What is the rise of two new types of banquets in rural areas, cold banquets and no banquets ?

It is also the best way for relatives to communicate with each other, especially in winter when everyone has nothing to do, they generally go to the banquet and drink with the dishes on the banquet. However, in recent years, there seems to have been a change in the number of banquets in rural areas, and now even if there is a large table on the table, there are basically not many people to eat, and in the end, there are many cold seats and no banquets. <>

In fact, this is also very normal, because now many farmers have basically gone out to make money, and the places where they go out to work are relatively large cities, far away from home, so it is impossible to run all the way back for a table of banquets. Moreover, many migrant workers may not have any skills themselves, so their wages are calculated on a daily basis outside, and if they come back for two or three days for a week's banquet, it means that they can't make money, so they must choose their own jobs. <>

Nowadays, people are more health-conscious in their diets, and it used to be said that there is no banquet without alcohol, so I also went to drink during my internship. But nowadays, people gradually realize that drinking alcohol is very harmful to the body, and in recent years, whether in rural or urban areas, the incidence of cancer has been increasing year by year, which is related to the love of drinking when farmers were young, so everyone does not attach so much importance to drinking. Some relatives come to the banquet, in fact, they come by car, if they drink, they will be found to be drunk driving or drunk driving, which is not a problem that can be solved by fines, and may be revoked or even detained, so few people dare to take risks.

In the past, the rural banquet was basically a red and white happy event, but now when the rural banquet is held, the reasons are also varied, such as the joy of the housewarming of the school banquet, and even some people's families have to hold a table of banquets. If you hold a banquet, your relatives will definitely have to give you a gift, so some people are very disgusted with this kind of banquet and are reluctant to participate.

1. Most of the peasants work outside the home, and it is inconvenient to participate in the banquet 2. Now people pay attention to health and no longer attach so much importance to wine 3. Life improves, and the peasants drive to participate in the banquet 4. They are disgusted with the banquet and are unwilling to participate.

This is because most of the farmers are now going out to work, so many rural people are not able to arrive on time when they hold banquets, and some people pay more and more attention to their physical health and health, and drinking alcohol will cause very serious harm to people's health, so many people do not put wine at the banquet.

Mainly because everyone doesn't particularly like this form now, so there is this new type of banquet, and the popularity is relatively high.

Recently, because of the repeated trend of the epidemic, many people cannot come to the banquet, which is also the objective reason for the "hot seat" to cold banquet in rural areas.

Personally, I think that in addition to the epidemic, the deeper reason is also because people's feelings have become weaker now, and sometimes the contact with each other is not so close, which will lead to the emotions between people are not very good, so in all kinds of banquets, many people choose to find a reason to shirk.

There is also a more objective reason that people's living standards are getting better and better, so many people will not choose to watch the excitement, because the delicious food at the banquet can usually be eaten. In addition, the standards have improved, and there are many people driving, so it is normal for pure grain wine to be popular at banquets and suffer from indifference.

The "strange phenomenon" of rural banquets, in addition to the hot banquet turning into a cold banquet and the liquor becoming a place, there is also a more strange reason that in the past, there were quite a lot of "loose wine" in rural banquets, why are they rarely seen now?

On the one hand, there have been many accidents caused by drinking loose wine in recent years, and on the other hand, the quality of loose wine on the market is generally not as good as before. For many people, choosing a wine is a big problem when hosting a banquet, and it is very difficult to choose a cost-effective high-quality wine.

In fact, it is not difficult to do this, but many high-quality wines are not well-known, and many people still don't know about them, such as the following two wines, which are not very well-known, but old friends who have drunk them praise their taste is more appropriate.

Baiyunbian is produced in Hubei with a fragrant liquor, although this wine is not a model of fragrant liquor, but it is also its leader, the taste is also popular among drunkards, and this wine is a very good choice whether it is for self-drinking or receiving guests, and it is also very good to choose this kind of wine in the countryside.

Han Dong Master Liquor (Zhiyu), this wine is not well-known in the market, even if people who drink often do not know, but this wine is a real high-quality pure grain sauce wine, or produced in the core production area of Guizhou sauce flavor liquor, or through the brewing master Zeng Chuanzheng's personal recipe hook.

There is no choice in the selection of raw materials manufacturing process level, the wine quality is mellow and meticulous, mellow and overflowing, a glass of wine swallows between the lips and teeth, people like to drink it, ** is also more affordable, although the light bottle packaging, but the appearance is not low at all, as a banquet pure grain wine is also very face-saving.

The main reason for this situation may be that the relationship between people is getting bigger and bigger, people are getting busier and busier, the time for communication is getting less and less, the standard of living is improving, and there are fewer people who drink alcohol, or they are busy with their work and are reluctant to go to the rural banquet to attend the wedding.

It reflects that the feelings between people have faded. We're also getting busier and busier, and we don't have much time. The standard of living of many families has improved. And there are also a lot of people driving, so there is less drinking.

Because people are really busy nowadays, they don't have time to attend some banquets, and people's living standards have improved.

Because people's living conditions have improved now, they will not eat too much at the banquet.

Many people are very busy with work, so they only pay for the food and do not eat at the table. This phenomenon is very common not only in rural areas, but also in cities, and not everyone has time every day. However, it may take up to a day to attend a banquet.

This day is very busy with work, and attending will delay your work.

Many mats in the countryside are lined with flowing water mats. A lot of people will also participate, so it can be said that it is very lively. This person is a custom that has been handed down in the past, and in fact, there is also this custom in life, but the flowing water banquet is held in a high-end restaurant.

In the countryside, there are not many high-end restaurants, so the flowing water banquet is held in your own home. If there is a happy event in any family, many people will participate, but when they are busy with work and have no time to go, they will find someone to pay for themselves.

These are not big problems, and when you have money, you build a network. With the development of time, my relationship network is more and more, and when I meet other people's families and happy events, I will also participate, and if I don't have time, I will find someone to pay for me. With the development of the times, the economy has become more and more developed, and it has changed, and in the past, when I was poor, I was very happy to participate in the flowing water banquet, and I could eat a lot of delicious things.

But now the famous people of economic development, every household does not lack these things, so when facing the flowing water seat. If you have time, you will participate, but if you are very busy with work, you will not participate, and this phenomenon occurs.

It turned out that it would be very fun to mention that you could eat at the banquet, and everyone got together and chatted with everyone while eating, and it was very lively. But now the banquet is the money has arrived, but the people are not coming, this kind of "cold banquet" phenomenon is becoming more and more, and now the human touch is becoming less and less.

In the original era of relative poverty, it was very luxurious to be able to eat a banquet, and it could be regarded as an improvement of the food, after all, some food could only be eaten during the New Year, so there was no absence in the original banquet, and it was also very lively. However, now that the economy is becoming more and more developed, every household can eat what they want, and they are not so expectant to eat at the table, so the phenomenon of cold seats is becoming more and more.

Nowadays, work is becoming more and more busy, and many people go out to work and can't find time to eat. In the old days, in the countryside, most people were mainly engaged in farming, so whenever there was a meal between relatives during the slack time, everyone would go there! But now more and more people choose to go out to work, and there is little time to return to the countryside, but it will make the acquaintances a little bit of money, and feel that the gift is over, so the number of people who go to the banquet will become less and less.

In the past, in rural areas, banquets were mainly for celebrations, and many times only weddings and funerals would be held. However, now, no matter what you want, you want to hold a banquet, you have to hold a banquet when you move, you have to have a banquet when your child is admitted to college or even high school, and some people have to hold a banquet when the pigs in the family have given birth, which has led to everyone becoming more and more disgusted with this kind of banquet, so it's just over with the money and not eating the banquet.

It may be because there is no time, or the family does not like to set up a banquet, or it may be because there are too many banquets, and the time is repeated, so you can only choose one of the banquets. In the past, every time I heard that there was a banquet, everyone was very happy and actively went to the banquet. However, when it comes to banquets, the number of participants has obviously decreased, and many people have taken the money, but they have not come, and the strange phenomenon of "cold banquets" has arisen.

1. Many people are busy and don't have time to participate

Nowadays, the elderly and children are basically left in many rural areas, and young people choose to go out to work, and basically do not live in the villages. Therefore, if the people in the village hold a banquet, the people in the city will not be able to come back to participate. However, although people can't come, they can't be less favored, so they should go with it.

Second, I simply don't want to go

Some people don't want to participate in this kind of banquet even though they have the time, and they may not like to hold a banquet. But you still have to get by on the face, since others invite you, it doesn't mean that it will hurt your feelings again. The countryside is a society of human affection, and without human affection, there is no way to gain a foothold in the countryside, so the money of the elements also has to follow.

3. There is a time conflict between multiple banquets

Nowadays, there are many banquets in rural areas, and there are banquets for several days in a row during peak periods, and sometimes there are even several invitations a day. It's just that there is only one person, and if you go to this one, you can't go to that one, you can only choose one of them, and the other will be paid for by yourself.

Nowadays, people's material conditions have been greatly improved, and many people do not have such a strong desire to eat, and a banquet cannot attract them.

The phenomenon of "eating cold seats" is becoming more and more serious, why do they not go to the banquet when they have money?

Some of these are like red and white ceremonies, noNo matter what, your own meaning must be in place, and you must have money. But this kind of thing also leads to the fact that I am meaningful, but because I don't have time or the banquet is not delicious, I give the money and I can not eat.

Nowadays, there are indeed a lot of strange banquets in the countryside, for example, some people have to invite a seat to eat when they get a driver's license, and some children have to invite a seat to eat after they are admitted to university, and there is a new house to invite a seat to eat, etcAlthough it seems more reasonable, it is time to hold a banquet. But a lot of people are in it for the money. So some people simply give you money, and I won't go, it's boring.

But there are some banquets that are also going to go, but it also depends on what the relationship between the two parties is, the first is the funeral of the elderly, and at this time it is also necessary to go, otherwise the old people in their own homes will sometimes be unexpected, and there will not even be a helper at that time.

There are also marriages, old people's birthdays, these are all going to go, and most of these days are when many people are free, so not only reasonably, but also in time, they can go.

This is also the current situation where a lot of people are not present, and the money is everywhere.

The people in the village are gone, all of them are elderly. coupled with indifferent human feelings and hypocritical performances. They are all dumb people who eat dumplings and are tired of it.

This year, the price of meat is so much, and the money for the banquet is all gone, will anyone not go? The answer is impossible, in a village in the countryside, there are two families who want to make wine a day, and those in the village are those who eat this family and immediately go to another house to eat again, and they say that they don't eat for nothing, and if they can't eat, they take it back, anyway, it's close.