Affective Psychological Problems 30, Affective Psychological Problems

Have a long talk, find out the reason, and deal with it decisively.

I don't want to work with you because everyone has different pursuits. Although society is realistic, people still have their own pursuits, not to do whatever they say to make money. She doesn't like to be in this industry, so don't force it and respect her own choices.

As for why they don't want to meet or something, I don't know.

Your thoughts are a bit irresponsible.

As a college student, sooner or later, you are going to enter the society, and now your girlfriend has started working before you.

You should work harder and strive not to lose to her after you enter the society by yourself, you are facing life, you can't live forever in the wind and snow, if she is always by your side, neither of you will work.

So how do you live your life in the future? Do you always rely on your parents?

It's understandable that you're upset.

Because the roles you both play are different now.

She is already an independent office worker, and you are still a disadvantaged student, and she can't spend a lot of time with you like before, so you will naturally feel a sense of loss in your heart.

You yourself have realized that you need to adjust your mental state and think more about your future and how you should try.

You are unhappy but very sad because you love her and don't want her to be hurt in any way.

You may feel distressed when you see her, but I hope she can understand and experience that having a boyfriend like you is actually really happy.

However, you always have to enter the society. So when she tells you that she got a job, you should be happy for her. She tells you that she has found a job, maybe she wants to share happiness with you, but if you are unhappy, she may also be unhappy, and then she will not feel at ease at work.

Because without your support.

If you can support her behind her, she will be happier and more at ease to go to work.

It's normal, your girlfriend will feel lost if you develop too fast, but I want to remind you that if you are entangled with your girlfriend because of this, your girlfriend will leave you soon, after all, the sense of survival will be greater than the emotional knot, if you can't change yourself, then let it go, if you still love her very much, try to change your personality.

You know, that's not realistic. No one will always be by your side, like your girlfriend. It's hard to find a job now, and what you're thinking now I feel like I'm actually a bit machismo.

It's as if you are not at the same level all of a sudden, as if the wife earns more than the husband. Take care of your mentality, it's not a big problem at the moment, I believe you can handle it.

You're too strong, you're going to be deprived of her right to work, you don't want her to work, are you capable enough to support her?