Have you ever thought about who you will marry in the future?

He must be well-informed, his vision, knowledge, experience, pattern and other aspects are better than me, and when he talks to me, he can bring me inspiration. Hard work and self-motivated, I have always been a very hard worker, never stopped the pace of pursuit, he must be as motivated as me, or even more motivated than me, to be able to.

The boy I like is a man with a lot of ideas, he has his own universe in his heart, and the stars and moon in it belong to him. We are all looking forward to the day when we can land on each other's moon and protect our universe together, we have our own universe, and we can be one with each other, and we are intertwined and independent of each other.

My husband must be funny, humor is a science, and the humor I appreciate the most is not grandstanding, not a joke with no discipline and no lower limit, but, witty! Witty humor, revealing wisdom, which is also the highest level of humor in my opinion;

I think choosing the other half is basically choosing a personality. It is to choose a person who is more satisfied with two people than when one person is alone, and has a stronger ability to take risks than when one person is alone. Whether it is often said that you want to find a complementary person, or find a similar person, in fact, it is to live a happier life.

Complementary people can help us become better people, and similar people are more likely to understand our joys, sorrows, and sorrows, each with its own strengths and weaknesses, and they are all good.

You must be able to afford me. Although I can afford to support myself, I still hope that my significant other can afford to support me and our future home. I don't care how much money you have, and I won't be strong enough to control the family's finances, let's be fair, after all, life is not easy to share with each other.

The most important thing is to be brave and fun, have your own hobbies and pursuits, have goals in life, and move forward bravely. If you like to wash dishes, I can cook for you, and when I'm full, I'll lie on the couch and watch you wash the dishes with your apron on. If the sports are very good, the left hook is a roundabout kick, the handsome one is not good, and you will say the same at home in the future.

Requirements: Energetic and energetic girls who love to travel, can catch up on dramas together, have a topic of complaining together, are foodies, and it's best to have endless words (I'm chattering, I can pick up all the stalks you throw). People of my age know what kind of person they want, she has been with her all her life, and it is said that there is such a person in a person's life, and she may be your partner for the rest of your life, in a limited life, my she, you are in **, under the skin of the obsession, the inner heart of the heart I want.

The most important quality of choosing a husband is to be responsible. Love is a matter of two people, but marriage is not just a matter of two families. He can take on this marriage for me and this family for me.

Willing to take my business as your own business and my family as your own family. He is willing to work hard for me and the child, because in his heart, you and the child are his sweet burden. I like men who are responsible, and when I am at a loss, they pat me on the shoulder and say:

Don't be afraid, baby, I'm here!

I want to find someone with good character, a sense of responsibility, and a sense of self-motivation. In addition to the feeling, when you meet the right person, there will always be someone you get along with and you think is cute in everything he does.

My future husband, you can have nothing without a house, no car, but you must not be unmotivated, you must show me that our future is promising. You don't have to be prosperous, but you must work hard with me to make our little life nourishing.

I hope that person values his feelings very much, he cares a lot about what others think of him, and he is a person who is more thoughtful.

It is said that love begins with appearance, trapped in talent, most love at first sight is love, people are visual animals, so if a person is very good to you, but the long Han Duan Zheng is not good-looking, will you still fall in love with him or her? Personally, I think that falling in love is when both parties are suitable together, feel good, and the other party is kind-hearted, and they don't care about appearances. If my other half is ugly, but is very good to me, good to my parents, and loves me, and two people fall in love, we can understand each other and tolerate each other in all kinds of life, and I think we can talk about getting married.

First, it depends on his character, his relationship with his family, and his relationship with colleagues and friends. If you have a close relationship with your family and are friendly with your colleagues and friends, this man is still more reliable.

If the man does not have a good relationship with his family, then the man is unreliable. Even if it's good for you, it's temporary, or pretended.

Second: It can be observed in the details of life, such as talking about Songguo, a man is scheming everywhere, and he is not suitable for marrying him.

Third: you can look at his ability to work. If you are not motivated at work and keep making excuses for not being promoted, this kind of man cannot be married, and it will be painful for a lifetime if he marries.

A woman's greatest sorrow is to marry an incompetent man.

Fourth: see if he has the courage to take responsibility. If you excuse yourself for any mistakes, complain about others, and shirk responsibility, this kind of man can't marry.

Fifth, the way money is used.

One saving, one wasteful, for example, when you receive a utility bill every month, the party that may save will complain

Why do you always forget to turn off the lights? Why do I keep the water on when brushing my teeth? One buys it when he likes it, and the other always buys a bargain ......The difference in the use of money and the difference in the way of buying things actually contains the difference in the whole value.

Sixth, family matters.

In fact, it not only includes the question of who should do how much housework, but also some trivial things that need to be paid attention to: for example, a love to throw it around, a hanger and a hanger are almost the same distance between them; One loves to collect everything, and the other magazine is disposed of as garbage after reading it; Even as small as squeezing toothpaste, small things add up to big ones, and such details often become the fuse of a big noise.

Very happy. 1.A simple wedding.

In fact, when I was a child, every time I saw someone else wearing a wedding dress, I would be extremely envious, because I thought the wedding dress was particularly good-looking, and that skirt was the skirt of my dreams. However, there are few such opportunities to experience in our lives, so many times we will think that when we get married, we must wear that dress and marry the person we love the most. But when we grow up, these ideas will slowly change, for the current self, when I get married, I want a simple wedding, because I see a lot of people, they are really very hard in the process of marriage, but I am also a very afraid of trouble, so I think a simple wedding has a ceremony is already very good, there is no need to toss yourself.

2.All friends and family were there. In this life, there will always be a lot of things that make you regret getting married, for myself, I naturally still hope that all my relatives and friends can be on the scene, but there are some people who can never come, so for when they are still there, I hope to be able to stay with them forever, even if they are married, I also hope that they can see their most beloved daughter wearing the best wedding dress, and stand with his beloved, So every time I think about getting married, I hope that all my relatives can be present to bless me.

Everyone's idea of marriage is different, some people may want their wedding to be grand, some people may want their wedding to be simple, but no matter what, every girl is full of infinite fantasies about marriage.

It's not too much of a requirement, since it's the person I want to marry in the future, then I hope that either someone I love and love me, or someone who suits me very well, because marrying these two kinds of people, I will be happier, or have a better life. And I hope that my future marriage partner will have certain economic conditions, not necessarily too good, but at least it should be similar to me, or a little better, but it can't be worse than me, it's not money worship or anything, but this is the realityIf getting married lowers my quality of life, then I don't want to get married.

If you get married, you can't ignore the economic conditions, you can not buy a house first, but we must buy it when we get married, you can buy it with the man and the woman, or the man makes a down payment, and the rest of us will slowly pay it back together after we get married, but in this case, you must add my name, if the man has bought a house before marriage and decorated it, then you can not add my name. The car can be without, I don't mind that. And I don't want to live with my parents after I am married, because I live together, I am worried that the relationship between my mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will not be easy to handleIf you don't live together, it's okay to be close to each other, because it's not easy to have conflicts if you don't live together, if you live together because the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is often noisy, it will be very tiring Whether it's me or the man, I'll be tired.

Then I hope that the future marriage partner will not be shorter than me, I don't want to cause our children to grow taller because of genetic problems because of our own height. Although I'm not tall, I think it's okay among the southern girls, if I find someone shorter than me, then how short the child will be in the future, if the daughter is okay, in case it is a son, then I don't think I will be able to marry a daughter-in-law in the future. Don't say I'm asking too much, and there's more.

There is also the fact that the man must be motivated, not an old man, so I am worried that he is actually a giant baby, and I may not be able to support such a giant baby after marriage.

It is also very important that my boyfriend should give my parents enough respect and not disrespect themI know that some people are disrespectful to their parents-in-law, so I hope he is not the kind of person who disrespects his parents-in-law.

It's so important to me to find someone to talk to. I have an ex of five years, and when we are together, we can always hold hands and walk for a long time and talk all the way, without deliberately looking for topics and have a lot to share. But we were separated by a lot of force majeure.

Now this boyfriend is finally a local, and he is also a gentleman, but there is less intimacy that has nothing to say, and I won't keep talking in front of him, and I slowly stop talking.

The marriage partner must be able to talk to each other, and you can talk about the interesting and boring things that happened to you today every day.

This includes the same interests and hobbies, including the pursuit of common goals, including similar habits. In married life, love will weaken and slowly transform into family affection, and these common topics will be the necessary premise for maintaining each other's feelings and maintaining the same rhythm of life.

Also, it's important to be able to catch the other person's bad mood!

Then I have a stable job, take care of my family, have three suitable views, and can protect me in front of my mother-in-law's family.

Getting married is not as simple as falling in love, and if you want to get married, you have to consider both the feelings of two people and whether they are suitable or not. If you don't want your marriage to become a "grave of love", you need to think about these issues in advance to avoid marital misfortune.

1. Considering the personality factors of two people, the relationship needs to be run-in.

When two people start to fall in love, they will naturally feel that everything is good for each other, and they will have the idea of wanting to be together. Especially sometimes what he does for you will move you, and you will regard him as your ideal partner as soon as your brain is hot. The first requirement of the relationship is that each other's personalities are suitable, and if the personalities don't get along, he may tolerate you at first, but after a long time, his true attitude will be exposed.

Your married life is prone to conflicts and quarrels, and it is difficult to maintain the sweetness of your relationship.

2. Do you have common interests and hobbies, as well as topics?

Getting married is not a simple matter, and you have to think about your future. The days of life are very long, and if two people have no topics to talk about, they will seem very estranged, and their feelings will become weaker and weaker, and if there is a distance in their hearts, the marriage should end. With a person who has the same hobbies as you, you can do things you like together, and you can talk together, even if two people sit there quietly, you won't feel embarrassed and can get along happily.

Third, whether the three views are consistent.

It is very tiring to get along with someone who has a different view from yourself. After all, the difference in the three views will lead to different styles of our conduct in the world. Even a very small thing in life will produce different opinions.

You will not be happy to live in this kind of marriage full of differences.

Fourth, the attitude of both parents.

Marriages that are not blessed by their parents will not get a good outcome for most of them. Those who do not listen to their parents and stubbornly run to distant places will mostly regret it in the end. After all, our parents know us better than anyone else.

I also understand what kind of person we should be with so that we can spend the rest of our lives together. So the attitude of both parents is also a factor that we must consider.

There are many issues to consider when getting married, "family, hobbies and hobbies, and personality" are all serious problems, and if you are ready, you don't have to worry about getting married.