Have you ever thought about what kind of person you will marry in the future?

I hope to find someone I like and like me in the future, I hope he loves me more than I love him, I have an economic foundation, I am willing to work hard with him but I don't want to flow with him, I want to be his weakness and his armor.

I hope that the person I marry does not have to be handsome, just ordinary, but self-motivated, so that I feel safe, a little machismo, and mature.

I still have more than half a month to go and will be 27 soon, and I don't have too high requirements for the other half, as long as it is the person I fell in love with at the beginning, it would be good.

When a person changes for me, turns my interest into his interest, and gives me without regrets. That's what I want to be.

My future husband should be gentle with me, there is no need to be so gentle with others, just all kinds of good, and in the end, if he looks like Zhang Yixing, he will be beautiful! It's Zhang Yixing, it's perfect.

I hope my male ticket is a beautiful boy who comes out of a comic, but I won't ask for it for my future marriage partner. I don't ask my future marriage partner to be rich, tall, or handsome, he only needs to meet one condition: on the basis of a certain material basis, we have the same three views, and each other is better because we love each other.

Everyone has an ideal marriage partner in mind. This person in my heart is gentle and considerate, positive and enterprising, and eats, travels, goes shopping, and talks with me.

The person I hope to marry in the future is a relatively strong and domineering, very smart, and possessive person, but I am very secure and down-to-earth with him, and he knows me very well, knows what kind of love you want, and takes care of me both soft and hard.

The future marriage partner hopes to belong to a literary temperament, on the surface he looks calm and gentle, but in fact he is a quick-witted person inside, I think he is very mysterious, and it is his sense of mystery that attracts me.

I have imagined that my future husband can be less handsome but sunny, less sensible but more generous, less smart but must be kind, less rich, but must be motivated.

It is said that love begins with appearance, trapped in talent, most love at first sight is love, people are visual animals, so if a person is very good to you, but the long Han Duan Zheng is not good-looking, will you still fall in love with him or her? Personally, I think that falling in love is when both parties are suitable together, feel good, and the other party is kind-hearted, and they don't care about appearances. If my other half is ugly, but is very good to me, good to my parents, and loves me, and two people fall in love, we can understand each other and tolerate each other in all kinds of life, and I think we can talk about getting married.

First, it depends on his character, his relationship with his family, and his relationship with colleagues and friends. If you have a close relationship with your family and are friendly with your colleagues and friends, this man is still more reliable.

If the man does not have a good relationship with his family, then the man is unreliable. Even if it's good for you, it's temporary, or pretended.

Second: It can be observed in the details of life, such as talking about Songguo, a man is scheming everywhere, and he is not suitable for marrying him.

Third: you can look at his ability to work. If you are not motivated at work and keep making excuses for not being promoted, this kind of man cannot be married, and it will be painful for a lifetime if he marries.

A woman's greatest sorrow is to marry an incompetent man.

Fourth: see if he has the courage to take responsibility. If you excuse yourself for any mistakes, complain about others, and shirk responsibility, this kind of man can't marry.

Fifth, the way money is used.

One saving, one wasteful, for example, when you receive a utility bill every month, the party that may save will complain

Why do you always forget to turn off the lights? Why do I keep the water on when brushing my teeth? One buys it when he likes it, and the other always buys a bargain ......The difference in the use of money and the difference in the way of buying things actually contains the difference in the whole value.

Sixth, family matters.

In fact, it not only includes the question of who should do how much housework, but also some trivial things that need to be paid attention to: for example, a love to throw it around, a hanger and a hanger are almost the same distance between them; One loves to collect everything, and the other magazine is disposed of as garbage after reading it; Even as small as squeezing toothpaste, small things add up to big ones, and such details often become the fuse of a big noise.

Getting married is not as simple as falling in love, and if you want to get married, you have to consider both the feelings of two people and whether they are suitable or not. If you don't want your marriage to become a "grave of love", you need to think about these issues in advance to avoid marital misfortune.

1. Considering the personality factors of two people, the relationship needs to be run-in.

When two people start to fall in love, they will naturally feel that everything is good for each other, and they will have the idea of wanting to be together. Especially sometimes what he does for you will move you, and you will regard him as your ideal partner as soon as your brain is hot. The first requirement of the relationship is that each other's personalities are suitable, and if the personalities don't get along, he may tolerate you at first, but after a long time, his true attitude will be exposed.

Your married life is prone to conflicts and quarrels, and it is difficult to maintain the sweetness of your relationship.

2. Do you have common interests and hobbies, as well as topics?

Getting married is not a simple matter, and you have to think about your future. The days of life are very long, and if two people have no topics to talk about, they will seem very estranged, and their feelings will become weaker and weaker, and if there is a distance in their hearts, the marriage should end. With a person who has the same hobbies as you, you can do things you like together, and you can talk together, even if two people sit there quietly, you won't feel embarrassed and can get along happily.

Third, whether the three views are consistent.

It is very tiring to get along with someone who has a different view from yourself. After all, the difference in the three views will lead to different styles of our conduct in the world. Even a very small thing in life will produce different opinions.

You will not be happy to live in this kind of marriage full of differences.

Fourth, the attitude of both parents.

Marriages that are not blessed by their parents will not get a good outcome for most of them. Those who do not listen to their parents and stubbornly run to distant places will mostly regret it in the end. After all, our parents know us better than anyone else.

I also understand what kind of person we should be with so that we can spend the rest of our lives together. So the attitude of both parents is also a factor that we must consider.

There are many issues to consider when getting married, "family, hobbies and hobbies, and personality" are all serious problems, and if you are ready, you don't have to worry about getting married.

1. External conditions. Appearance, height, overall dress, I believe this is the first thing we see when we choose a person, everyone has their favorite type, some people have eyes or very comfortable at a glance, the first impression is good, naturally there is the possibility of following the socks to continue to tell the wild to understand. There is also another situation, which is to fall in love over time, and some people, although they are not good enough in appearance, are humorous, have a good personality or have strong work ability, and they are just as shining in life.

2. Family, economy. Family relationship with each other, economic ability, for friends who plan to get married, this question has to be mentioned, after all, love and married life are different, whether the happiness index is high, this question accounts for at least half of it, of course, more importantly, if two people are firm enough, the relationship is stable, and they are willing to give everything for each other, since the two people are willing to bear and work together, then in the face of true love, these are not Yinchang problems.

3. Whether the three views of two people are compatible.

After all, sometimes a lot of beauty is imagined by yourself, a person's appearance is suitable for you, it does not mean that your three views are also compatible, the three views (world view, outlook on life, values) are not exactly the same, but of course, they must be compatible, two people can continue, otherwise there will be various contradictions in the future.

I will choose a man who is a little more filial to marry, because I think a person who is filial to his parents will be very kind, just imagine, if he is not even filial to his own parents, then after you get married, how can he be filial to your parents。And his parents gave birth to him and raised him for so many years, and if he was so good to her, if he didn't be filial, then in the short few years I married him, maybe he wouldn't be good enough to me. <>

Then there is that I don't want to find some good-looking boys, not to say prejudiced, but high-value boys, whether before or after marriage, there will be a lot of girls to pester me and don't want my life to become a mess,I don't want to be disturbed by others, so I am more inclined to find a boy who looks like a boy who is generally suitable for me to marry, and I prefer that kind of plain feeling. I especially appreciate the kind of capable boys, because I feel that they exude their charm all the time. <>

I don't like the kind of boy who relies on the family, because after he develops dependence, he may listen to her parents for many things when you marry him, so living with him will be very tiring and unable to make decisions on his own. Find a boy with a higher EQ to marry, so that the future days will not be too boring, like a boy with a low EQ, marrying him will feel like going to hell, because he can't understand your feelings, can't understand you, and can't comfort you when you're angry or sad, that kind of marriage is more painful. <>

will want to find a man who understands himself and can tolerate him, so that in daily life, he will feel sorry for you. In fact, feelings are inaccurate, because some people's feelings come earlier, and some people's feelings come laterSo you only know when you meet the person you like, but it doesn't mean that everyone is suitable for marriage, you must think about it for a long time, and then get married if you feel that all aspects are okay, otherwise it will be too late to regret it. If you don't meet a guy you particularly like and are satisfied with, don't rush to get married, and don't think about making marriage very important for women.

Responsible boys who are more handsome will choose by themselves, and marrying such people feels that they are particularly reliable.

I will choose people who share the same values and three views, because such people have the same temper as mine, and then they will have the same ideas when dealing with things, and they will not often rub and quarrel.

Love yourself, love your family, be diligent and motivated, be consistent on the outside and inside, and think of yourself in everything you do, such a person is the ideal marriage partner.

First of all, the other party should have a good character, be more loyal to love, not too snobbish, have a common life goal, and secondly, there is no pressure to be together.

I will choose a marriage partner who has a calm personality and is also very motivated, because such a personality will make me feel more secure.

The other party must have a good temperament, must be reasonable, will care and take care of himself, of course, he must treat others sincerely, so that the other half is his preferred marriage partner.

I would choose someone who is responsible, caring, tolerant, and loves me as a marriage partner.

As a girl, I will choose a boy with connotation and self-motivation as my marriage partner.

I will choose a person who is caring, responsible, filial and kind to the family and parents as the marriage partner.

If my future marriage partner is not my boyfriend, then he is in some corner of this world, and I can only meet him through blind dates.

Actually, I want to marry my current boyfriend, after all, I have been dating him for almost six years, and the relationship between us is relatively deep. I don't think there's anyone in this world who can be as good to me as he is. However, life is full of helplessness, and I am not sure if he and I will be able to enter the palace of marriage in the end.

There are still many couples in this world who love each other and still can't be together in the end.

If half of my future is not him, then my marriage is a final, under pressure from my parents, to marry the person they want to be. It may be a realistic life, but we can't deny that it will be easier to be with someone with a better family.

However, who can say clearly when it comes to feelings? I just hope that we can all live up to each other's hearts and be able to persevere.

My future marriage partner may be slowly coming to me on the other side of the world.

Many people say that two people who love each other and eventually come together is called fate. But I prefer to believe that this is predestined by God. What kind of road a person should take in his life and what kind of person he should meet is not only in his own hands, but also destined by God.

I used to think that I was not a superstitious person, but gradually I began to believe that there are some things that are predestined. It's like when I'm bothered by something and don't know how to choose, I take out a coin and toss it into the sky, and decide what to do next from the tails. In fact, at this time, before I knew it, I gave the choice to God.

The person who is going to marry me in the future, I don't know where he is now, he may be busy studying, he may be busy working, and he may be busy falling in love with someone else. But I believe that he will slowly come to me on the other side of the world. Until one day when the time is right, we can see each other.

I couldn't see what he looked like, and I didn't know who he was. I only know that he is a man, and I only know that he is here for a person, and he will soon take someone with him.