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1. Do your own thing. No matter when, you must do your own things, don't let others hold hands, this is not your own ability, sooner or later, you will be burdened with things that do not work hard, and you have to pretend to do things by others, it seems that you have no ability at all, and you can't say it.
2. Take the initiative to say hello when you see someone. A polite person will take the initiative to say hello when he sees someone, which is the minimum etiquette, and it is very important for a good person to not only increase his favorability for himself, but also make you like you more. Because you are friendly, others are willing to approach you.
3. Find a way to solve problems by yourself. No matter how big the matter is, only what you can solve or can't solve by yourself, you have to find a way to solve it, because this is your own business, you must not trouble others, but you must find a way to solve it, so that more people will think that you are very capable, which is also the characteristic of excellent people.
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Excellent people know how to work hard, and learn from people who are better than themselves. They will do their best to do what they are sure of, and they will not be shaken by the doubts of the outside world. In the work, he also tried his best to pay silently, never complained, as long as there was a little hope, he would never give up, such a person could not succeed.
This is the basic condition for excellent people, because people who are willing to work hard will suffer for a while, and will never suffer for a lifetime. Even if others are not as smart as you, you can overcome your innate shortcomings and create your own beautiful future through continuous hard work. The so-called God rewards diligence and diligence can make up for clumsiness is this simple truth, and the rest depends on whether you are willing to stick to it all the time, and success will come a little later.
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The reason why an excellent person is excellent is that he has his own outstanding ability. When appreciating the opponent, I also constantly reflect on my own shortcomings. Constantly self-revising, constantly surpassing. Gradually get closer to your opponents.
So they have two big characteristics:
Acknowledging the strengths of othersAccept your shortcomings, we see excellent people, halo-ridden. But I can't see the sad story behind them, and I need to bear a lot of pressure and extraordinary efforts to prove myself.
Three Fools in Bollywood tells the story of Lancher and his roommate's college life. The male protagonist has a strong background on the surface, and after really understanding it, you can see that he is just a round son. If he didn't study hard, his future would be miserable.
So he cherished the opportunity to go to college. I was also under a lot of pressure and extraordinary efforts. The rivalry between the male protagonist and Chartu is another highlight of this play, which is worth pondering.
Chartu, who studied hard and was able to endorse 18 hours a day, did not recognize Lancher's excellence in his heart. I made a bet when I was about to graduate. Ten years to prove that he will succeed and Lancher will be humbled.
In the end, the ending of the film is unexpected, Chartu loses, and Lancher is excellent. But the male protagonist Lancher has always admitted that the other party is excellent, and he also recognizes his own disadvantages and shortcomings. It can be seen that a person's excellence is not without reason.
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1.A maverick must have something extraordinary. It is absolutely impossible for a person who follows the crowd all day long to be very productive.
2.Most of the people who are envied and criticized by those around them have extraordinary abilities. People never envy the weak.
3.People who are particularly curious, like to explore, and are good at independent thinking must have something special. 4.
Those who dare to make a difference in the crowd must have great skills. 5.People with strong self-confidence are often stronger than those who are obedient, and those who dare to doubt the textbooks must have something special.
6.When a large crowd is against him, the one who does not change his mind must be a capable person. 7.
I can hardly hear him say that someone is very powerful, and he should not be underestimated. Those who spend their days boasting about other people's achievements are mostly unproductive people. 8.
Seeing that he does things in an orderly manner and shows purpose every step of the way, his head will not be mentally retarded. What he did this year, I will see him doing it next year, and generally this kind of person must have the spirit of perseverance and should not be underestimated. 9.
People who can turn hobbies into responsibilities and missions, and people who have a firm stance can make a name for themselves. 10.Someone who can appreciate various characters well must have his insight.
Most people seem to feel that the people around them are not very different, and this is a sign of a lack of insight. 11.People who do not care about small things, have strong desires, strong desires, and strong desire to express themselves should not be underestimated, these are the beginning of success.
12.Once a radical person becomes steady, he will definitely make great achievements. In conclusion, there is one principle:
The most capable people have something singular about them, which sets him apart from ordinary people. When you find that a person is very different from the masses, then you should know that you have a good chance of finding a good person. 1. Learn to be lonely, no one will protect you as a treasure, the world is always lonely 2. Learn to be strong, in fact, a person can also live beautifully, laugh at yourself, cry to yourself 3, learn to be patient, shut up when you should shut up, be silent when you should be silent 4, learn to cherish, there are not many friends who know your heart, if you go again, you will really only be left with yourself 5, learn to be satisfied, the so-called contented people are always happy 6, learn to be independent, can no longer blindly trouble others, do your own things, the so-called asking for others is better than asking for yourself 7, Learn to be serious, serious to people, serious to things 8, learn to be cautious, don't know people you shouldn't know, don't meddle in things you shouldn't meddle in 9, learn to forget, can't live in the past, the memory has passed, continue with the present life 10, learn to give up, some people will never belong to themselves, then let go happily, don't drag the mud and water, so that not only affect others, but also exhaust yourself.
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Why did we, who were clearly Top Gun, begin to gradually become like many people after entering the workplace? What kills our dreams, and why can some people stay strong? There are two characteristics that the strong people in the workplace have, come and see if you have them!
Never give up and rise to the challenge.
What is the most precious thing in the workplace? Is it your academic qualifications? Or are you clever enough to learn or proud? Exclusive skills?
No, no, the most precious thing in the workplace is your determination, a determination to never give up and face difficulties!
The image of Luffy in "One Piece" is deeply rooted in the hearts of the people, his optimistic and brave heart is the source of happiness for our audience, no matter how strong the opponent is, how different in strength, every time he encounters difficulties, Luffy will choose to face the difficulties and without hesitation, and gradually "One Piece" has become one of the ways for many contemporary young people to find positive energy. We all want to be like Luffy, who works hard for their ideals. If you don't work hard when you encounter new opportunities, you will have no choice but to give up a lot of the beauty you could have in life and miss the beauty you yearn for.
Not working hard means losing. And when you enter the society, will you still retreat from difficulties when facing new opportunities as you did when you were a child? Don't want to take a new leap in your career path?
The workplace is the most cruel battlefield in life, if you want not to be eliminated, you must continue to innovate and learn, in order to better meet every challenge, not so much a challenge, but an opportunity, every moment to challenge yourself, is an opportunity to make you shine!
The strong never complain about life.
Every leaf in the world is unique, and each of us is also a unique existence in this world, we have unrestrained thoughts, and we have thinking, ways of doing things, beliefs and ideas that are completely different from others. There will be thousands of different views on the same thing in different people, and there will be thousands of ways to solve the problem, what does this mean? ——The attitude towards the problem determines the final direction of the problem!
Complaining is the most undesirable attitude we have towards things, because complaining is the most exhausting way of human willpower, it will affect your work efficiency through subconscious emotions, and subtly change you. A person's attitude towards work often determines the height of his work completion, with a positive, optimistic and challenging attitude to face every task in the work, even if you can not get the best results in the project, but you can also ensure the normal operation of the project and you can gain more knowledge, which is a challenge and learning process. The strong change their lives, and the weak will complain about life!
Everyone is moving forward with a heavy load, this society is changing at a rapid pace, if you are not careful, you will be eliminated! And when this society weeds you out, it is silent. Survival of the fittest is the rule of survival since ancient times, don't be a frog in warm water, if you don't want to be eliminated, you have to learn like the strong, become the strong and surpass them!
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Bai Yuan, the famous CCTV program host, said in a speech: You can classify people in four words, smart, lazy, diligent, and stupid. The first class is smart and hardworking, the second class is smart but lazy, the third class is lazy and stupid, and the worst person is diligent and stupid.
First-class people, intelligent and hardworking, this is an excellent characteristic. Yesterday, I saw an article about visiting Wang Han, the host of Hunan Satellite TV, and someone asked Wang Han, listening to your speech and hosting are full of strength and emotion, he must have extraordinary talent. Who knows, Wang Han's explanation is shocking.
First of all, he came from reading his language hosting skills, he said that he was very obsessed with reading, sometimes often from late at night to morning, forgetting to sleep, and his way of reading, is not a simple kind of wandering, but adding his own thinking, encountering his favorite language Lu Chen and sentences excerpted, and then organized into notes, in which those notes are retold with their own thinking words. In the practice of language speech, he would randomly choose an object to speak in front of the mirror for 3-5 minutes every morning. It is the accumulation of a long time that can make today's excellent Wang Han.
Being a first-class person is an ideal life. The second hail annihilation and the third class need to be guided, the social destruction is very small, and the most in society is the fourth type of people, confused, no sense of direction, is their main characteristic. There is a good saying, the direction is wrong, and the effort is in vain!
A tractor on a high speed can't outrun a Ferrari, but in a muddy field, a tractor must have done a Ferrari. If you get rid of the stupid character traits and find the right direction, it will still be a wonderful life.
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But all excellent people have some common qualities, probably in the following aspects:
First, they are very modest, always have an empty cup mentality, know their own shortcomings, as long as there are cattle or some aspects of the shining point, they will bow their heads and humbly ask for advice. And they are always willing to be in the company of cattle people, never arrogant, no one in sight.
2. Excellent people generally treat people well. But all outstanding people have the elegance of accepting all rivers, the understanding that no one is perfect, and they are prepared to learn from others' strengths and make up for their own shortcomings. Therefore, when they see some flaws, they will not compare with each other, they will empathize and make judgments, and they will always know the truth that they should not do to others what they do not want.
3. Excellent people are very self-disciplined. Time is their most valuable asset, and they don't waste time on meaningless things. They have a plan for what needs to be done, and they don't pat their heads and ask themselves when the previous thing has been done
What's next"? It's about arranging what you want to do a day earlier, a week earlier, or even a month or a year earlier. They make overall arrangements and rational layouts, which are not only very efficient, but also orderly.
Fourth, excellent people love to learn, they see the seams, read a lot of books, and will interact with more outstanding people to absorb the essence of their thoughts. Usually through books and more links to people, in order to progress faster.
Fifth, excellent people are good at thinking, have their own opinions, never follow the crowd, never follow the crowd. They have a scale in their hearts and the ability to judge independently. For the "swarm of bees", they laughed it off and never joined in the fun.
They all have an independent and complete self-esteem system, and they don't care about the long and eight short things in the mouths next to them.
Sixth, excellent people grow all their lives, never limited by age. They always think that they have room for improvement, and they never stop working hard and never stop climbing. Progress is a lifelong thing for them, and they never think it's time to rest and breathe.
Seventh, excellent people can endure loneliness, do not like to join in the fun, they have their own world, their own direction, their own goals, their hearts are very full, will not look left and right, half-hearted, and will not stagnate.
8. Excellent people are very serious, even to the point of being stubborn. They all have the trait of excellence, have the urgent desire to be better and better, and pursue the best until the best.
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I don't know, I can only say, this thing, I can't describe it, I especially want to be an excellent person, I will always be very confident, there is no lack of love, and I will give, and then there is someone worth interacting with in everyone's hearts, that is, there will be no shortage of friends who are dead friends, I won't hate eating vegetables, and I'm a little cute when I'm serious, and the whole person is fluttering, and I can laugh when I'm sad, and I continue to be sad after laughing, and my eyes are bright when I cry, and I snore gently when I fall asleep, and I have a few great skills, and I'm interested in fun. Addicted to life and unable to extricate yourself, you will have very strange thoughts, you won't squirt snot when you laugh secretly, even the front teeth are put together in the shape of love for you, the motivation is delicious, you will have a dream of pride, put on a hat, you can really move forward, I just want to be like this, very good.
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