with your marriage, but you were a little uncomfortable when the child arrived.
Sometimes we have to ask ourselves when we are mature. It's hard to estimate. At this time, thinking about this problem is a "common problem" for girls.
So don't worry, I wish you and your future baby happiness!
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1 The family can afford it, 2 It can be taken care of by oneself.
Are you satisfied?
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From a physiological point of view, it's not early, it's just right.
But psychologically speaking, I think it's a little early, you also say that you feel that you are immature, and you are psychologically not ready to have children, which means that it is early, don't you want to play for a few more years now, don't you want to play, but you don't want to tie yourself to the child too early. Personally, I would recommend waiting for yourself and your family to be ready, and then think about it carefully. Hope it helps.
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If you decide you want to, do it early. After all, my own physical condition, as well as the energy of the elderly in the family, can help. The later you get, the more tired you are. In fact, it is only after having children that you really mature, especially men.
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Does it matter? and age. As long as you think that your family conditions are ripe, you can want it, and you must enjoy the joy of family as soon as possible.
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It's okay to be 23 years old! The early you give birth, the sooner the body recovers.
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Early, now the country advocates eugenics, late marriage and late childbearing, men to 25 years old, women to 23 years old, both parties must meet this minimum to receive a marriage certificate, you are now 23 years old to have a child, then you can not give the woman a marriage certificate, the woman will feel that there is no security, and it is not good to get married so early, or in these 2 years to hone yourself, let yourself mature, and can prepare for the child's related expenses.
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Not early, so that the child is smart, and the early birth of the child is blessed.
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It's okay to have a material foundation, and if the child is born early, you can let go of the career when the child can get away from you.
Instead of hesitating about the child's business when the career is just starting. Moreover, it is more beneficial for children to be born early than later!!
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I don't want to say more, I'm 24 years old this year, my daughter is 2 months old, I feel a lot of pressure, a lot of things have to rely on my parents, the pressure is not small, the landlord still has to think about it.
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Both parents have the heart to protect the calf, but when it comes to flooding and blind destination, it will "become a disaster". There is no shortage of such lessons in reality, and this incident is no different. During the whole process, the mother of the man involved was arguing and kissing, except for a few pats on her son's shoulder at the beginning and signaling him not to do so, she was watching from the sidelines at other times, did not interfere further, and allowed her child to deliberately damage public property.
Perhaps, at that time, in the mother's heart, she still thought that "he is still a child", even though the child is 23 years old.
Some people say that behind every "bear child and lead", there is a "bear parent", which is not unreasonable. Parents are the first teachers of children, and the family is a lifelong classroom for children. To reject the "bear child", first of all, every parent must not blindly protect the calf.
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In most people's concepts, those who are not married belong to children, the custom of the south, unmarried people go to other people's weddings, and there is a bag of red envelopes at the banquet, and there is no one who is married.
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In most people's minds, they are children if they are not married, and no matter how old they are, they will always be children in front of their parents and elders.
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I feel that having children has nothing to do with work, I am 26 years old this year, my wife is 22 years old, we have not bought a house, my parents are farmers, my wife is currently waiting to give birth at home, the whole family is working alone, and there is a younger sister in college, although my economic conditions are not very good, at present my child is about to be born, I also bought a house.
Therefore, although the fundamental problem has a certain relationship with the economy, it mainly depends on whether there is a heart (you can't use accurate words, you understand the landlord).I think the main problem at the moment may be that my parents-in-law have been busy with this business and have no spare time to take care of the children.
Your current child is 4 months old, if you give up the child now, first, it is more cruel, and second, it is not good for the woman's health; The third is that after a few years, you will often think of the child you gave up, which is an invisible heartache. It is recommended that in this case, you still need to communicate more with your husband, and then indirectly communicate with your parents-in-law through your husband.
Girls between the ages of 20 and 29 may be more suitable, but more and more women are starting families when they feel emotionally and financially in need of having a child, and they are older.
Women over the age of 35 have increased difficulty in getting pregnant. Older pregnant women are more likely to have children with Down syndrome.
Pregnant women under the age of 18 are more likely to have a stillbirth or underweight newborn.
The optimal age for a woman to conceive is between 25 and 30 years old, and the fertility curve shows a downward trend from the age of 30, at the age of 35 fertility to only 50% of that of a 25-year-old woman, to 25% at the age of 38, and to less than 5% at the age of 40. So please don't miss the recent fertility time I hope my answer will satisfy you.
I wish you happiness.
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Hello, since the baby has come into this world, there is no need to force it. Life is not something you can plan ideally, and maybe when you want to have a baby, your life will still be like this. Besides, not having children is also harmful to the body.
Wishing you good health!
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Yes, my wife is a twenty-three-year-old baby, and she will have the advantage of having a child early, and she will experience it later!
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In fact, having a child at the age of 23 to 25 is the first stage for a woman's body, during this time, women's body adaptability is the best, the absorption of various nutrients is also the best, and the postpartum recovery is also better. But this time is the first stage of the career, and women of this age are not psychologically prepared enough, no matter how they say that they are still children, so it still depends on the individual, if someone helps take care of it, it can also be considered.
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It's not good, of course it's 28 years old, it affects the life of husband and wife, sinners!
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If the economy and environment are not suitable, don't ask for it, and it's not too late to wait for 2 years.
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I think according to your current situation or to have a child, because now the pregnancy is 4 months old, if you don't want it will damage your body, and your current job is not very stable, your husband's job is stable, it is recommended that you give birth to the baby yourself for a period of time, the child is older and then consider the matter of work, there is nothing bad about having a child at the age of 23, if you really can't have a child in the future, you will leave regrets for yourself, and the child is a little bitter.
Two or three years have passed, and I hope it can help you.
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Yes, it's childbearing age. All parts of the body are in optimal condition.
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No problem, my wife is a 23-year-old child.
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If you like it, you want it. Four months** hurts a lot.
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If the child is born in April, then you are now 5 months pregnant, at this time, don't hesitate to take care of yourself and give birth to the child!
In fact, what are the so-called "good" and "bad", some people are 30 years old and ready to have children, but there is still no one to take care of them, and they have to rely on themselves.
Young students are as good as young students, have energy, and recover quickly. Isn't it the same when your children can leave and then try to find a job and start working again?
My baby is also born in April next year)
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If you don't have a child at this time, when will you have one? Is it 32 years old?
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You are young, only 23 years old, and your husband has tens of thousands of yuan in foreign debts, although your husband is 32 years old, the two of you are not yet qualified to have children.
You don't have the two most basic conditions to have a stable income and a stable residence to have a child, and having a child is also a pass for women.
After the child is pregnant, you have to check it often, give birth to a child and go to the maternity hospital, and then you have to recuperate your body, and you have to raise the child, all of which require money, although your husband wants to have a child, he can't guarantee the most basic survival needs of you and the child: food, clothing, shelter and transportation.
Your husband has tens of thousands of yuan in foreign debts, he should pay off the foreign debts first, and when he has tens of thousands of yuan in savings, he should think about having children, and then think about having children, so that he is responsible for you and the children.
There are 2 reasons why your husband wants you to have a baby:
1.He did want to have a child of his own.
2.He is afraid that you will leave him, and he will tie you up with a child so that you cannot go.
If you love him and want to be with him, don't have children for the time being, wait 2 or 3 years, when you are not very old and have children.
In these 2 years or 3 years, you should be with him, you should have a little heart, see if he is worthy of your love, whether he is very hardworking, whether he is thrifty, whether he has bad habits, such as: drinking, gambling, online loans, etc., to find out what he has done with foreign debts.
I also have to go to his home to find out what kind of people his parents are, such as: what is the character, what are the family conditions, what is the personality of his parents, whether his father has a tendency to domestic violence, etc.
Don't have children now, you have enough time to understand everything about your husband, and if he is not as good as you see, without the involvement of children, you can easily leave him.
If he is good in all respects, he himself is very hardworking, hard-working, and loves you very much, and he pays off his foreign debts, and gives you all the money he earns for safekeeping, and you have savings in your hands, then you can have children even if you don't have a car and a house, and his parents take care of you.
He is getting older year by year, and he also knows the importance of family, marriage, and children, knows the responsibility on his shoulders, and works hard for you and your children, so that your life can be regarded as normal.
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If your husband is particularly eager to have a child, I think he is not too young, you should consider giving him a child, if your husband is not particularly eager and does not want a child, then you can not have a child.
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It's time to ask for it. At this age, you can already have children, and the man is already thirty, not early.
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It depends on the common ideals of the two of you, and there is actually no physical barrier.
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If the family conditions are good, it is not very early.
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China's "Marriage Law" stipulates that women can only get married when they reach the age of 20 and men when they reach the age of 22.
Late marriage refers to the postponement of the minimum age of marriage for both men and women in accordance with Article 6 of the Marriage Law, i.e., 25 years for men and 23 years for women.
Late childbearing refers to the fact that a married woman who is over 24 years old or has her first child after a late marriage is considered to have a late childbearing (the regulations on population and family planning vary slightly from place to place). Late childbearing is conducive to the moral, intellectual and physical development of young women, and is conducive to controlling the number of births and the rate of population growth. Late childbearing delays childbearing and slows population growth by extending the gap between generations.
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Not early, just right, you will understand later, the baby born at this time is smart, and his body is also recovering quickly.
I think you should look at this with a normal mind, according to the latest regulations, men are 25 years old, women are 23 years old, but generally between 23 and 28 years old.
Marriage should be more appropriate, as girls at this age have grown and matured physically and psychologically, and have a more stable job and income.
Moreover, if you have a child before the age of 30, not only the child is healthier, but the mother's postpartum recovery is also easier. Since love, each other's sincerity is the most important, sincerity for sincerity, love is home, family is happy, a happy and perfect family is the most beautiful destination for women, is a safe harbor, men should take on the responsibility of the family, this is not only "responsibility but also obligation", to give their women a sense of security, emotional marital life is happy or not, not in how old is the most suitable marriage, but in the marriage life of the two should be based on mutual trust and understanding. As the saying goes, "a hundred years of repairing in the same boat, a thousand years of cultivation to sleep together", feelings need two people to tolerate and understand each other, marriage needs two people to take care of each other, this may be your "previous life, this life continues"!
Love what you love, no regrets, friends cherish the people around you who love you or you love! I wish you happiness; Sweet feelings, family harmony, happy marriage, harmony and beauty, harmony and harmony, a hundred years of good harmony, white heads to old age, spend this life together, thank you!
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It's not early, it's just that the body and mind are not mature enough and need the help of the elders to take it.
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In fact, it is not too early, after all, it is over the legal age of marriage. And it is better for women to have children early, and the risk is relatively small.
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It's not too early, it's okay to be 23 years old.
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